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"Brother Royal, you said that you are empty, but you close your eyes, if you open your eyes and look at me, I don't believe your eyes are empty."
As soon as the 86th version of "Journey to the West" appeared, the king of the daughter country shocked all the audience.
She is elegant, beautiful and gentle, and although her heart is involved, she is not difficult for others.
Such an image fascinates countless people.
Therefore, Zhu Lin, who played the king of her daughter's country, also became popular with this role.
She is known as the "first beauty of the East" and has countless suitors.
However, whether it was the rich second generation or the son-in-law, Zhu Lin did not fancy any of them, and finally she married an ordinary worker.
I originally thought that such a desperate love, life after marriage will definitely be beautiful.
Unexpectedly, one of her wrong decisions will be regretted for life.
1.
In 1975, Zhu Lin came to the Chinese Academy of Medical Sciences for further study.
Because her appearance is as beautiful as a fairy, she is pursued by many boys.
But Zhu Lin, who was bent on learning, didn't pay attention to them at all.
Until the appearance of a man.
He is a worker at a state-owned enterprise in Beijing.
Once, he came to the Chinese Academy of Medical Sciences for work reasons.
In this way, he and Zhu Lin met.
Perhaps attracted by fate, the two quickly fell in love.
It is said that when you love someone, you have an inferiority complex in your heart, and Zhu Lin's boyfriend is like this.
Because Zhu Lin is very good and his family is also very good, and he is just an ordinary worker, the actual gap between them is too big.
So since going to the Academy of Sciences once, my boyfriend has never dared to go again, he is afraid that others will ask him about his work.
Once Zhu Lin went shopping with her boyfriend.
Her boyfriend always distances himself from her from time to time, but he is unwilling to walk side by side.
"What's wrong with you?" Zhu Lin asked with concern.
The boyfriend was silent for a moment, and finally spoke: "Zhu Lin, I think the gap between us is getting bigger and bigger.
As an ordinary worker, I cannot provide you with the same living and privileged conditions as those rich children.
I'm worried you'll be disappointed by this, and I don't want to be a burden in your life. ”
When Zhu Lin heard her boyfriend's words, her heart ached. She knew her boyfriend's inner confusion and anxiety, but she did not deny his value and merit because of this.
Zhu Lin gently held her boyfriend's hand: "I don't care about your identity and career, I only care about your character and quality." You are a courageous and responsible man, and you will make your own choices and strive for them. ”
When her boyfriend heard Zhu Lin's words, he felt extremely warm and touched in his heart.
He understood that the love between himself and Zhu Lin was not based on material conditions, but on mutual understanding and support.
In 1980, the two got married.
As soon as this matter came out, countless people talked about it, and they all felt that they were not suitable.
Once, when Zhu Lin was having lunch at work, she heard some colleagues talking about her marriage choice.
Some people said: "How can Zhu Lin marry an uneducated worker? ”
When Zhu Lin heard these words, she felt very uncomfortable in her heart.
Although her boyfriend does not have a superior family background and education like her, he has the qualities of honesty, hard work and practicality, and is a good man worthy of entrusting his life.
So Zhu Lin stood up and faced the discussion of her colleagues, she said without fear:
"The love between me and my husband is pure and does not require anyone's questioning and interference. He is an honest, hardworking and down-to-earth man, and I believe he can give me happiness and a stable life. ”
Zhu Lin's words suddenly made everyone present dare not discuss it anymore.
It also let countless people know that Zhu Lin loves her husband very much, and the two have a good relationship.
However, soon, the two faced a test of their feelings.
2.
In the same year, director Zhang Qichang planned to make a movie called "Traitor".
When choosing the role, Zhang Qichang saw the beautiful Zhu Lin, so he invited her.
"I haven't filmed, can it really work?" Zhu Lin has no filming experience, but she does not exclude the actor industry.
The director told Zhu Lin: "It's okay, we can teach you when we get to the scene." ”
In this way, Zhu Lin entered the crew.
While filming, Zhu Lin found that being an actor was really magical.
Because she can experience the lives of different people, she liked the actor industry, so the next year Zhu Lin took the Nortel amateur performance training class.
She gave up her medical profession to devote herself to the acting industry.
In 1982, Zhu Lin received an invitation from Sichuan Emei Film Studio.
It was hard to complete his dream of being an actor, but at this time Zhu Lin hesitated.
Because if she wants to go to Sichuan, she will have to be separated from her husband.
"I don't want to be separated from you."
"It's okay, you can go and realize your dreams, I'll wait for you to come back."
Listening to her husband's words so firm and confident, the big stone in Zhu Lin's heart fell to the ground, and she went to Emei Film Studio.
Here, Zhu Lin ushered in the peak of her career.
In 1985, when director Yang Jie was preparing for the TV series "Journey to the West", in order to find a suitable actor to play the "king of the daughter's country", she watched thousands of beautiful women, but she could not find a candidate to satisfy herself.
Director Yang Jie has high requirements for this role, and she needs an actress who is both beautiful, elegant and dignified to play the king of her daughter's country.
But none of all the test takers were able to fully meet her requirements.
At first, she had previously promised Yang Chunxia, who played the "white bone spirit", to let her play the king of her daughter's country.
But after thinking about it, Yang Jie felt inappropriate.
After all, the gap between the white bone essence and the king of the daughter country is too big, and they all show their faces, so that it is easy to wear in the eyes of the audience.
So Yang Jie broke her word, so she also had an unpleasant fight with Yang Chunxia for a long time.
Later, Yang Jie accidentally saw Zhu Lin's photo, the pair of almond eyes were extremely vivid and aura, and there was a beauty that was separated from ordinary dust.
"That's her!" Yang Jie clapped on the spot and let Zhu Lin play the king of her daughter's country.
I have to say that Zhu Lin's acting skills are indeed very good.
Whether it was seeing the Tang monk's heartbeat, or bidding farewell to the Tang monk's reluctance, Zhu Lin played it all into the wood.
So much so that after the broadcast of this drama, many people thought that Zhu Lin and Xu Shaohua, who played Tang Monk, were really in love.
On the one hand, there is a scandal, on the other hand, there is a TV series, and Zhu Lin's fame has risen and she has directly become popular.
With this popularity, Zhu Lin continues to struggle in the film and television industry.
She has starred in "Triumph at Midnight", "Far from the War Era" and so on.
In each drama, Zhu Lin has contributed good acting skills, so she also won the Golden Eagle Award for Best Actress and the first TV "Top Ten" Actor Award.
Various awards were soft, and Zhu Lin later became a national first-class actor.
Seeing his wife so good and brilliant, the husband who is still a worker is very unbalanced in his heart.
He wanted to be on the same line as Zhu Lin and didn't want to look too weak.
3.
So, Zhu Lin's husband decided to give up his iron rice bowl and go to the sea to do business.
Business is generally risky, so when he first made this decision, the whole family disagreed.
The parents also said: "It is most important for you two to have a child now. ”
Hearing this, Zhu Lin realized that she was in her thirties and was already late childbearing.
But at this juncture, the husband has to do business again, how can he have time to have children.
"If you want children, then I won't be busy with work first, your business is the most important."
Listening to her husband's gentle words, Zhu Lin shook her head: "At the beginning, you supported my dream, and now I also want to support you, the child's affairs will not be considered first, you can do what you want." ”
If her husband understands herself this way, she can also understand her husband.
In this way, the husband went to the sea to do business, and he opened an advertising agency.
Zhu Lin's husband was lucky.
It was the age of advertising, and they were on this cusp, and it was not a problem to sell big.
Later, Zhu Lin's husband successfully started a business, and the family became a rich family.
At this moment, the parents of both sides urged the two to have children again.
That year, Zhu Lin was 45 years old.
Seeing that their careers were stable, the little couple also began to think about their children.
But unfortunately, Zhu Lin has never been pregnant.
Later, she drank Chinese medicine to supplement her body, and even withdrew from the film and television industry, but her stomach still did not move.
"Do you want to try a baby?" Zhu Lin actually wants to be a mother.
But the husband felt that IVF was too sinful, and he could not bear his wife's suffering, so he decided to be a Dink.
At first, Zhu Lin didn't feel anything, and she was much more relaxed without children.
When I go out, I don't have so much worry in my heart.
But this thought did not last long.
In 2008, 56-year-old Zhu Lin attended the gathering of the "Journey to the West" crew.
Old actors who used to work together were present.
Originally, the big guys were very happy, until they all talked about their children and grandchildren.
Some people say that her grandson is already in elementary school, loves to laugh and play, and is very cute.
Others say that her son has just married and the family is lively.
Hearing this, Zhu Lin fell silent, and a regret slowly rose in her heart.
She suddenly wanted to have a child and experience the joy of being a mother.
But now, there are no more children.
This feeling of loneliness lasted for a long time.
In 2020, the people of the whole country were in crisis.
Zhu Lin and her husband are isolated at home, and it is very inconvenient for them to move after they are sick in their old age.
Drinking water and eating are difficult.
At that moment, they regretted not having children.
If there are children around, maybe they can still have a dependency, and they can be relaxed.
Now Zhu Lin is 71 years old.
She is now in good shape and often goes out with her husband to travel and walk, trying to solve her regret of not having children.
But every time they pass by some kindergarten, or see the scene of a family of three or four, they still regret it in their hearts.
In today's society, many young people are reluctant to get married and have children.
Maybe it's a problem from the family of origin, or maybe it's because of yourself and your work.
But whether you want children or not, in fact, you will regret it more or less later.
Now Zhu Lin regrets a wrong decision and regrets it for the rest of her life.
But things have passed, we can't live in the past all the time, people have to look forward.