Finally know how the bear child came about! When a child makes a mistake, parents not only do not blame, but also say to the child's face that the other party is not. If this is home education in today's society, then what hope can our next generation pin on?
A few days ago, when a woman was taking photos on the lawn, a boy lifted her skirt and touched her thigh, which stunned everyone present. So, the woman approached the boy's mother and wanted the other party to take good care of her child and apologize to herself. However, instead of blaming her child, the mother said that the woman "is against the custom when you wear these", which is simply inverting black and white and confusing right and wrong.
I was really angry when I saw this picture. First of all, the child made a mistake, but the mother did not have any sense of responsibility and introspection, but excused the child. Second, in a society, everyone should be responsible for what they wear, but that doesn't mean we should tolerate other people's aggression against us. However, the mother blamed the victim's dress, as if in her philosophy, the violation of others was caused by the victim herself. This notion is both absurd and dangerous.
In my hometown, there is an old saying that "if there is a mother, there must be a son", and this is also true. If this mother does not teach her child to respect others and follow the rules of society from an early age, then her child is likely to become a bear child without basic moral concepts. A good tutor is the key to cultivating children to become responsible and righteous people, only in this way can we truly let the next generation inherit and pass on good culture and values.
From this incident, we can see that parents still have a long way to go in terms of quality education. The attitude of parents will continue to subtly affect the child's words and deeds, and the parents' "don't bully children" but chase and beat people, such behavior has put the cart before the horse. A cultivated and cultured parent should stand in the perspective of the child's growth and future development, have patience and love to help the child grow, so that the child is healthier, more confident and positive, rather than restricting the child's free growth, let alone making the child think that as long as the adult is strong, he can do nothing.
This is also the lack of social moral work, parents pay attention to "suppressing sensibility and cultivating rationality", but ignore the importance of emotional education, so that children lose kindness, compassion, friendship and other virtues. It can be seen from this incident that the key to parent education is not to make children angry with other children, but to teach children to respect others. When this parent hits someone, instead of educating her son, she is showing him the wrong way of behaving, and if the child does not receive the correct guidance from an early age, it is likely to go astray and go down the wrong path, which is fatal for the child's future.
Parents are an important part of the cultivation of social morality, and should reflect on and correct wrong education methods, so that children can receive correct education from an early age and become a person who contributes to social development and has a sense of social responsibility. We call on parents to love their children, respect others, and use their own behavior as role models for students. Before doing anything, you must first think about the impact of your actions on others and society, and keep a good attitude when looking at everything, do not get too excited and lose your mind. Because a good parent can bring out an excellent child, so to share this incident, I hope that every parent can reflect on themselves, better carry out family education work, and jointly create a harmonious social environment.
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