On August 18, 2005, the famous laughing star Gao Xiumin died unexpectedly, which made many people difficult to accept, and she cooperated with Zhao Benshan and Fan Wei in the sketches "Selling Abduction", "Selling Cars", "Hourly Work" and so on, I don't know how many people have good memories of the New Year.
But Gao Xiumin is still gone, people miss her immensely, people miss her hearty laughter, extremely spicy and straightforward personality, and the acting skills that reveal endless life in simplicity.
The famous comedian actor, who was born in the black soil of Northeast China, left just like that, and died at the age of 46.
Gao Xiumin and He Qingkui
On the morning of August 20, Gao Xiumin's farewell ceremony was held at the Xiyuan Funeral Home in Changchun City, and all well-known figures in the entertainment industry such as Zhao Benshan, Fan Wei, and Song Dandan were present.
In addition, the common people also came to bid farewell to this famous laughing star. There were tens of thousands of people present at the time, and the funeral home even set up a special "special passage for the farewell ceremony of the famous performance artist Gao Xiumin". People still remember the moment when Gao Xiumin's body was about to be cremated at the end of the farewell ceremony, and the people in the farewell hall cried one after another.
The scene at the farewell ceremony was extremely sad, because the number of people was so large, so there was chaos at the scene, and even the large flower pot in front of the condolence hall was all crushed, and finally the door of the condolence hall was also squeezed to pieces, and many people who could not enter the condolence hall were crying outside.
Exactly 13 years later, Gao Xiumin's closest person, that is, the famous screenwriter He Qingkui who did not receive a marriage certificate, said with great regret: "She lied back then, and if she hadn't lied, she wouldn't have put herself in it." ”
This sentence is not fake, Gao Xiumin's character may have really influenced her fate, she was born in 1959, a rural girl through and through. She is the youngest child in the family, but she does not receive special care from the family. On the contrary, the name "Gao Xiumin" is synonymous with stubbornness in their family.
When she was a child, Gao Xiumin was very strong, although she was very thin at that time, but her voice was very good, and she liked her voice in ten miles and eight towns. So, at the age of 15, she started singing duo on the local "Charson propaganda team".
Later, Gao Xiumin felt very sad when she remembered that time, she said: "At that time, where did we have any microphones, that is, singing, that is, singing directly with our voice." ”
In Gao Xiumin's view, the people are the strictest audience, as long as there is a little mistake in singing, they will knock the actor off the stage, but as long as they sing well, it will usher in a full house. So much so that she did not have stage fright when she appeared on the Spring Festival Gala - no matter how powerful she is, there are fathers and fellow villagers.
Gao Xiumin's acting life is not without setbacks, when she was 19 years old, because Gao Xiumin was too thin. Yes, you read that right, compared to the familiar "big waist and round" Gao Xiumin in our eyes, she was actually too thin when she was young, and it is for this reason that she was rejected by formal art groups.
This incident did not discourage Gao Xiumin, and within a few years Gao Xiumin got married, and after giving birth to her daughter, her body size became fuller, and her artistic attainments were more exquisite, so Gao Xiumin was miraculously re-admitted to the troupe.
Gao Xiumin is a well-known character in the troupe, she has an unparalleled spicy and bold style, and soon became famous in the county. At that time, as long as everyone was asked in the tunzi, there was no one who did not know Gao Xiumin's figure, and sometimes even "without Gao Xiumin, the customer would not accept this group."
When she was a child, Gao Xiumin loved to sing in pairs, and her mother was also very supportive of her child. Once her mother didn't even eat eggs for half a year, and saved money to buy a tape recorder for Gao Xiumin, relying on a dozen or twenty tapes, Gao Xiumin listened to famous singers and studied seriously. Singing and singing, Gao Xiumin suddenly discovered a somewhat shy fact, that is, she suddenly felt that she was no worse than those famous artists.
When he was 23 years old, Gao Xiumin still remembered that as long as there was a relatively large meeting in the county, they would definitely be invited to perform in the big theater, and Gao Xiumin was the finale. At that time, Gao Xiumin did not dare to imagine that she would one day be able to ascend to a more powerful hall, she felt that she had become famous in the county like this, even if her life after that was like this, there was nothing to regret.
But Gao Xiumin meets someone who changes her destiny. This man is no one else, he Qingkui, the other half of her life.
He Qingkui was particularly bitter when he was young, and he always worked in the fields when he was in the production team, but he was a wonderful character, and he actually delayed production by telling jokes in the production team and had to be fired.
Later, He Qingkui worked as a fisherman for 20 years, but sometimes his talent is not so easy to die. In 1988, He Qingkui wrote the first two-person script to turn the play, and he specifically took this book to find Gao Xiumin, at that time, Gao Xiumin was more prestigious than He Qingkui, an unknown person, and naturally found Gao Xiumin in the hope that she could help him publish.
However, when Gao Xiumin took this book to the regiment commander to take a look, the regiment leader's eyebrows were twisted into several curves, and he directly scolded: "Look at what this thing is, take a good look yourself, messy." ”
Although he was derogatorily useless by the regiment leader, Gao Xiumin continued to plead:
"Regiment commander, regiment commander, take a good look, this is written by one of my fellow villagers, he is a farmer, it is really not easy. If you feel that you are not qualified, we will not perform the official performance, we will first let our people see it and let them evaluate. ”
The regiment commander looked at the pillars in the regiment who pleaded repeatedly, and finally relented, and said with relief, "Then try it." ”
It was really a coincidence, it was just in time for the Jilin Provincial Folk Art Festival, when the provincial inspection team came down to observe the work, but they did not expect to directly select He Qingkui's work, they thought that this work was really amazing, and they must let this show be on.
Later, He Qingkui's play directly won the first prize, and the troupe also gave He Qingkui a writing fee of 5 yuan, don't underestimate these five dollars, it is these five dollars that changed He Qingkui's fate. He was excited for one night, and for the first time he thought that he might not have to be a fisherman and tell jokes to fish and shrimp all day to relieve his depression.
Climb up the ladder
He Qingkui plucked up enough courage to find Gao Xiumin, and he said directly to Gao Xiumin, who was 12 years younger: "Sister, you helped me, you are definitely a good seedling to be an actor, especially as a sketch actor, I will make you a first-class laughing star in the country, you need to package, there is only one person under the sky who can package you, that is me." ”
Gao Xiumin believed it, and He Qingkui really did it.
In 1992, the two who regarded each other as confidants officially became partners, and although they both had a home for each other, this spiritual fit still allowed the two to separate from the past and officially come together. Gao Xiumin gambled everything on He Qingkui, she resolutely resigned from all positions in the art troupe, concentrated on following He Qingkui to work in other places, and became an ordinary sketch actor in the Jilin Provincial Quyi Troupe.
The road to fame is really difficult, He Qingkui worked hard to tailor "Password", "Score" and the script of the TV series "Farm December" for Gao Xiumin, but I don't know why, Gao Xiumin can't be popular, He Qingkui is a little anxious.
Doze off to the pillow, in 1993, He Qingkui met his own pillow, this person is the sketch king Zhao Benshan, and the cooperation between the two people slowly found a feeling.
In 1997, He Qingkui felt that the heat was almost over, so he asked Zhao Benshan and his wife Gao Xiumin to perform on the same stage.
It was a real hit, Zhao Benshan, Gao Xiumin, and Fan Wei formed the iron triangle. The 1998 sketch "New Year's Greeting" shocked all over the place, but few people know that if it weren't for He Qingkui, the immortal who caught the knife for the script, these three people might not really be popular.
People who know say that He Qingkui has aura, but He Qingkui said that his daughter-in-law Gao Xiumin has aura. In fact, the two people really support each other to live their lives, their family's economic income is increasing, Gao Xiumin never spends money indiscriminately after she has money, she is a master of financial management.
Moreover, Gao Xiumin also takes great care of his family in life, and the couple's biggest wish is to create a "Guinness Longevity Record of the He Gao Family", which can make the relatives related to the family happy and happy.
Once, on He Qingkui's birthday, Gao Xiumin paid a large amount of money to buy him a platinum ring, and later when He Qingkui saw the ring, he liked it very much. When Gao Xiumin celebrated her birthday, He Qingkui took out a platinum necklace and hung it around her neck, and Gao Xiumin even said whenever she saw people: "My old man is a golden old man, his priceless treasure, I won't change how much money I give." ”
When a reporter interviewed the two people, He Qingkui said with great affection: "Gao Xiumin is a tree planted in my heart, I want to water her well with my life's work, she is not a vase, but the other half of my life." ”
Speaking of moving, He Qingkui's eyes also had tears, he said: "If someone pulls Gao Xiumin's tree from my heart, then I won't be able to live, my heart will be broken into a thousand pieces and ten thousand pieces, if Gao Xiumin doesn't want to grow in my heart, I will definitely not ask for it... I can only return to nature with a broken heart. ”
But what He Qingkui didn't expect was that in the end, it was death that separated the immortal couple.
On August 9, 2005, He Qingkui received a long-distance phone call about his eldest son He Shuchun who died in a car accident, and the pain of losing his son in middle age made the man almost collapse.
He Qingkui knew that his wife Gao Xiumin had a heart attack, so he pretended that the child was just in a car accident and wanted to go over to see. He Qingkui took a plane to Guangzhou, under the guidance of the police to identify which is his son, when he really saw his son, the father cried bitterly, he really hoped that the person who died was himself.
That night, under Gao Xiumin's telephone questioning, He Qingkui finally told her the truth, Gao Xiumin was also extremely painful, she almost had a heart attack, but still endured the grief to comfort her husband.
After hanging up the phone, Gao Xiu sensitized that her heartbeat accelerated sharply, panicked, she immediately opened the quick-acting heart-saving pill in her pocket and ate it, she knew that her husband was dealing with the aftermath for her son, and she definitely couldn't add a little trouble to her husband.
End
But Gao Xiumin's pain was known only to herself, and on the night of the 17th, Gao Xiumin told the nanny before going to bed that she wanted to rest well, but the next afternoon, Gao Xiumin's niece saw that her aunt had not woken up and knew that something was wrong, so she immediately came to her room.
After opening the door, Gao Xiumin's body had become cold, and the medical examiner said that she died of a sudden myocardial infarction.
At this time, He Qingkui was still dealing with his son's aftermath, and he didn't know that his wife had also gone away.
The pain that a man has to experience in his life, He Qingkui has endured exponentially, he is old and tearful, and he can't get over this hurdle until now. Even 13 years later, He Qingkui will still burst into tears and say: "She lied to me, she said she was fine... She said she was fine, and now, she put herself in it. ”
He Qingkui still didn't say a word, that is, the death of his son took away part of his life in the world. Gao Xiumin's departure took away all the rest of him, and the rest of his life was endless pain every day.