26-year-old Mao Mao Tianshun gave birth to a big fat son a few days ago, which also caused a sensation in the entire village, and the in-law family can be happy, and they will come back to report the good news after giving birth. However, before a few days of happiness, the daughter-in-law is about to divorce, what is going on?
It turned out that after Mao Mao gave birth in the maternity and children's hospital that day, the nurse took the baby out to show the family, and the mother-in-law held her eldest grandson, very happy, Mao Maoshun gave birth to a 7-pound fat boy. After the mother-in-law finished hugging, Mao Mao's husband also rushed to hug, and then the mother and son forgot Mao Mao in the delivery room. And the mother and son were overjoyed, and directly took the child back to the village to congratulate relatives and friends. When Mao Mao was pushed out of the delivery room, the nurse did not see a family member coming to push the cart, and felt cold on the spot, and finally the nurse helped to help her to the hospital bed. This made Mao Mao very angry after giving birth, and he took his life to help you pass on the family, but my husband had a child and forgot his wife. After a few days in the hospital, Mao Mao was about to divorce when he returned home, and his mother-in-law and husband kept apologizing, which calmed things down.
Through the story, Min'er's mother has something to say, the ending of this story seems a little unexpected, but if you delve into the pattern of getting along between this family, you will find that this matter is not completely unexpected. Mao Mao's sense of loss after giving birth is very strong, and this loss does not come from the process of her birth, but from the feeling that she was forgotten when she needed her family the most. This happens to many new mothers – after going through the process of childbearing, physical and psychological changes make them more likely to need interaction and support with their families.
How can this be prevented?
- During the prenatal period, there should be adequate communication between the mother and the family members to determine who will be involved in the delivery and hospital stay.
- Couples should maintain contact during childbirth and ensure that mother and child are adequately cared for regardless of the stage of labour.
- If the mother experiences positive feelings in the process of raising her child, then she can share this emotion with the family members and make the family members feel their own importance, thereby reducing the feeling of loss similar to that in this story.
Prevention and treatment of diseases:
During pregnancy, postpartum and lactation, many women may face a variety of diseases, which requires them to understand and learn about prevention methods and treatments. These diseases are classified as follows:
1. Diseases during pregnancy
Gestational hypertension, pregnancy Down syndrome, iron deficiency anemia, etc
Prevention methods: The more important prevention methods are adequate sleep, diet and lifestyle. In addition, if certain diseases have already developed, the doctor will prescribe a corresponding treatment plan, do not delay treatment during pregnancy.
2. Childbirth-related diseases
Painful contractions, uterine bleeding, placental detachment, etc
Prevention methods: to go to the hospital for examination in time, regular examination during pregnancy can find problems in some cases and pass the intervention treatment, thereby minimizing the incidence of disease.
3. Postpartum related diseases
Postpartum depression, pelvic inflammatory disease, lumpy breasts, etc
Prevention and treatment: even women who have had a caesarean section after childbirth can be prevented immediately with antibiotics, of course, in the case of depression with the help of professionals such as psychologists.
At the end of the article, Min'er's mother wants to say that the solution in this story is just a mitigation method, and we should learn the prevention method while trying to find a way to solve the problem.