"Lu Yong's family is really pitiful, in less than a year, the two strong men in the family have disappeared, and there are two children under 10 years old in the family. Lu Heyong, secretary of the village branch of Lulou Village in Xinshi Town, Jiyang District, choked up. Lu Yong's family was originally a happy family of 6, a harmonious husband and wife, two lovely children, and the parents were in good health. At the end of 2018, a sudden change occurred in the family, Lu Yong and his father were diagnosed with cancer and died, leaving young children and elderly mothers in the family. After sending away her father-in-law and husband, Lu Yong's wife Fu Wei shouldered the obligation to take care of the elderly and children, and the family's debt of more than 200,000 yuan also fell to her alone.
The father-in-law and husband were diagnosed with cancer one after another
At the end of 2018, Lu Yong's father was hospitalized due to physical discomfort, during which he was found to have advanced esophageal cancer, in order to alleviate his father's pain, Lu Yong not only spent all the family's savings, but also owed more than 100,000 debts, but still did not save his father. "During my father-in-law's hospitalization, my husband was also diagnosed with advanced liver cancer, and my husband was very filial and obedient, afraid that the family would worry about the disease and keep it hidden." Fu Wei sobbed.
After sending his father away, Lu Yong's condition worsened and the pain was unbearable. "My son was afraid that I would not be able to accept the blow, so he kept it a secret from me, and if he hadn't heard about it from his neighbors, I wouldn't have known that my condition was so serious." Lu Yong's mother told reporters. At the strong request of his mother, Lu Yong agreed to go to the hospital for treatment, but the high medical expenses really made the poor family unable to support it. Helplessly, I can only choose to go home for conservative treatment. "Relatives and friends have borrowed everything they can, and we have no way." Fu Wei said.
According to Lu Yong's mother, one night, Lu Yong's illness was in excruciating pain, and Lu Yong took a knife and cut his ankles. "I was terrified, he was afraid of us doing it." This time, Lu Yong's mother could no longer control her emotions and cried out, "Guarding my son, my daughter-in-law and I did not dare to cry, and every day we wiped tears alone in the corner." ”
The family lives in an old house more than 30 years ago
In Lulou Village, the reporter saw that most of the villagers had built new houses, and Fu Wei's home was in an old small tile house courtyard next to the village committee. "Their house has been built for more than 30 years, and when I was a child, I used to play behind his yard." A villager recalled. In Fu Wei's home, the reporter saw that an electric fan was placed in the simple courtyard, and the wall skin in the house fell down to expose the wall skin. The only valuable home appliance in the family is the TV set that Fu Wei and his wife bought when they got married 10 years ago. The weather is hot, and the family can only rely on the electric fan in the yard to cool off.
"My mother-in-law herself has a bad waist, and now that such a big thing has happened in the family, my mother-in-law has suddenly aged a lot, and her waist can't stand up straight." Fu Wei said. Their family has not bought vegetables and meat for a long time, and the two children have no time to take care of them and can only be put in the relatives' house. "No matter how hard and tired the adults are, they are not afraid, my two grandchildren are still young, and the days to come will be difficult." Fu Wei's mother-in-law sobbed.
The village spontaneously organized donations to help them get through the difficulties
"Every time I see two babies in the village, I don't dare to look at them, these two babies are so pitiful." Lu Heyong said that there has never been a custom of "following the part" in their village, but after the villagers knew about the situation of Lu Yong's family, many people spontaneously organized donations.
"Their family is recognized as a good person in the village, but they didn't expect to have such a big thing, and sometimes when I go back to the village, I will buy them some daily necessities." Zhang Qinghong, the "first secretary" of Jinan Urban Construction Group, told reporters. In order to help the family get out of the predicament as soon as possible, Zhang Qinghong also contacted the support unit to fund 5,000 yuan to give them.
"The two laborers in the family are gone, and we can help a little bit." Zhang Qinghong told reporters. It is understood that in order to treat the father-in-law and husband, at present, Fu Wei's family has owed more than 200,000 debts, if you want to help this difficult family through the difficulties, please contact the 15666416214 Fu Wei himself.