A birthday celebration can make the two of them change from brother and sister CP to the opposite sex without a sense of boundaries?

Calculating the time, the matter of "Song Zuer celebrating Bai Yu's birthday" has been arguing on major platforms for several days. The focus of the discussion also developed from "Song Zuer Bai Yu really loves and kills two brothers and sisters" to "Is Song Zuer green tea"...

To tell the truth, Ah Bar really didn't expect a birthday celebration to cause such a big wave.

#看得出来, everyone has been quite idle lately #

The thing is this, as an actor who has collaborated with "Children of the Qiao Family", Song Zuer and Bai Yu have always kept in touch. Zuer also said when she was on the show that she has always been very close to her brothers and sisters in the play, and everyone has risen from colleague friendship to brother and sister family friendship.

April 8 is Bai Yu's 33rd birthday, so Song Zuer clocked in on Weibo to send blessings.

Song Zuer wrote: "I hope that you at the age of 45 will also be happy and love your sister." , In addition to blessings, Qiao Simei did not forget the yin and yang strange her eldest brother, accompanied by four daily photos with Bai Yu's rich expression.

As for the 45-year-old meme, fan science says there are two sayings.

The first is that the first time Song Zuer and Bai Yu met was in the variety show "Can't Forget the Restaurant", which revolved around the elderly with Alzheimer's disease, and there was a knowledge point at that time that "people may have the probability of dementia when they reach the age of 45".

The second is that Qiao Yicheng, played by Bai Yu, was 43 years old at the time of the finale, and it has been two years since the show has been broadcast, and Qiao Yicheng is just 45 years old. With the antecedent of "Can't Forget the Restaurant", Song Zuer's meaning may be that Bai Yu must remember her when she is 45 years old.

If nothing else, no matter what Song Zuer himself thinks, everyone is stunned anyway, and it is really good to call the feelings of brothers and sisters.

But based on the glorious record of Bai Yu and Song Zuer falling in love and killing each other in the past, Bai Yu may be on the way to carry a knife when he sees the sensitive number of "45 years old".

Sure enough, Bai Yu in the comment area:

Here are some calls from the people who are missing from the De Lu: Qiao Simei, did you hear the sound of white hair on your eldest brother's head coming out?!!!

The fight between the two unjust brothers and sisters on their birthdays directly caused netizens to turn over the daily life of their previous air shouting.

When the drama "Children of the Qiao Family" was announced, the four leading actors Lian Mai, Song Zuer said as soon as she appeared that she was not used to her eldest brother's handsome appearance, strange, and then Bai Yu kicked her out of the chat room with her backhand.

Song Zuer: I'll be at the hotel right away, wait for you to shut me up for ten seconds, and then I'll continue to complain about you online!

Bai Yu: Then I'll kick you now!

Hahahahaha, a live broadcast, Song Zuer was kicked out by Bai Yu once and banned once. It turns out that in Qiao's family, it is still the eldest brother who has the final say.

After the drama ended, their daily lives did not stop.

For example, it is clear that he is promoting the new drama "Thank You Doctor" for Bai Yu, and Song Zuer wants to scare him and say, "Very good doctor, just has a mouth".

Seeing that Bai Yu's new drama has a new sister, Song Zuer shouted, "I heard that you have a sister again?" , Bai Yu replied to her, "Don't worry, no matter how many sisters there are, you are still the one who wants to beat the most."

Song Zuer and Mao Xiaotong participated in the event together, Mao Xiaotong sent a lot of beautiful pictures, Bai Yu brought Song Zuer's "ugly photos" to the scene, and asked her to teach Song Zuer how to take pictures.

To be honest, as an audience, it is difficult for us to tell whether there is an element of acting here, but what can be seen with the naked eye is that the two of them have not only achieved the purpose of promoting new dramas for each other, but also the mutual history of the two has been constantly updated, so that the audience can continue to have drama.

#最最关键的是, this interaction did not cause negative emotions in the audience, and most netizens liked it #

But after a long time, some people smashed something else, and this birthday celebration became an outbreak.

Some netizens found that Song Zuer's expression was not displayed when she first posted on Weibo, and it was only after the second re-editing that the expression was displayed. That is to say, she first blessed Bai Yu in WeChat, then copied this text and pasted them from WeChat to Weibo.

Some netizens who feel that they see the essence through the phenomenon are really ambiguous in saying that the phrase "love sister" is really ambiguous. No matter how you enter the drama and how good the relationship is, no one will send each other's birthday blessings as "love me", right?!

Not to mention, Bai Yu has a real girlfriend. Although Bai Yu and Liu Mengmeng have not officially announced over the years, hugging Reuters and commuting videos from time to time can show that the two are still talking.

From meeting in the online drama "Diary of Disi" in 2013 to today, Bai Yu is still in low-key love after becoming popular, counting the time, they have been in love for nearly ten years. The relationship is so good that even Liu Sledgehammer, a paparazzi who specializes in exposing the love affair of artists, said that they are a rare couple with stable feelings in the entertainment industry.

So think about it from another angle, if your boyfriend, who has been in love with you for nearly ten years in real life, comes out of a girl who shouts "brother and sister" all day, and says "I want to love my sister in the future" on the man's birthday, how do you feel?

Because of this relationship, some netizens felt that Song Zuer's behavior exceeded the normal social distance, and there was no sense of proportion. Bai Yu on the opposite side, as a person who neither refused nor resisted, was beaten into a scumbag.

In order to hammer Song Zuer to death is a green tea woman without a sense of boundaries, Bai Yu obviously has an object and Song Zuer is not clear, and their past interactions have been repeatedly amplified + discussed.

#主要的集火对象是宋祖儿 #

When Song Zuer and Wang Anyu Lianmai promoted the TV series "Fly with You to the Wind", they happened to be in time for domestic entertainment artists to walk the GQ red carpet. Wang Anyu asked her, "On the GQ red carpet, who do you think is the most handsome?" , Song Zuer did not hesitate to "Brother Bai Yu".

Wang Anyu worked hard again and said, "Who do you think is the most handsome?" This time I want to answer three words", almost welded his own name, and Song Zuer on the opposite side replied: "It's Bai Yu."

The Song-style work circulated by the classic Yong of Internal Entertainment: "Is Bai Yu".

Song Zuer posted a Weibo to condemn Bai Yu for not visiting the class, created the topic #Why Bai Yu didn't come to see Song Zuer#, and asked Bai Yu's studio to post a picture before Aite her.

In the posted picture, there is a chat record with Bai Yu. Song Zuer asked him why he didn't come to visit the class, Bai Yu said I work, you have to learn to grow up and be independent, Song Zuer: I don't, I need the care of my family.

The most explosive thing in that set of pictures is that Song Zuer sent a text emoji with the text: If you don't get your brother, you will destroy him...

Let's just say that it's hard not to think of some sick pulling literature...

It can be seen that Song Zuer really cares about Bai Yu's failure to see her. In a magazine interview, Song Zuer described her mood in detail.

The following is the original text of Song Zuer's interview:

He said yes to come. That day, I was filming in the courtyard, and I couldn't help but pay attention to the commercial car driving in the distance, and I always felt that he was about to appear. I waited a long time before he sent a message, because the crew suddenly had to shoot the next day's scene in advance, and it couldn't come.

I once thought that he said this to surprise me, and he would suddenly appear with a cake...

Family, don't say anything else, this paragraph is really like reading a romance novel in Jinjiang, what is this "you said you are coming at four, I have been looking forward to it since three" script!

Although Abar clearly believes that it is very bad to indiscriminately put a "sense of proportion" hat on others, but just looking at this paragraph, it is too much to love a little girl...

#圈重点: Song Zuer also said that her mother also likes Bai Yu #

For Bai Yuren did not arrive at this matter, Song Zuer also cued during Lian Mai's live broadcast. In the first round, it was Song Zuer who said that Bai Yu had never visited her class, and Bai Yu listened very favorably and said "where is it".

Then in the second round, Song Zuer said her attitude, her opinion was: "Do I care about that little gift and cake?" I don't care, it's more important for big brothers to come than these things."

#真要命啊, in context, it's better to see what's going on #

Let's just say that the interaction between Song Zuer and Bai Yu, some netizens feel that "if you like it, you like it, don't use brothers and sisters as a shield". After all, it is the same brother and sister combination, and Mao Xiaotong and Bai Yu can clearly feel that the relationship is good but there is a gap.

But as soon as it was changed to Song Zuer, it was she who said to Bai Yu directly: "We are more suitable for a couple, I want to get married and you love the brain, get acquainted early, we will not embark on this unjust road."

Although these words are said through identity cards, it makes sense to be put into variety show stories, but they are inexplicably a little strange.

In short, the interaction between Song Zuer and Bai Yu, a wave of people think that they must have something, especially as Song Zuer, who knows that the other party has a girlfriend and takes the initiative to post it.

In the past few days, Song Zuer has been scolded over and over on major platforms, saying that she was not hung on the hot search because of the filter of her debut as a child star, otherwise this behavior is similar to the nature of Yang Zi Liu Xueyi eating cake together, Zhang Xueying and Qin Junjie drinking a bowl of spicy hot together.

Some people also took out Ying Caier's angry speech back then, so that Song Zuer could learn from it, scolding her, "Don't think that Bai Yu's girlfriend doesn't speak, it's right for you to do this."

Another wave of people thinks that you can not look at everything, a pure brother-sister relationship or a friendship because of the play, is said by you as if you are engaged in anti-German literature.

The generous interaction between Song Zuer and Bai Yu is maliciously interpreted as female tea scum. If they don't interact, you have to say that avoiding suspicion, the relationship collapses, and where there is true friendship in the entertainment industry is all superficial work... I've got you to say everything.

Netizen: Zhou Xun and Chen Kun have a close relationship like that, why don't you spray ??? Xie Na has called Jiong Jiong for more than ten years, why don't you see you spray ???

A bar watched for a while, two groups of people fought back and forth, and the final result was that although Song Zuer and Bai Yu were not carried to the hot search punishment station, they also stood on the major platforms for several days.

Quoted from their words, it has now been discussed: how should women call older male friends, should friends of the opposite sex hang out together, how the emotions of men and women differ in orientation... To tell the truth, just looking at these topics, Abar is already tired.

As an indispensable part of interpersonal communication, the sense of boundary is not only related to oneself, but also involves partners, social relationships, family and other factors, if you really want to talk about this topic, everyone can write a book "On the Importance of Border Sense".

But in addition to the sense of boundary, as far as the specific matter of Song Zuer's birthday celebration for Bai Yu is concerned, there is also a layer of over-interpretation problems.

The artist clocks up Weibo, and feels that she is in love; When she called out to her brother, she felt that she had some plans for her brother; Drying clothes for business, it feels like a secret poke to show affection; The two actors who have worked together posted Weibo on their front and back, and the "little couple behavior" in the comment area was a water; Help good friends promote the new drama, the number of posts is more, and they will be said to "the circle of friends is really wide, really a male/female sea king"...

Our netizens in domestic entertainment, judging the case all rely on feelings, seem to never believe that there are objective coincidences and true friendships in the entertainment industry.

#照这个事态, the Tang Three Treasures are now all said to be a love triangle #

A bar is not speaking for Song Zuer, after all, we don't know who she likes and who she hates, and A bar just through her matter, accidentally found that internal entertainment seems to be in addition to CP, can not tolerate other combinations.

As one of the most eye-catching and discussed means, CP is indeed a good way to soar, but it should not be the only solution.

If everything an artist sends is to be over-interpreted, then we deserve to be entertained in.