When you understand that things are impermanent, you will not be ostentatious

Slowly walk through the youth, gradually understand that plain and indifferent is the truth, after experiencing the wind and rain, only to understand open-mindedness and maturity, into the heart, care for relatives, coordinate personnel, sour, sweet and bitter, taste life.

Maybe seeing the essence of life clearly, but also not looking down on the pride and frustration, all the unhappiness, all the sadness, a cup of light tea, is enough to warm people's hearts.

Understand tolerance, understand tenacity, no longer be strong and contentious, but quiet and not arguing, choose to simply settle themselves, wear their favorite clothes, and live the life they want with people who are comfortable with them.

Entering the year of standing, I gradually understood that happiness is the presence of family, some people are worried, and there is a home to return.

In the adult world, it is actually the aftermath of life.

In the year of establishment, I only want to seek stability, have more time to take care of the family, no matter how much suffering I suffer, how much I suffer, I am willing, because there is love.

Thinking of Sun Shaoping in "Ordinary World", he gritted his teeth, suffered, and suffered, but for the sake of his family, for his wife and children, he always insisted on it.

Before seeing a video, a fifty-year-old uncle, carrying rice, is only one meter and five meters tall, but each time carrying rice is 9 bags of 30 pounds of rice.

Many people look at it and express their heartache, but the uncle said, you are young and do not understand, until I am this age, I know the pressure of life.

When people reach middle age, there are old people, there are small ones, the pressure will never be reduced, in order to give the family the best life, in order to make the family feel that the years are quiet, they are tired again, shoulder the responsibility on the shoulders, and can only do their best.

I have heard such a sentence: "People are unbearable in middle age, and they are not easy to die in life." ”

Gasping for pressure, there is work to fight outside, there are wives and children and parents to raise, who can be alone, it is difficult to cross by themselves.

Slowly understand that in life with wind and rain, holding an umbrella for yourself, only by doing your best can you exchange for the happiness of your family.

Middle-aged people have experienced the relentless baptism of the years, tasted the sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty taste, and then melted the mood in the clutch of sorrow and joy, replaced impetuousness with peace, with rational thinking, continuous tempering, and continuous maturity.

When you walk into middle age, look back on the past, the road is confused, it is inevitable with a bit of desolation and bitterness, and there is sweetness in the bitter taste.

Some people go out all year round, only during the New Year, they meet with their families in a hurry, look at the old trees with dead vines, look at the people with small bridges and flowing water, but they themselves look at the end of the world in the sunset.

When people reach middle age, pity is inevitable, but the road ahead still continues to go, only to walk every step down-to-earth, how easy is it to be a backpacker?

Walking on the road of life, we are moving towards the side of the light, passing through the mountains, passing the ocean, still facing the morning sun, sending the sunset in the evening, and fighting hard. This is called happiness has nothing to do with rich and poor, but is connected to the heart.

When you understand the impermanence of the world, you will not be ostentatious, but learn to go with the flow, forgive reality, let go of yourself, let go of others, let go of the past, feel the sun in your heart, and admire the time.