In 2011, Li Min, who had just been newly married, generously talked about her husband's ex-wife and two daughters in an interview program, and her words were full of confidence and ease.
She does not exclude that Le Yumin has a history of marriage, let alone harshness about his past.
Because her ex-wife sister is a very good person, she never thought of taking her mother's position in the hearts of her children, and everyone is friends.
Li Min's thinking is very advanced and his approach is very bold, but is it really not self-touching?
The relationship between Li Min and Le Yumin is not bright, the third party took the position, squeezed out the main room, and abruptly separated the happy family of the two children.
As the saying goes, "everything is inseparable from karma", after entering married life, all the hardships hit her alone.
The husband habitually cheats, treats her like a stepdaughter of a sister, and turns her face and does not recognize people.
In order to save the marriage, a generation of singers was reduced to test-tube birth props, and now they are separated for half a year, and they have lost 80 pounds in grief.
She has fallen to the point where she is now, is she deserved? When will she regain her pride as a pioneer in the music world?
01. The left leg suffered from congenital disability, and showed healthy and sexy beauty after recovery
Li Min has three sisters in her family, and as an old man, she likes to be the eldest sister and the ass worm the most.
Introverted, always sullen with sisters and friends, this posture is like a very small mute.
At home, he became a riot again, and the freshly baked pork chop bun was put on the dining table by his mother, looking around to make sure that there was no one.
The small mouth opened wide and gnawed into the belly, and the little belly was obviously fat, but it was still not full, so he secretly ate the coconut candy that the second sister had saved for a long time.
Just two years old, she became a white fat girl, running up and down with fat cheeks and babies trembling up and down.
The kindergarten held a charity bazaar, and her mother knew that she loved sugar, so she specially baked thirty chocolate cakes, and if they were all sold, they could earn five yuan, just enough to buy a full set of Journey to the West for children in the mountains.
Put the chocolate in the drawer and wait another ten minutes before going to the playground with the teacher.
Li Min wanted to steal one several times, but when she thought that this was a good deed, she swallowed saliva and ran to the toilet, out of sight and mouth, she would definitely be able to endure.
Back in the classroom again, the schoolbag was thrown on the floor, the familiar sugar paper was all around the table, the chocolate was all eaten by the same table, Li Wei cried, fluttering his calves and kicking people.
The little boy dodged quickly, and Li Wei's body shook and fell, but this time after his knees hit the ground, he couldn't stand up anymore.
The doctor told her mother that her left leg was not very optimistic, had not developed well since her mother's pregnancy, had a serious hip dislocation, and when the child grew up, she was afraid that she would grow long and short legs.
Learning that a medical facility in San Francisco specializes in treating the disease, Mom decided to take her husband's pension and move abroad.
The two eldest daughters are very sensible, and repeatedly promised that they would study English seriously and integrate into the local school early, and their mother was only responsible for taking care of her younger sister.
When the steel pipe ran through the heel and the entire left leg was plastered, Li Min completely lost his freedom.
Trapped in a children's hospital bed every day, opening his eyes is an endless infusion of fluid, closing his eyes, and remembering the days when he could run and jump, Li Min became more and more depressed and self-contained, and now he really became a little dumb.
Occasionally when I woke up at dusk, I just heard that Mother Qin, who was accompanying the bed next door, was singing the duo. If you are interested, you will also bring the radio and dance a song and dance for the big guys.
Although foreigners do not understand Northeast folk art, they are all fresh, and soon the whole ward is lively, which is also a rare moment for Li Min to grin.
After being discharged from the hospital and recuperating at home for several years, Li Min finally walked freely and resumed normal life, but after all, he was still no stronger than ordinary people.
Until high school, he obviously liked dance from the bottom of his heart, and always fantasized that he could bring joy to the people around him like Aunt Qin, but he was strictly banned by his mother from participating in cultural performances.
She rotates various class duties, and she likes the work of class leader the most.
Organize activities every once in a while, either taking everyone to bowling, golf, movies, amusement parks, and picnics in the fall.
Whenever she was surrounded by the crowd, she felt that she was the most different person.
At the age of 16, the two older sisters held the beautiful trophy of the "American Girl Beauty Pageant".
When she hugged her mother excitedly, Li Min suddenly felt that everything in school was a trick, and she also wanted to show her beauty.
Li Min is no taller than her two older sisters, but her appearance is much better than them, so when her mother knew her thoughts, she decided to agree to her participation in the "Miss Chinese Girl" competition organized by the school.
The school dress is too loose, and there is no personality, directly find the mother's old clothes, click a few scissors, a good long skirt into a super short dress, and specially wear a red wig cover, the whole person is healthy and sexy.
When the judging results came out, she actually won the championship, changed back to black curly hair in time, and her appearance was much purer at once. Many scouts saw the contrast between the two in their eyes, and after the game, they urgently handed over the invitation contract.
Hong Kong TVB is also among them, and it promises that as long as Li Min signs a contract with herself, there will definitely be a place for her in the rookie singing competition next year, and when her appearance is successful, she will earn at least five figures a year.
Just returned to China, Li Min always missed home, and all his living expenses were spent on three cross-ocean calls every day.
Colleague Zhang Ruizhe liked her such a personality as a foreign girl, and she offered her diligence when she had nothing to do, which greatly calmed her empty heart.
But after her first love in life, met a gossip reporter, and was pressured by the company, Zhang Ruizhe abandoned her without hesitation.
But afterwards, Li Min learned that the other party was a prodigal son with a flower heart, and when he saw more beautiful wildflowers, he naturally picked it into his arms.
Although she is young, she can afford to put it down, not to mention that she disdains to rob men with others, and it is right to break up.
As the saying goes, bye bye bye, the next one is more well-behaved.
With the sale of Li Min's first album, 1.8 million CDs were sold in just three months, and after the status of Asian fashion diva was established, the rain of love swept in!
02, rejected Wang Leehom, waved goodbye to Jay Chou, and fell in love six times without success
"Like you, I grew up in the United States, and I won the golden song double king this year, why am I not worthy of you?" Wang Leehom took advantage of the drunkenness of the wine bureau and suddenly asked Li Min loudly why he did not accept him.
Li Wei has mixed tastes in his heart, the other party can indeed give him a sense of security, but he is two years younger than himself, and his eldest sister often says: Sister and brother love is not grounded and can't go far.
I also think that the bone-eating heart brought by the first love, if it does not start, it may be the best ending.
Since his debut, Li Min has divided his energy into two halves, and while making a song in China, he has also taken a small step in the European and American circles.
A song "True Lover YOU & ME" made her the only well-known Chinese singer in the foreign music scene in one fell swoop, and was invited by Michael Jackson to participate in a charity concert.
Then Jay Chou became a little prosperous, out of sympathy for his talent, Li Mintuo invited him to a party, and after getting acquainted, he always took the initiative to give his music advice to solve his current confusion.
But unfortunately, Li Min's peach blossom luck is too strong, and this relationship, on the grounds that they are busy with their careers and have no time to maintain their relationship, regret to say goodbye to each other.
broke up with the romantic talent and threw himself into An Zhijie's arms non-stop. But after confirming the relationship, I learned that my boyfriend turned out to be two years younger than him.
After the end of the love, Li Min found that the other party was not only clingy, but also immature in behavior, and going to a place could offend a large number of people.
Occasionally showing love for small surprises also makes her overwhelmed, with this time, it is better to write a few more songs.
This year, Li Min is 26 years old, although he is already the light of Chinese in the eyes of foreign fans, and the electric buttocks diva of the domestic music scene.
But the emotional aspect has not been settled, and the marriage seems to be thousands of miles away from her.
Later, Li Min spent eight years testing true love before she was at ease to form a family, but unfortunately, her awkward thinking that is both traditional and open, doomed this marriage to be distorted!
03, 36-year-old married foreigner husband, 9 times test tube can not conceive children
Although she has been in love for a lot, Li Min is influenced by her mother's thoughts and does not talk to boys casually since she was a child.
When she grew up, her mother always told her that if she was sure of the other party, she must first report it to her mother.
At the same time, he is deeply educated in the West, has an open living environment, longs for romance in his bones, and yearns for freedom.
Therefore, Li Min thinks that he can fall in love casually, but if he wants to get married, he must take it home for his family to examine, and then take the next step if he is qualified.
It wasn't until she was 36 years old that she first had the idea of meeting each other's parents after meeting a foreign man fifteen years older than herself.
At a private party, Le Yumin took the initiative to talk to Li Min under the guise of being the number one fan.
Li Min didn't want to pay attention to it, so he let him talk freely on the side, occasionally greeted a few words, and when he parted, casually handed him the assistant number.
For nine months, Le Yumin squeezed into Li Min's life little by little, and before proposing, except for her work time, every moment of her memories was his figure.
Looking at the nine-carat wedding ring in front of him, Li Min was not moved, the love of a 4 billion overseas president is only worth a five million diamond ring? Himself turned out to be so cheap?
Moreover, she just learned that Le Yumin actually had a family, and two ghost and spirit daughters, and she was also a well-known musician, and it was impossible to be a concubine.
Li Min thought that as long as he divorced his wife, even if it was a third-married man, she didn't care, and when the two girls officially accepted her, she would get the certificate at any time.
This drag is eight years, and she has become sisters with her ex-husband's two daughters.
Even his ex-wife and sister have become best friends, and as long as they are free, they exchange phone calls to greet each other's lives.
Li Min was confused for a while, she was a meddler who destroyed the original family, how could she be friends with the outcast?
What's more, although Le Yumin's two daughters are young, they are also sensible and remembered, and they must know that she broke up her originally happy home, and now she gives her a good face, which is probably to please her father.
Sure enough, in 2011, Li Min ended her eight-year love run and officially became the third wife of Le Yumin, and her married life was far from being as happy as imagined.
She has infinite scenery in front of the stage, and she knows that her husband has cheated one after another, and gradually becomes a bitter woman.
The stepdaughter she regarded as her own, also concealed her, and laughed at her behind her for being stupid and naïve, and snatching her father back then is now retribution.
Li Wei thought about it, could it be that he didn't give birth to Le Yumin, and his husband's heart always hung high in the sky, and the wind blew to other people's homes?
So, from her marriage until 2018, she underwent nine IVF surgeries until she was 43 years old.
She was no longer fit to give birth, and she couldn't stand the pain of the needle piercing the skin, and it was time to give up.
In 2020, Le Yumin cheated again, and this time Li Min chose to forgive again.
But her girlfriend couldn't help but hug her up, saying: "This man is scumbag, he always brings a third party and friends to dinner, and Li Min is completely faceless."
In February 2023, Li Min suffered an old injury to his left leg, which seriously affected his normal life.
During this operation, she was accompanied by her relatives, mother and two sisters, who took turns to take care of her day and night.
The husband and two stepdaughters did not know where, they did not show up the whole time, allowing Li Min to play with the almost dead leg nerve on the operating table.
Until Valentine's Day, Li Min suddenly released a new song called "Sadness", and the accompanying text was also very meaningful: "Leaving is the best arrangement".
This may be hinting at her marriage!
Epilogue:
When she was newly married, Li Mingui was the queen of the song, and Le Yumin fully supported her to attend major music events, and said: "Enterprising women are the most beautiful."
But just a year after getting married, Le Yumin changed his face, and he refused to show Li Min.
The parties who are deeply trapped in love and cannot extricate themselves mistake the bondage for "being loved", and proudly tell the media: Now when I come out to work, I will ask my husband for leave.
But she is a woman who was loved by Jay Chou, once had a personal relationship with Michael Jackson, and has a place in the European and American markets, and is now a career-oriented strong woman worth more than 100 million.
So, when she tasted the pain of marriage, she began to be active in front of the screen again.
From 2022, he will first appear on the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, sing the theme song for "Walking on the Moon Alone", and join "China Rap Peak Showdown" in the second half of the year and become the mentor of "The Voice of China".
Not only did she resume work, but she also cut everyone to the chase: "I will no longer cling to my past self, and I will use my life experience and emotions to sing every story." ”
The young Li Min became a 47-year-old her, and maybe when she sang at the age of seventy or eighty, she would no longer sing.
But before, she has found herself, as for marriage, feel free and settle!