Parents often say: "A man who can't control his temper can't marry", this sentence has some truth, this kind of person often belongs to the type of "nest horizontal, outside bear" type, often difficult to achieve. If you encounter such people, please be cautious, it is best to stay away!
What happened
Recently, an infuriating incident happened in Anhui Fuyang Maternal and Child Health Care Hospital! A woman had a caesarean section because she felt that breastfeeding was inconvenient and did not plan to breastfeed, but forgot to tell the doctor, and the doctor still gave her lactation according to the default process.
In the middle of the night, the woman had a fever due to swelling, because her husband was not around, and she was worried about affecting her husband's rest, so she did not tell him. As a result, the next day, his husband came to visit him in the hospital and found that his wife was very angry because of the fever of swollen milk. He first went to the doctor in charge of milk inducing, but the doctor was not there that day and no one was found.
After returning, he poured all his anger on his wife, and cursed at her wife: "Are you brainless, are you blind!" A series of obscenities appeared one after another, and he even insulted his wife for 3 hours in a row! Pity this woman who has just given birth, not only has to endure the severe pain of the wound, but also endure the bitter scolding of her husband!
During the period, the nurse came to persuade and said: You go to the door first to calm down, she has just finished the operation, and the lower incision is still very painful. As a result, he bluntly said: I don't need to calm down! She hurts her to death! It's hard to imagine that such words came from the mouth of a father, or to his wife who had just given birth, it was really unconscionable!
Netizens are hotly discussed
In this regard, netizens exploded the pot, this time regardless of men and women, public opinion one-sidedly accused the man!
Some people suggest that the woman keep the recording and other relevant evidence, and protect herself during confinement to prevent domestic violence! If there are signs of domestic violence, please call the police as soon as possible and leave this scum early!
There are also people who are worried about the woman's body, after all, women will experience a period of psychological loss after giving birth, and their husbands will be abused for 3 hours just after giving birth, and ordinary people can't bear it, and it's easy to get depression!
More netizens who are not too big said bluntly: Ask the woman if she needs a large refrigerator, if not, you can send one for free!
Personal opinion
Looking at the details, you can see a person's character, and the man is typically the kind of person who does not manage emotions.
When this kind of person encounters a problem, he will often first attribute the responsibility to his family, scold his family regardless of the occasion, and be a soil bully at home! But this kind of person is often very intimidating outside, afraid of things, and it is difficult to achieve something!
The wife just gave birth, did not experience the slightest physical and mental pain of the wife, but because of a little thing, insulted the wife in public for 3 hours, it is difficult to imagine that the woman's marriage is happy, it is estimated that there is no less scolding in ordinary life, the family status must be unequal, if you encounter this kind of marriage, what is the reason for continuing to insist?
As the saying goes: men are afraid of entering the wrong business, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, and they are not good with others, ruining their lives! People with uncontrolled emotions and extreme personalities are best to stay away early, because many tragedies happen when emotions are out of control!
Treating husband and wife as equals is the basis for family happiness. Women are not only responsible for the tools of childbirth, they are pregnant in October is already hard, please be kind to every woman who inherits for you, they give up their youth and beauty in order to give birth, sacrifice too much, please take good care of them!