When I first saw this, I just wanted to scold this man as a personal scumbag and unworthy of being a husband and a father [despised] [despised]
On April 9, a man in Fuyang, Anhui Province, cursed his daughter-in-law who had just had a cesarean section for three hours in the hospital, and his words were unbearable, "Your mother, cry and cry, you are crying, don't cry, I will scold you to death!" ”
The nurse persuaded on the side: "You go outside to calm down, she has just finished the operation, and the cut below hurts." The man actually replied: "She hurt her to death."
According to insiders, during the hospitalization of the mother, because it was inconvenient to breastfeed, she did not intend to breastfeed, and the doctor did not know the situation and urged her to breastfeed when she was contracted. At that time, her husband was not there, and the mother did not tell her husband afterwards, until she had a fever in the middle of the night, she told her husband about it, and her husband tried to find a doctor but did not find it, so he scolded the mother for more than 3 hours.
Seeing this, I couldn't help but want to break my mouth and curse, how could there be such scum, and even married a daughter-in-law, he is not worthy of being a husband and a father. In this kind of public place, you can ignore the persuasion of others, scold the mother for a small thing, not to mention what the mother will face when she returns home, no wonder there are so many girls who do not want to get married in today's society, if you really want to be unlucky to meet this kind of scum, you really want to live your life without getting married and not having children.
Originally, giving birth to a baby was a great joy in life, and it was also a disaster day for a new mother. For a woman, it is not easy to give birth and raise, starting from pregnancy morning sickness, as well as various discomforts such as puffiness and frequent urination during pregnancy, which are very difficult, and then to the baby's croaking. The mother has just given birth to a child by caesarean section, and her body is very weak, including psychological fragility.
As a truly cultured man, even if he can't care and love for his mother, he should not be able to scold the mother, let alone scold for three hours.
Everyone knows that the mother has just given birth, the hormone level in the body is not particularly stable, at this time not only can not get the husband's love, but also scolded by the husband, it is easy to suffer from postpartum depression.
I hope that this man can take on the responsibility of being a husband, more patience, more understanding, more tolerance of your wife's emotions, you have to know that at this time, what your wife needs most is not your excessive verbal stimulation, but your love and care, only then will she feel full of security. I also hope that this mother can bravely and strongly go through the difficult time after childbirth and live smoothly.