"I want to create a couple comic that belongs to the two of us, you are my heroine", tonight (December 26) "Do Not Disturb", female guest Li Lu gained an exclusive romance. How important is it to be in love? Male guests will tell you from their own experiences. Another boy with outstanding appearance appeared on the scene, but communication with people is a weak rib, and the three teachers agreed that in the process of choosing a mate, it is more important than the appearance of two people to communicate and get along.
"This romance belongs only to you!"
Male guest Li Leo is an illustrator who has always wanted to create his own couple comics, record the bits and pieces of the two people's love, and already has a long-admired "heroine" in his heart. This "heroine" is the female guest Li Lu on the stage, "When you returned to the 10th anniversary special program of "Do Not Disturb", I was particularly impressed with you, I have been following you for a long time, not only watching the program, but also reading your Weibo every day, knowing that you like to take pictures, like to dance, like food. I've always wanted to create my own couple comics, and I can't help but make you the heroine of the comics. I don't want you to stand so tired on stage in high heels all the time, come with me! ”
There is no doubt that the heartwarming girl of the male guest is Li Lu, and Li Lu also insists on leaving the lamp until the end, "I am really grateful to "Do Not Disturb" and the three teachers, those who returned to the scene on the 10th anniversary are the only ones left, I have been sticking to it, waiting for me. Today is also very strange, I changed a different style than before, and the person suddenly appeared. If I can go on holding hands with male guests, I hope that the 20th anniversary of "Do Not Disturb" can return to this stage! ”
Huang Lan's emotions are also very excited: "This is a romance that belongs only to Li Lu, but it makes each of us very moved." 2020 is about to pass, let us look forward to 2021 together, I hope that all girls can not rely on, do not please, love him and love themselves. Your persistence on the stage will definitely be exchanged for beautiful love, which is the value of "Do Not Disturb". In the new year, let us continue to believe in love, and people you wait for will definitely appear. ”
"Talk about it, this matter is too important!"
In the last relationship of male guest Yinde, the two people initially felt that there were many common topics, but after a long time, they found that it was not so appropriate to get along. In the future relationship, he attaches the most importance to "talking", "We have to go a long, long way together, in the long process of getting along, there will be a lot of tedious things, this time you need both sides to be able to have a common topic, can talk, in order to build the foundation of understanding, this is a very important thing." In this regard, Meng Fei also agrees: talking and talking are really important in love, "a lot of external things, it won't be long before you get used to it." Can't talk, will make two people more and more strange, that kind of racking their brains and finding words, really will make people very tired; and talking, is the acceptance and affirmation of each other, will make the two people psychologically closer and closer, more attractive to each other. ”
On the topic of "talking", Huang Lan and Chen Ming also expressed their own views: the deep meaning of two people talking is to be able to read your heart, understand your words, and synchronize with your insights, reflecting the fit of the spiritual world of the two people. The three teachers also suggested: love and marriage are like a long-term dialogue, we must not underestimate the chat, can not open the mouth is "what are you doing", "what do you want to eat", we must learn to open interesting topics, increase each other's desire to chat; both sides should actively provide emotional value, pay more attention to take care of each other's emotions, to empathize, to empathy, to do more emotional communication interaction. You can know what I'm talking about, I can understand what you're trying to say, and this feeling of having a sharp mind is irreplaceable by others.
Female guest Zhou Ziyan insisted on leaving the lamp until the end: "When you see the male guest, you have a feeling of being bright! Yinde also responded enthusiastically: "The female guests give me a very amazing feeling, belonging to the kind that can be remembered at first glance!" "Can two people hold hands smoothly?"
More important than appearance is communication and getting along
Male guest Wei An has an outstanding appearance, but communicating with people is a weakness, he himself also said bluntly: "I really don't know how to get along with girls, I have always wanted to change, but I always feel that how to do it is not right." Some female guests said that people with high appearance will make people pleasing to the eye, even if they stand in front of them without speaking, it is a very beautiful enjoyment. In this regard, Meng Fei is very disagreeable: "Even if it is a handsome face, it is difficult to maintain feelings without communication, and the future relationship is more important than appearance." Many problems cannot be solved by looking good, but also depend on a person's internal and ability to deal with things. Most of the female guests also expressed their position: when choosing a mate, you can't just look at the appearance, happy love, happy marriage is by no means a boy handsome, the girl is beautiful, so simple, no matter how good the appearance will grow old with time, the inner glitter quality, the tacit understanding of the soul is permanent, more importantly, the two people should be in agreement, have a common language, get along comfortably and naturally.
Huang Lan also spoke: "We are looking for a lifelong partner, in addition to the appearance, we should look at each other's personality, what the ideal is, and see if there is a match between the two people." I've always believed that what matters more than looks is the matching degree of two people. If one party keeps growing and the other refuses to grow, the match will get worse and worse, and the gap will be insurmountable. The male guest also said: "For the other half of the future, I don't care about the appearance, I hope she is lively and cheerful, positive and uplifting." I also try to change myself and hope that two people can communicate well and get along well. "Will someone eventually stick to the lights for him?"
Watch tips: Jiangsu Satellite TV's "Do Not Disturb" is brilliantly staged tonight (Saturday, December 26) at 20:30, so stay tuned!