#从今天起记录我的2023 #
Today's primary school students are really busy enough, the Internet can't pull down, "you are an old six", "don't step on my Chelsea", it is another coil and an electric shake, and do not forget to pay attention to Internet hotspots.
On the way from school, 9-year-old Yuzu asked me: "Mom, why did Zhang Jike collapse the house?" ”
01
Zhang Jike is a former table tennis brother, and he looks like a spiritual guy.
There are many videos of him circulating on the Internet, such as the coach shaking his sleepy eyes, "You wake up, this is a game", the awake Zhang Jike plays majestically, these jokes can be memorized.
How did the former idol collapse?
I will not elaborate on the causes and consequences of the Zhang Jike incident.
Simply put, someone on the Internet broke the news that he was addicted to gambling and found many people to borrow money, including two girlfriends in the entertainment industry, Yuan Shanshan and Jing Tian.
What is even more hateful is that he showed Jing Tian's private video to the creditor, and the creditor threatened Jing Tian to give money, and was sued by Jing Tian in court, Zhang Jike also appeared in court to testify, and the creditor sentenced him.
After the incident broke out, netizens found a lot of corroborating evidence on the Internet.
Zhang Jike ran away from the team as early as 2004 because he lost money because of gambling, when he was only 16 years old.
Another example, Jing Tian said in an interview that he had experienced the darkest moment.
There are also Zhang Jike's various strange operations on female guests when he was on the love variety show, the context is coherent, and the character is simply collapsing in a straight line.
There are also screenshots of chats from all parties saying that Zhang Jike is looking for someone to borrow money, and the brands endorsed by Zhang Jike have also issued statements to terminate the cooperative relationship.
Basically, to the point of dissolving cooperation by endorsement, the hammer is not far from ten.
Zhang Jike's studio is still working hard to refute rumors, and it is still unknown whether the truth has been reversed. But Zhang Jike's image is most likely difficult to recover.
For the 9-year-old Yuzu brother, what he cares about is that the idol who used to be a leader in the table tennis arena has become the successor of the collapsed house on the hot search for several days and negative news?
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I said that Zhang Jike played table tennis very well and achieved a lot of results, which was trained very hard and had many injuries on his body, which is a fact.
What does this say? In the sport of table tennis, he is very good, but that does not mean that he does everything right.
There are also those stars who collapse houses, who may be handsome, may sing well, and acting may be very good, which also does not prove that everything he does is right.
For example, the person with the best academic performance in your class is XXX, but it is also wrong for him to talk casually in class and affect others to listen to the class, and the teacher will criticize him.
There are two reasons why I don't like Zhang Jike now, the first is that he gambles and borrows money from many people for gambling, and the second is that he secretly takes photos of his girlfriend and wants to exchange the photos for money.
Brother Yuzu said: "What does gambling borrow money I know, what does it mean to take photos secretly for money?" ”
I thought about it, private photos and the like are still not suitable for talking, so I changed the expression.
I'm your mom, we live together every day, do I have many opportunities to take pictures of you?
For example, sleeping and snoring, taking a bath without clothes, you don't want others to see these photos, right?
If I threaten you with these photos, I will post them online if you don't give money, are you afraid?
Brother Yuzu heard the giggle and said, "I know mom won't." ”
I said, "But some people will, they don't recognize humanity for money, they can do anything." ”
Brother Yuzu said a little seriously after listening to it, "This is also too shameless!" ”
Brother Yuzu's curiosity about "why Zhang Jike collapsed" ended for the time being, and the next focus shifted to the question of "since you know that gambling is not good, why do you keep gambling".
Just like him, he didn't understand, since he knew that speaking in class would be criticized by the teacher, why did someone still always talk?
03
I gave an example of Sichuan mahjong, which I sometimes play on my phone. This game is not supposed to be gambling, it just wants me to top up and buy diamonds and coins.
Every time you log in, you will give some gold coins, watch ads and share with friends. I rely on these gold coins to have a little entertainment every day.
I set a "three no" goal, do not recharge, do not watch ads, do not share, and pull down after playing, but the routine in the game is easy to break people's defenses.
Generally, such a game, when you first play it, your luck will be particularly good, the cards will be strong, and the cards will be smooth, and you can always win the beautiful and bright and make people happy.
With more and more gold coins, self-confidence is also more and more inflated, and there are more gold coins, you can only go to multiple games to play.
Then, a handful of cards is lost, and the first few handfuls of earned gold coins are lost.
At this time, I will think, the first few wins are because I am good, this loss is bad luck, rebuild the mountains and rivers again, I will definitely win.
Addiction, wanting to turn books, wanting to get rich, excitement, are all embodied in this little game. I can have fun without spending a penny, let alone real money gambling.
Brother Yuzu listened to me and said thoughtfully, I will play games like this, the three of us play fighting the landlord is also like this, if you lose, you want to win back, is this considered gambling? ”
I think ah, gambling is a big component of gambling, want to rely on gambling to get rich overnight, have a dollar in hand, want to win him 100 million by gambling. But where in the sky is there a pie drop? Even if it is dropped, it is toxic.
If you play a game with a good friend, play a poker, the purpose is to have fun, connect feelings, do not have the element of gambling, and do not play money, it is not gambling.
Playing games is the same as competition, everyone wants to win, but there will always be losses and wins, winning happy, losing and accepting, such a mentality is normal.
The stars collapsed one after another, and the children were forced to receive an education to "stay away from pornography, gambling and drugs", which is also considered that they have no intention of inserting willows.
Let's have more positive energy in the future!