Family education is always the focus of parents' attention, but also an important task that every parent must face, children want to have a good future, the most important thing is not "raising", but "teaching". Using correct ideas and concepts to edify, and using down-to-earth actions to prove and influence, is the real enlightenment for children's lives. No matter how old your child is, tell him these words and he will appreciate you in the future.
First, there are only two directions in life, either progress or regression. Just like time, it never stops. The same is true in our lives. It has no middle ground, if not progress, only backwards. Therefore, we should tell our children that life must continue to improve, whether in study, work, life and other aspects can not stagnate. It is necessary to motivate children to constantly learn and grow, encourage them to try new things and challenge themselves, only in this way can they better adapt to the development of the future society.
Life must have requirements for yourself, and you cannot let your own ideas and practices do at will. Being yourself well is the basic premise, but if you want to truly win and live a more brilliant life, it is not to see whether you do a good job, but to see whether you have done better than the people around you.
Second, no matter what you do, time will not stop, for what you want to do, work hard and do it as soon as possible, don't "young and strong do not work hard, the old man is sad". Time does not wait, if the child has something he wants to do, do it immediately and do not delay.
Tell your child not to always fantasize, not to always wait for an opportunity, because success can only be achieved by yourself. Only by working hard and achieving your goals as soon as possible can we continue to succeed.
We should have enough initiative, not to get used to passively accepting everything, and to know that through our own efforts, we must be able to change the status quo, even if it is only a little. You need to know that "the spark of the spark can set fire to the plain", isn't any big cause accumulated bit by bit and gradually amplified?
Third, parents can't accompany you all your life, you have to learn to be strong and independent. Every child grows up with their own life and career. Parents are important mentors and guides in the development of children, but we must also let children learn to be independent and strong. Tell children that their parents cannot always be by their side, and that they need to learn to be self-reliant and face all kinds of difficulties and challenges in life. Only when you become stronger can you better face the challenges of life.
Fourth, although you do yourself well, constantly improve yourself, do not live in the evaluation of others. Tell children that everything we do leaves a trace, good or bad, that will have an impact on our future. Therefore, we are to take responsibility for our actions and not make arbitrary decisions to harm ourselves or others.
Don't be too influenced by others and hinder your own development. For pertinent opinions and suggestions, we must humbly accept them, criticize and suppress them pointlessly, and we only use them as a driving force to motivate ourselves to move forward.