China is a vast country, and each of the "56 ethnic groups and 56 branches" has its own unique local cultural background and living habits. As the country gets better and better, many young people will travel everywhere. Tibet, known as a "tourist destination", attracts many young people to come for sightseeing and vacation.
Tourists enjoy the unique folk customs and local geography of Tibet, and are very comfortable. Everyone agrees that Tibet is a pure land of the country. Because there is no whistle and no urban hustle and bustle. But it is such a good place, but it does not want local women to marry with Han Chinese. Even if it is intermarried, Han men will not be the first choice, what is the reason for this?
1. Geographical environment
It is important to know that the Tibetan people have lived at higher altitudes since birth and have adapted to the oxygen concentration here. If they are allowed to go inland, it will be difficult for them to adapt to the inland air and become drunk with oxygen. It's like altitude sickness caused by inland travelers, and severe altitude sickness can be life-threatening. If a Han man were to come to Tibet for that woman, no woman would want to take the risk of his life in his or her own sphere.
People who have lived in areas like Tibet for a long time usually have two distinct red clumps on their cheeks, which is also due to the local climate. For many people who are not locals, suddenly living in such an environment for a long time, the skin is bound to hurt. Thinking the other way around, when a person who has been in Tibet for a long time comes to the central and eastern regions where the Han nationality is located, in the face of a sudden change in the climatic environment, there will also be a situation of water and soil dissatisfaction.
2. Living habits
The living habits of Tibetan and Han people are also very different. The Chinese mainland is full of high-rise buildings and the hustle and bustle of the city. Many young people, at the end of the day, usually choose to order takeout to solve their dinner. But in Tibet, there is only the grassland, and you can't hear the whistle when you go out, because the grassland is full of horses and sheep. Not only does this deter the act of ordering takeout, but it even requires young lads to figure out how to herd cattle and sheep.
Moreover, because of their faith, Tibetan people often go to worship and pray for blessings at fixed times. When encountering temples on the road, Tibetans also choose to detour. In terms of marriage and funeral, it is completely different from the customs of the Han people, and even some Han people will not be able to understand one of the customs. I also disagree with the views in it.
There are also many differences in terms of diet. According to the survey, many young people said that it is acceptable to try local food occasionally, but it is not acceptable if it needs to be consumed for a long time. Because the dishes of the Tibetan people are basically original, they will often eat some high-calorie food. In terms of drinking milk, they will also choose to drink goat's milk, which is completely different from the milk that the Han people are accustomed to drinking.
3. Communication
Linguistically, Tibetans have a special Tibetan language, and not many people can speak Chinese. Even though young people can communicate with each other through Chinese, most of the older Tibetans do not know anything about Chinese and can only speak Tibetan in their daily lives. Then, the two people are prone to misunderstandings in communication. When both parties are unable to express their views correctly, a good relationship can be damaged.
And many Tibetans will have their own religious beliefs, most of them Buddhist. Many families in the interior cannot accept that their daughter-in-law is a Buddhist believer. The two peoples also received different educations from an early age. The Han people pay attention to filial piety, and "one hundred virtues and filial piety first" is engraved in their bones, but the Tibetan people like freedom and cannot accept the rules in Han families.
If a Han boy is willing to join the Tibetan, it will be difficult for his family to agree. First, the older generation will think that their hard-working son has been abducted, and the second is that they are worried that their son will not be able to adapt to the plateau area, and they are afraid that the two will eventually lose all their feelings because of the gap in all aspects.
Most Tibetans hope that their daughter will eventually marry an open-minded, generous man, while most Han Chinese hope that their son will marry a virtuous woman. This fundamentally different concept also makes it difficult for the two communities to intermarry.
epilogue
In general, in real life, there are very few cases of Tibetan girls marrying into the interior. However, whether it is a marriage or a man entering the family, there is always one party who sacrifices many things and faces various difficulties. For example, living habits, climate environment, religious beliefs, etc., these are very difficult for young people. Choosing a partner in your marriage is an important matter, and you must carefully consider before making a decision. If it were you, would you be willing to marry outback? Or willing to marry a Tibetan girl? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area below.