Today, the copy work I want to share with you is Tian Hongjie's "Don't Roar, Let Children Love Learning"
Lucky people are ZhiYu in childhood all their lives, and unfortunate people are in ZhiYu childhood all their lives. Parents who can educate their children well are parents with great wisdom. Reflecting on the past, when encountering some children's problems, I often have preconceived ideas, first defining good and bad, and then starting to analyze persuasion. But will children agree after listening to the conclusions? He already had his own thoughts in mind. The difference in the thinking of parents and children Zui eventually leads to two thoughts fighting in the child's heart, causing him to become more and more unconvinced, and the results of education are often counterproductive.
Education must be patient, observing the details of children's daily behavior. Education must be sincere, using positive energy words to express expectations. Education must work together, and the goals of parents and children must be synchronized. Education must be spontaneous, not that we tell the child the truth, but that we awaken the child's inner needs and stimulate his mastery of life.
The author of this book proposes parental coping methods based on the problems that children will encounter, but what we should see is that all the logic behind these methods should really squat down, understand the child's feelings, listen to the child's needs, guide the child to think positively by asking questions, and this will be an opportunity.
In fact, as parents, love is not enough, only the heart to let him learn is not enough, our parents must have a way - stimulate children's learning confidence, learning motivation, learning self-control, learning methods, learning positive emotions, parents learn how to feedback to him.