To talk about the Internet memories of the 90s, Martian script has to be mentioned, at that time, everyone used complicated Martian language to chat on QQ, sometimes they couldn't understand those words, and they also needed to use a Martian translator. With the development of the times, the post-00s have also begun to grow up, they also have their own ideas, and they don't want their parents to see their chat records with friends, so some post-00s invented their own Morse code chat method.
Some post-00s parents are particularly worried, after all, there are all kinds of information on the Internet now, and children will inevitably see things that are not conducive to growth and development, so parents are very concerned about the communication and chat between their children and friends, and always want to know what children are talking about with friends.
But as many children get older, they communicate less and less with their parents, and even create a wall with their parents, they say that this is because there is a generation gap between the two generations, and parents cannot understand their own ideas. But parents care about their children from the bottom of their hearts, and they always hope that their children can open their hearts to themselves, say more to themselves, and let themselves play some role in their children's growth path.
But some parents are more extreme, they will peek at their children's mobile phones, or peek at their children's chat history with classmates and friends, which makes many children feel a little disgusted.
Although they are not old, they also attach great importance to privacy, and this behavior of parents makes them feel that their privacy has been violated, so children are more reluctant to communicate with their parents, and children use Morse code to communicate with their peers, which is also a resistance to parents' excessive interference in their social life.
The two children did not send any text when chatting, just used punctuation to communicate, and the others did not seem to understand why, but the communication between the two of them was very smooth. Some people have translated the punctuation marks of these two children, such as two question marks meaning absence, an ellipsis meaning what time it is, and 98 meaning bar. It is also really impressive to see the concise communication of these students.
Some parents do not want their children to play in the bar, so even if the parents see such chat records, the children can be said to post it casually, because the parents do not see the obvious word bar.
It seems that the communication between parents and children is really a science, if you do not care about your children in time, your children may go astray, and if you care too much about your children, you may also cause your children's disgust. Being a parent is not an easy task, and you only know what it's like to experience it firsthand.
If parents find that their children use Morse code to communicate, what kind of response should they take? First of all, parents should reflect on whether they are too strong in controlling their children, resulting in a rebellious psychology in children, sometimes children do not deliberately want to learn badly, but want to use a way to resist parental discipline. They feel that their parents have too much control over themselves, do not leave enough personal space for themselves, always want to interfere with themselves, and force themselves to study.
Children are also a person, also have their own pressure, they also want to have alone time, but also want to have moments of relaxation, if parents blindly force their children, may make children feel particularly broken, not only can not improve the child's academic performance, but also affect the relationship between parents and children.
The second point that parents should reflect on is whether they respect their children's privacy. Many parents think that their children are young and have no sense of privacy at all, and as an adult, as a parent, what things can not be understood and cannot be known?
Children are minors, everything needs to be known to adults, they cannot have their own secrets, because they cannot completely deal with problems, many times need the help of adults, and the slightest carelessness may also be hurt by others.
So adults out of a protective mentality for children. Always want to know everything about your child, even what friends your child makes. What I say to my friends, I want to know it, which is actually very painful for children, because they are also a person, they also have their own independent thoughts, and they don't want their parents to interfere too much in their lives.
When parents find that their children are getting farther and farther away from themselves, and even use some ways to avoid themselves, they can actively communicate with their children, and at the same time express their love for their children and reflect on what they have done wrong. Only by truly treating the child as a person, truly respecting him and loving him can we gain the child's trust and understanding.