Bao Lei is really good at it!
Recently watched "Wife's Romantic Trip 6" and was fiercely envied by Lu Yi and Bao Lei's fairy love.
This old husband and wife, who have been married for 16 years and have been in love for 26 years, get along with the sweetness and shyness between little couples.
Lu Yi has always called Bao Lei "baby", her daughter is jealous, and Bao Lei also proves for herself:
"Mom is daddy's baby, even when you are old, you are an 'old baby'."
The couple would also confess to each other, and Bao Lei said:
"He is the man I will love in my next life."
Lu Yi said:
"We're slowly growing into each other."
"I've always believed in love because I believe in Bao Lei."
Both of them have traces of time on their faces, but they still say with a youthful look that they believe in love and rely on each other.
This feeling is especially good!
It is really rare and precious for middle-aged couples to be able to deal with this!
While being amazed by their "greasy and crooked" love, he was even more impressed by Bao Lei's skills in managing marriage.
I have to say, she really knows how to do it!
Part.1
Very "nice" to speak
Bao Lei speaks very "nicely" - her voice is pleasant, her voice is soft and powerful, and she is very considerate of the other person.
She is very good at praising Lu Yi, always giving him positive feedback and providing him with positive emotional value.
When her husband does a small thing, she does not hesitate to praise it.
For example, Lu Yi helped get the bag into the car, and Bao Lei expressed his gratitude:
"Husband, you have worked hard, I know you will get a bag for me."
Don't think that the little things are not worth mentioning, and take them for granted.
In marriage, quitting taking it for granted and being grateful for each other's every small contribution will increase trust and encouragement for each other, and the other party will be full of energy.
Even if others say badly, Bao Lei can find her husband's brilliance.
Lu Yi painted a portrait of Bao Lei, which was complained about by everyone.
Seeing that her husband was slightly lost, Bao Lei immediately played the charm of language.
She said with a smile:
"I think you draw very well!"
Lu Yi looked incredulous, and Bao Lei gave Lu Yi a specific and sincere compliment:
"Your necklace pendant is painted very similarly, with a sense of light, a sense of three-dimensionality... Is this the tune you played? ”
After Lu Yi heard this, he smiled brightly.
Sincere praise, the highest level of recognition, always makes people's hearts move.
Bao Lei's speech can fully embody what is called "language art".
Liu Yun said that boys should generally dislike girls checking their mobile phones.
Lu Yi said with a smile: "I can stand it."
Bao Lei quickly explained: "It's not to check, it's to help him clean up the garbage." ”
This pun is not to clean up the "garbage"
Lu Yi made a cup of dark cooking lemon tea, and others drank it with a miserable look and persuaded him not to do it again.
Bao Lei tasted it, and her face was also "bitter", but she still said a sweet word "with no conscience":
"Husband, you worked hard, don't do it again."
Not only gave my husband under the steps, but also avoided drinking dark dishes again.
Lu Yi drove the wrong way, Bao Lei did not complain, and said very gently that he would help check the route.
Chen Qiaoen quipped Lu Yi and said what to do without Leilei.
Bao Lei said: "He went the wrong way, I will never scold him, just say that he is just going for a ride, and then help him find a place." ”
Bao Lei praised Lu Yi's words, and every sentence was very touching to hear.
When talking about the topic of who is Harbor, Bao Lei looked at Lu Yi with a happy look and said:
"You are to me a harbor that cannot be blown down by a category ten typhoon."
You listen to this adjective, who is not moved!
Even if she is expensive and has tasted the delicacies of the mountains and the sea, when asked what is the most delicious food in the world, Bao Lei's answer is very simple: McDonald's.
Because the first time Lu Yi invited himself to dinner in private, he ate McDonald's.
This shows that she always puts her husband and mutual feelings in the most important position in her heart.
Who listens to this love word, is not confused!
Part.2
In front of her lover is a little girl
Leaving her husband is her own queen
Bao Lei's "Careful Machine":
In front of her husband, she is a little girl who needs to be taken care of;
My husband is not there, she is a brave, resourceful, independent and powerful cool girl!
Bao Lei said that after getting married, it was as if she would have nothing, because everything was taken care of by the other party, and she was taken care of very well like a little girl.
Do you think she is really a weak little girl who can't take care of herself?
Non also!
In the show, Allen's car gets stuck in a quagmire and can't start.
Bao Lei took the walkie-talkie and calmly commanded:
"Hang up the L gear, press the four-wheel drive..."
In the end, it helped them successfully get out of trouble.
She was also the only person to have successfully navigated through the mud puddles.
Even others couldn't help but exclaim:
"Brother Lu Yi, Sister Bao Lei is really very good, she is the best, really handsome!"
In fact, this is all small meaning for Bao Lei, if you have watched "Fight for Her", Bao Lei's performance in it can definitely amaze you.
Her fixed-point parking, "a wheel", makes people marvel at it.
What she says about herself is:
"I am a brave, resourceful, bold and careful female driver."
Her courage and resourcefulness are also manifested in financial management.
She has a great talent and interest in financial management, and after marriage, she retired from the entertainment circle to teach her husband and children, and also took charge of the family's financial power.
It is said that her financial income alone far exceeds Lu Yi's filming income for so many years.
Because of her excellent financial management ability, even her sister and brother-in-law, Guo Jingfei's family, handed over the money to her to manage.
Even friends around her quickly called her every time they saved money to help her manage her finances.
There are many surprising "anomalies" in Bao Lei.
As a housewife, her daily life is taken care of by Lu Yi.
Although he did not have a formal filming job, he relied on financial management to live a prosperous life.
She always speaks slowly, but she has a cool sense of hitting the ground, and a sense of calm and relaxation that "everything is under control".
Under her soft and gentle voice, there is a soul full of intelligence and sassiness.
Part.3
The two-way rush of two love brains
Of course, Bao Lei is not perfect, and her biggest "flaw" is probably - love brain.
She once recalled on the show that when she fell in love with Lu Yi in college, she was like "poisoned".
There is simply no way to live well alone, and as soon as he is separated from Lu Yi, he can't eat and sleep well.
Even because she missed too much and was in a bad mood, her immunity was reduced and shingles grew on her body.
She fully confirmed one sentence:
Missing is a disease.
This "disease" lasted until she had a child, and she transferred some of her love and energy to the child, and the illness improved.
In fact, which is the "disease" well, is the "medicine" has always been.
It is said that there is no good end to the love brain, and this sentence is too absolute.
The key is to see whether the other party knows how to cherish and give back.
Bao Lei was lucky because she met Lu Yi, who was also in love.
The first time Lu Yi saw Bao Lei in his freshman year, he had deep roots.
In order to chase Bao Lei, he did everything he could.
Strive to be the class leader, and use your position to assign Bao Lei to her own group when she is grouped in class.
Raid the friends around Bao Lei and please Xue Jianing five times in order to get assists.
After the two were together, Lu Yi often declared sovereignty in a high-profile manner:
"Don't bully Bao Lei, she's already my person."
Later, when his career was in full swing, Lu Yi officially announced his relationship with Bao Lei.
How popular was Lu Yi back then?
At that time, Lu Yi became the hottest male star with the role of Xiao Tong in "Never Blind", and the limelight was immeasurable, and he could receive more than 20,000 letters a day alone.
That innocent boy who was clear and sad, with a face so tender that he could pinch out water, attracted thousands of girls.
At first, Bao Lei was afraid of affecting Lu Yi's career and was unwilling to let him disclose his existence.
But due to some false things and slanderous and rumors, Lu Yi insisted on choosing to open his romance.
When he graduated, Lu Yi was constantly invited and had countless choices.
And Bao Lei only has one unit to want, Lu Yi chose to follow Bao Lei:
"I'll go wherever you go."
At that time, many people scolded Bao Lei, saying that she was not worthy of Lu Yi.
So much so that when they got married, they didn't dare to do a wedding.
Although Bao Lei always said that it was okay, Lu Yi knew that this was a flaw.
In 2015, this regret was finally filled.
Bao Lei's oath is also touching:
The only work the two have collaborated on is called "The Year of Flowers".
They lingered in the play, love outside the play, and this only time they cooperated exhausted Lu Yi's true feelings.
Because he saw the look in his eyes when he was in true love, Bao Lei complained about Lu Yi, saying that he was not involved in acting
One person in love brain may be a disaster, but if two people are in love brain, it is really a godsend.
Lu Yi and Bao Lei are the two-way rush of two love brains.
Part.4
A good marriage is
Achieve and nourish each other
Some people say that the premise of their good marriage is that Bao Lei sacrificed her career to focus on taking care of the family.
But Bao Lei does not think so, she prefers the sense of achievement and value brought to her by taking care of her family than filming.
She chooses to take care of her family, not a sacrifice, but a love and liking from the heart.
She enjoys the love that comes from her family, and her family gives her positive feedback.
She never lost herself, but was completely herself.
She takes good care of her children, has her own financial career, has her own social circle, and she lives her life as she wants...
And Lu Yi also created conditions for her to shine and spoil her as a little girl.
More importantly, Lu Yi has always treated her with equal respect.
He did not look down on her because of the disparity in fame, did not dump all the trivial matters of life to her because she was a housewife.
When asked about her dreams, Bao Lei said that her dream is to spend more time with her children and be with Lu Yi in her next life.
When a woman, from the bottom of her heart, still wants to be with the pair in the next life, it must be true love.
Only truly happy people will say that they will be together in the next life.
How many couples have already lived a life of looking at each other, let alone the next life.
Bao Lei's dream is to be a housewife and take charge of her own land.
Not all women want to be strong women, and they can also choose to run their own family wholeheartedly, provided that they can meet the right person, who knows how to give and be grateful.
In this life, it is really a great blessing to meet a partner who is so compatible with you.
Now, there are still people who complain that Bao Lei's appearance is not worthy of Lu Yi.
In fact, Bao Lei's appearance and figure when she was young were also amazing.
Over the years, she inevitably lost some of her beauty.
But marriage is far from being sustained by appearance.
Bao Lei is emotionally stable, strong inside, gentle, calm, and can be said to have a high EQ and IQ.
Her personality charm has long exceeded her appearance, and even Zhang Yunlong praised her:
"It's very comfortable to get along with Sister Bao Lei, she is a very beautiful person, no wonder Brother Lu Yi has been consistent with her for decades, Brother Lu Yi's vision is so good!"
In marriage, two people can be long-lasting, and they definitely do not rely on beauty and coquetry.
It is soul-aligned with each other and spiritually nourishing each other.
A good marriage requires falling in love with each other again and again, keeping yourself excellent, and never going wrong.