Recently, in an interview, Li Ruotong answered a reporter's question about getting married and having children. She responded freely: "You take care of me, this is my life, not your life."
After saying that, he added: "I live a very good life, I live very comfortably, and everyone has to give an account to themselves, not to others." ”
Years have never defeated beauty, and so far unmarried, does not prevent Li Ruotong, who is 54 years old, from still being beautiful and moving. And her independent, free and bold attitude towards life has also won the praise of many netizens in the comment area.
In fact, insisting on living a single life and choosing to live a wonderful life according to their own personal will, in addition to Li Ruotong, there are 49-year-old "Amazing Fairy" Yu Feihong, who has an excellent temperament, and Yang Liping, a "peacock princess" who dances with life.
And the woman that Shu wants to talk about today is the artist who frankly claims to be "a flower in the East" in New York in the Taiwanese variety show "Kangxi Lai" - Qu Jiarui. A 55-year-old single unmarried, cool and sassy sister.
She holds the status of art, university professor, curator, and enrolled as an undergraduate at Cooper Union, a school with only 10 percent acceptance rate in the United States, so much so that new York design students hear "they will kneel."
Qu Jiarui was born into a wealthy family, and her father, Qu Ming, was the leading fishing boss in Taiwan. Her father had told her that she did not need to learn to drive, because in the future, there would be a driver in the family of the person she married.
Qu Jiarui, who was called "Second Miss" by many servants in the family, began to learn the piano in the 70s when the material was scarce and the standard of living was low, and he lived a life of petty bourgeoisie.
When she was in high school in New York, her father directly bought her a house, and the secondary card was swiped casually. After graduating from Columbia University, for seven years, she just drew, ate, slept, and played every day.
At the age of forty, with a sense of educational responsibility that "I wish everyone could live a different life", Qu Jiarui began to become a professor at Taiwan Shih Chien University.
She took students to interview betel nut Xishi, invited nude models to sketch classes, and went to nightclubs to observe characters, becoming a favorite "Teacher Qu".
The reason why Qu Jiarui is liked by many students and audiences may be because of her precious "sense of reality", she will not go against her will to go along with anything, and live freely.
In the B station, many of her sharp words in "Kangxi Coming" were cut into the "Qu Teacher Series", and it can be seen from some of her remarks on Kangxi that she really has nothing to say.
One episode of the show invited four male guests who were critical of their girlfriends, and even said: "Girlfriends will not develop with her when they wear false eyelashes..."
Hearing this, Qu Jiarui finally couldn't bear it anymore and just went back: "Don't you see what your own four look like!" Why are you talking about these girls? ”
When asked about his relationship experience, Qu Jiarui frankly admitted that he had been in six relationships, and said that each one was like trial and error.
She did not hide her expectations for love, and even said openly: "I like every kind of man, I think boys are so cute." ”
When the teacher asked her why she had such characteristics, she responded directly and enthusiastically: "Because I haven't had sex yet, this is my fantasy about sex." ”
When fans asked her, "Have you ever done anything you regret?" She replied bluntly in the comment area: "Is it the wrong man to count?" ”
Dare to face your desires honestly, share the secrets hidden in your works and your colorful life experiences, as well as the insights and growth that those experiences bring to you.
Qu Jiarui is like this, she hopes to encourage and warm up to every girl who is in confusion through these sharing.
Liu Yuxin, the champion of the second season of "Youth with You", once participated in a show talent show a few years ago, when Liu Yuxin was not as confident in her neutral dress as she is now, she said: "My mother thinks I am like a monster." ”
Qu Jiarui, who was Liu Yuxin's mentor at the time, comforted her: "Mom will be proud of you!" After saying that, he encouraged her with his own experience, saying that when he was eighteen or nineteen years old, he also had such short hair.
Qu Jiarui is too aware of the public opinion attack and suppression that a neutral girl has endured under the shackles of traditional concepts and stereotyped aesthetic standards. So she has been warmly releasing kindness, brave voice and expression, just to tell every girl that she should be free to be herself.
On Weibo, Qu Jiarui's remarks are sought after by many girls, because her words can always bring power to many single women. She is like an emotional mentor, patiently communicating with netizens and answering questions.
The older unmarried girl asked her worriedly: "Girls have not been married, will they become more and more lonely after the age of 40?" She replied with her own experience and experience: "It will only become more confident and more accomplished." ”
On his 52nd birthday, Qu Jiarui shared his thoughts on Weibo. "Age is not the number that defines women, it is the most valuable and accumulated pride mark on us since birth," she said. ”
In fact, Qu Jiarui's life has always been wonderful, and it has not affected her curiosity about the world and her desire to explore herself because she is single, she has always been ambitious to love the world.
She painted, her work was sent out to compete, and she topped the national charts. Sketch Introduction Books published color pages for her to make an exception.
He hosted the first LGBT program in the Chinese-speaking area, "Ta Says", in which various avant-garde and bold topics were discussed, and different views and ideas exchanged and collided.
Qu Jiarui also made a cameo appearance in the popular movie "My Girlhood", in which he laughed at himself: "I am not married, how can you have a husband." "Once became a hot golden phrase for single women to ridicule themselves.
She also made MVs and released her own singles. In Qu Jiarui's own words, this may be that she is "being herself", or it can be understood that she is developing a self that she has never discovered before.
She insists on running and fitness every day and also participates in marathons. The increase in age did not give her too many vicissitudes, and she was still the "girl with long legs".
She opened art exhibitions and published books to tell everyone that the purpose of life is not to be arranged, but to pursue.
She collects all kinds of broken dolls she encounters around the world, keeping a childlike heart and the softest kindness in her heart.
On the day he was 53 years old, Qu Jiarui once shared a confession on Weibo.
Under her Weibo, someone commented: Many people say that girls who don't want to become Ouyang Nana, but I think women who don't want to become Qu Jiarui.
Someone asked her: "I am 30 years old, what will I do in my life?" ”
Qu Jiarui said: "When I was 40 years old, I was not afraid of the arrival of 50 years old, and even felt that my 40 years old life was so wonderful, I couldn't wait to see my 50-year-old self." ”
Getting married and having children is not the only life choice, and a woman's value is never in the womb.
I hope that one day, every older single girl can still look forward to her 50-year-old self with full expectations. Although it will be a little harder, I still choose to live that hot life.