I still remember that my stomach was too big in the late pregnancy, I always got up at night when I slept, and I couldn't find a comfortable position when I lay down, and I was always afraid of pressing the Tata in my stomach, and I thought at that time, it must be easy to unload!
Are you sure?
One thing is true, the unloaded weight immediately decreased by 10 pounds, lying on the hospital bed at night, touching his lower abdomen, flat, of course, standing up is still like four or five months pregnant, but sleeping is much more comfortable.
However, more unexpected things followed.
First of all, feeding, at the beginning of the baby's milk, pain to doubt life, nipples have always been a cracked state, every time after feeding, you have to apply nipple cream, and before the next feeding with a cotton soft towel to wipe off the slimy paste (although the nipple cream advertises that the baby can eat, but it will also be a little worried, most of the time wiped off), there is an interval of two hours between feedings, plus the above set of operations, that is, less than an hour to start engaged!
Of course, there are alternatives, either drink milk powder or suck it out with a breast pump and bottle feed. However, if you always drink milk powder, slowly the breast milk will go back, and there is no more; The latter, also requires a variety of operations, night feeding is also troublesome, in short, according to your personal situation to decide.
The good news is that after a period of time when the baby ravages the nipple, the nipple seems to be used to it, and it no longer hurts in the later stage, it can be said that it is completely insensible, and even sometimes it feels that the baby sucks milk, like massaging the nipple, which is quite enjoyable.
In fact, having said so much, I want to tell all mothers that with children, you still have to put yourself first, first consider your feelings, and be a happy mother in order to cultivate a happy baby.
In this regard, our mothers seem to be doing too badly, they are unconditionally dedicated to themselves, everything with the baby first. Although it is worthy of admiration and gratitude, do not become an object of emulation!
To tell a story, my mother herself, watching me apply nipple cream on my nipples day by day, and watching me scream in pain when I breastfeed, and the result is, where it hurts so much, I don't remember it hurting so much when I fed you.
My colleague's mother, the baby has diarrhea, the doctor said that if breastfeeding, the mother should not eat meat, stunned is to let the girl not eat meat for a month, but how can no meat maintain the nutrition of the mother who has just given birth?
Fortunately, as new-age women, we have changed a lot in these aspects, learning to take care of our own needs first, and then the baby.
Giving birth to a baby, giving birth to a baby, raising a baby, this is a new challenge for every new mother, and it is expected that every woman can not forget herself in the process of raising children, and then feel happy when accompanying children.
I am Ziyan, and I would like to be with you to become what we want to be.