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In the entertainment industry, there is such a "magical" actress.
She was the first woman to ride Tse Ting Feng's shoulder;
It is a woman who makes Wu Yanzu cry late at night after the breakup, and even grief to depression;
She is also the woman that Chen Guanxi never forgets.
In her early 20s, she was named "The Dream of All Hong Kong Men" and "The Woman That Hong Kong Men Want to Hold Most".
She is Maggie Lee.
01
"The Dream of All Hong Kong Men"
In 1979, Maggie Lee was born in Honolulu, USA.
When she was a child, because her family was poor, she was still in school, and she worked part-time as a model everywhere to earn money to support the family.
At the age of 17, after graduating from secondary school, because she had no money to continue her education, she directly dropped out of school to work and came to Hong Kong to seek development and opportunities.
Speaking of which, she was a very lucky person.
Not long after arriving in Hong Kong, she soon met the "Bo Le" in her life: Nicholas Tse.
At that time, Nicholas Tse was choosing a partner to shoot the cover of the magazine, and many people were selected before and after, but they never found a satisfactory one.
Maggie Li appeared at this stall.
When she appeared in front of Xie Tingfeng, who had the blood of the Five Kingdoms, Xie Tingfeng was immediately calmed by her amazing beauty.
At first glance, he took a fancy to her and collaborated with her on the magazine cover.
Because of this cover, Li Meiqi was also called "the first woman to ride on Tse Tingfeng's shoulders".
Later, due to Nicholas Tse's super popularity at that time, Li Meiqi also followed in the public eye.
But for her, that wasn't enough.
Ambitious, in order to fully enter the acting career and gain a firm foothold in the entertainment industry, she threw herself into Jackie Chan's "family class", practiced martial arts with Jackie Chan, and learned a body of fist and foot kung fu.
Then, relying on the mixed-race face and a body of kung fu, he took over many film and television dramas, gradually gained more and more attention and exposure, and also got more and more audience recognition.
At that time, the actors she partnered with were Chen Guanxi, Feng Delun, Wu Yanzu and so on.
In 2002, a "Naked Agent" made her completely on fire.
Because of this film, she once became synonymous with "beautiful agent" and became famous in Hong Kong.
At the peak of the fire, she was also named "the dream of all Hong Kong men" and "the woman that Hong Kong men most want to hold".
02
Let Wu Yanzu cry bitterly late at night
Beautiful women are loved by everyone, especially this kind of mixed-race beauty, naturally no exception.
Since coming to Hong Kong, there have been countless people who have been infatuated with and pursued Maggie Lee.
Among her many suitors, the most famous one is Wu Yanzu.
In 1998, the year after Maggie Lee arrived in Hong Kong, she signed up for a model agency. It just so happens that Wu Yanzu, who was not a big star but a small model at that time, was also in this company.
In the same company, one is young and beautiful, one is handsome and charming, and the two quickly look at each other and talk about love.
During the hot love period, the two love more sticky than anyone, commuting together every day, eating together and shopping together.
Everywhere they go, they are hand in hand, like a pair of conjoined babies who can't be separated for a moment, so sweet that they envy others.
Of course, the careers of the two did not fall during this period.
Wu Yanzu gradually turned to the film and television industry, made several movies, the fame increased sharply, although Li Meiqi was not as hot as Wu Yanzu, but also had her own place in the Hong Kong entertainment industry.
I thought that the love of the two people whose careers were rising would also usher in better results.
Who ever thought, the two broke up unexpectedly.
After the breakup, Wu Yanzu's whole body collapsed.
You know, Whether Li Meiqi is his first love or the only girlfriend she has publicly admitted, there is no substitute for his position in his heart.
Every night, he was so sad that he couldn't even sleep, so he fell asleep, woke up crying, and even once grieved to depression.
It can be seen how important Li Meiqi is to him.
Later, the two also worked together on "Naked Agent" after breaking up, but even if the scene was hot and hot, there was no broken mirror outside the play.
So, why did two people who were clearly so in love with each other suddenly separate?
The reason, but also from Chen Guanxi...
03
Many relationships have not ended
In 2000, Li Meiqi participated in the movie "SWAT New Humanity 2" as the female protagonist, and the male protagonist in the film was Chen Guanxi.
In the process of filming, the handsome man and beautiful woman gradually secretly developed a secret affection.
He was photographed many times behaving intimately, behaving ambiguously, and even being exposed to spending the night together.
In the end, due to Chen Guanxi's "intervention", Wu Yanzu and Li Meiqi's love affair died suddenly.
However, compared with the pain after Wu Yanzu's breakup, Li Meiqi was "withdrawn" cleanly and sharply.
She did not indulge in sad emotions for a long time, nor did she always think of Wu Yanzu, but soon after, she talked about several loves, and the man was still a well-known figure.
For example, Japan's well-known football superstar Hidetoshi Nakata.
Once, Nakata Hidetoshi glanced at Li Meiqi in a magazine, and with only one glance, he was immediately hooked.
Immediately entrusting people everywhere to help, and finally getting Li Meiqi's contact information, launched a fierce pursuit of her, and quickly captured her heart.
Unfortunately, this relationship only lasted for a short time, and it ended badly in the end.
At that time, Nakata Hidetoshi, as a legitimate superstar, in order not to affect his career, always refused to admit Li Meiqi's girlfriend identity, and even secretly suppressed her.
Li Meiqi saw through Nakata Hidetoshi's dirty and indifferent, decisively broke up, and vowed never to find a man who was too famous and not responsible in the future.
After separating from Nakata Hidetoshi, Lee Maggie fell in love with the famous Korean actor Daniel Henry again, but the relationship still did not last long.
After several failed relationships, in 2014, Li Meiqi gave the rest of her life to a man with hope: Dylan Madimon.
Because of the filming of the American drama "The Stalker", she met Dylan, who was 18 years older than herself, and the two were engaged within three months of dating.
At that time, at the age of 35, she had been running all her life.
Who ever thought, the engagement is over, but there is no following.
More than four years later, the original passion and heartbeat have long gone, the love has also been consumed, the two not only did not get married as agreed, but because of the lack of separation and regret to break up.
04
Marriage is not the antidote to life,
Yourself is the strongest reliance
After breaking up with Dylan Medimon, Maggie Lee remained single. Today, she is 42 years old and still alone.
Some people regret for her, thinking that she has had so many boyfriends, and in the end she is still alone, which is desolate and sad.
Some people sighed for her, the woman that all Hong Kong men were waiting to marry, in their forties, did not even find a home, but it was a pity.
It seems that in the eyes of many people, she is single, not married means "no one wants", unhappy.
But in fact, marriage is not the only criterion for judging a person's happiness.
Psychologist Roland. Miller once pointed out:
Marriage is a choice, a sacred commitment, but it is not a lifelong necessity, nor is it the most important yardstick to measure a person's happiness.
It is true that happiness has never had a uniform standard, and marriage is not the only way to attain happiness.
Take Li Meiqi, for example, although she is old and unmarried, she is not flustered, not sad, and lives a delicate and comfortable life.
Once, as the only girlfriend that Wu Yanzu publicly admitted, the most eye-catching label on her body was "Wu Yanzu's ex-girlfriend".
Later, she relied on her own desperate efforts to ride the wind and waves all the way, from a small model to a Hollywood superstar.
Not only did she successfully tear off the label of "Wu Yanzu's ex-girlfriend", but also became the first Asian American drama heroine in history.
There is a saying that goes well: marriage is not the antidote to life, but the strongest reliance on yourself.
In this life, whether a woman is married or not, she will always have to rely on herself.
So, whenever you want, remember: love is not the whole of life, and marriage is not the only destination of destiny.
Don't put all your happiness on marriage, and don't put all your hopes in life on another person.
Paying attention to yourself, satisfying yourself, cherishing yourself, and living out your own value is king.
After all, no matter where you are, no matter what kind of identity you are, only you are your own strongest reliance.
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