Parents have planted spiritual and emotional seeds in our hearts, and since childhood our parents have taught us to be independent, to abide by the rules, to know how to be grateful, and to know how to share. This will make our path to growth a lot smoother. In my family, my parents planted love, respect, and independence, while in others, it was fear, responsibility, or guilt.
Some people's luck starts from a happy family of origin, and they are always more sunny and cheerful and confident. And some people's misfortune starts from the unhappy family of origin, and lives in an extreme environment wrapped in negative emotions for a long time, resulting in their growth often accompanied by tension, anxiety, frustration and pain.
The love between parents and children should be mutual giving, not binding each other, learn to communicate and respect, and warm each other with love. Keep your own personal space and life circle, rather than using each other as an outlet for emotional catharsis.
I remember a saying that went like this: Lucky people are cured by childhood all their lives; Unfortunate people, all their lives heal childhood.
However, many people overlook the addition that a person's experience cannot determine the fate of his life. We can rewrite the reincarnation of the original family through the efforts of the day after tomorrow.
Most of my search for "native family" on Baidu is a negative result, which means that our subconscious cognition of the native family is that the original family is not good, but we don't know that the original family is bad and good. More is also positive, which is what our parents want to strive to do.