In recent days, the famous women's basketball player Li Meng's "knowing three when three" incident has aroused the attention and heated discussion of netizens. Let's walk into this historical "three murders of ex-wife" story, maybe this story can calm you down and look at the Li Meng incident fairly.
When it comes to the junior, everyone will definitely use words such as: shame, immorality, dare not see the light, make people despise, etc., the mistress has become the target of everyone, the evil person who rises up and attacks.
However, Empress Dowager Xiao of the Liao State subverted our three views, she is also a junior, and when the third killed other people's ex-wives, she not only got love, but also made great contributions to the country, achieved a win-win situation, and left a name in history. What's going on here?
In the ancient history of the mainland, there was a dynasty called the Liao Dynasty, which was a regime established by the Khitan ethnic minority. Empress Dowager Xiao's name was Xiao Qiu, nicknamed Yanyan, the daughter of Xiao Siwen, the privy envoy of the Liaobei Yuan and the prime minister of the Northern Province, because Xiao Siwen supported meritorious service, Xiao Xiao was young and beautiful, bold and straightforward by nature, and was loved by Emperor Jingzong, so he chose Xiao Xiao as empress.
When Liao Jingzong succeeded to the throne, in the face of the chaotic situation, he wanted to work hard and do a great career, but his health was not good since childhood, and most of the military affairs were represented by Empress Xiao Qiu. After the death of Emperor Jingzong, Shengzong succeeded to the throne, and Xiao Xiao became the empress dowager of the Liao state, and when the young lord was young, Empress Dowager Xiao became the ruler of the entire imperial court.
Soon, his father Xiao Siwen was killed, and he had no heirs, and Xiao Xiao had no foreign relatives to rely on. And more than 200 people from the royal clan supported their own troops and controlled the imperial court, which posed a great threat to Xiao Xiao and the Holy Sect.
When Xiao Xiao was a child, he promised to the auxiliary minister Han Dejang, but because he was chosen as a concubine by Emperor Jingzong, the pair of childhood sweethearts were broken up. After the death of Liao Jingzong, in order to strengthen his strength and consolidate his power, Xiao Xiao believed that Han Derang had great political talent, so he found his former lover Han Derang, one to continue the frontier with him and become a couple, and the other to join forces to seek a great cause.
But at that time, Han Derang already had a wife, in modern fashionable terms, she took the initiative to ask to be Han Dejang's junior. At this time, as a courtier, Han Dejang dared to accept this fiery love, after all, Xiao Xiao was the Empress Dowager herself a courtier, which was against morality and ethics, and he already had a wife.
If you accept Xiao Xiao, how can this cheating and betrayal of your wife be done? However, Empress Dowager Xiao, who was already iron-hearted, was not such a mother-in-law, she did not do anything endlessly, and simply sent someone to kill Han Dejang's wife, completely cutting off Han Dejang's thoughts and back road.
Empress Dowager Xiao's kind of cauldron draw, Xiao Sandou's original ruthlessness and stability, in ancient and modern China and abroad, is definitely the first, so far no one has surpassed.
Since then, Han Derang and Empress Dowager Xiao have shared a bed, eaten in the same pot, and shared the joy of love. Not only that, Empress Dowager Xiao also asked Shengzong to treat Han Derang as a father, and she said to Han in private: "I promised you, may the old be good." And the young lord of the kingdom is your son. "Han De never dreamed in this life that he would become the Emperor Taishang.
If Xiao Xiao is just a junior for love, then it is not Empress Xiao. The deeper reasons are quite complex. After the death of Jingzong, Empress Dowager Xiao was no longer just an ordinary woman who simply needed love, but a leader who was responsible for governing the country and the state. If you want to stabilize the government of the dynasty, more seriously, in order to survive, you have to find a powerful force to help you.
The reason why Xiao Xiao is interested in Han Dejang is not only because he is an old friend, this person is an auxiliary minister, not only has great ability, but also he was born in a powerful family of the Liao Dynasty, his grandfather was the founding hero of the Liao State, his father was a deputy capital stayer, and several of his brothers were fierce generals with heavy troops in the dynasty, it can be said that Han Dejang's strength is unrivaled in the entire imperial court.
Later, Empress Dowager Xiao and Han Derang joined forces to thwart the conspiratorial Khitan nobles and recover the military power of the nobles. With the efforts of the "husband and wife" duo, they defeated the three-way Northern Expedition army of the Song Dynasty and signed the "Alliance of the Lanyuan". This enabled the Liao State to get rid of internal worries and external troubles and create a good situation of prosperity.
Han Derang also lived up to the trust and high expectations, and established immortal merits for the country, but did not think that he was the "husband" of the Empress Dowager, and he was proud and complacent. He put the country first, the people first, and was loyal and courageous in everything.
In 1006, Emperor Shengzong of Liao led his courtiers to give Xiao the honorific title of "Ruide Shenluo Enlightened Fa Dao Hongren Shengwu Kai Inheritance Emperor Empress Dowager". In December 1009, Xiao Xiao died of illness in the palace at the age of fifty-seven.
From today's point of view, Empress Dowager Xiao is indeed immoral and illegal to be a junior, and she is ruthless, but from the final result, Empress Dowager Xiao not only got her own love as a "junior", but more importantly, made great contributions to the prosperity of the country. In terms of work and pass, work is greater than pass.
Li Meng, a key player of the Chinese women's basketball team, who has recently attracted much attention, intervened in other people's marriage incidents, and once exposed by online media, it touched the nerves of the entire domestic sports circle and caused extensive discussion among the public. This star, who has made outstanding achievements for the Chinese women's basketball team to go abroad to the world, but was scolded by everyone, is useless.
After reading this story, I think we should stand in Li Meng's point of view, stand on the position of China's sports industry, take a long-term perspective, and correctly view this derailment incident, don't knock Li Meng down with a stick, don't follow the clouds, and attack Li Meng! You tell me?