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In 1964, the central government received a whistleblower letter from Han Xiuyan to her husband Wang Jinshan, which claimed that Wang Jinshan's private life was chaotic.
This letter of complaint caused Wang Jinshan to be demoted from lieutenant general to senior colonel, lost his job in the Nanjing Military Region, and was sent by the central government to a farm in Henan Province to undergo labor reform there.
It wasn't until 5 years later that he had the opportunity to leave the farm and return to Nanjing.
When he returned to Nanjing, only his comrades in the army greeted him, and his wife Han Xiuyan was not seen, and Wang Jinshan lived directly in the military quarters, without mentioning going home.
Wang Jinshan and Han Xiuyan met in the war, the two have been together all the way, and they have several children, why would Han Xiuyan report her husband so ruthlessly? What is the ending of Han Xiuyan and Wang Jinshan?
Pay attention to uncover the root of the contradiction between the husband and wife.
Wang Jinshan's promise
The contradiction between Wang Jinshan and Han Xiuyan originated from Wang Jinshan's commitment to his comrades.
In 1950, Wang Jinshan participated in the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea, and Zhu Tiemin, as a driver, naturally had to accompany him. Wang Jinshan originally wanted to reject Zhu Tiemin's application, after all, he was only a century, and there was no need to go to the battlefield with him, a general.
But Zhu Tiemin was very insistent: "I am also a soldier, where is the reason why a war comes, the soldier hides in the rear." Besides, I'm your full-time driver, how can others drive compared to me? ”
Zhu Tiemin's sincere heart touched Wang Jinshan, and Wang Jinshan secretly swore in his heart that he must not be ashamed of this loyal driver.
This war was very dangerous, and Wang Jinshan almost died on the battlefield several times, but fortunately, Zhu Tiemin fought to protect him to the death, so that he was safe and sound. Wang Jinshan was therefore very grateful to Zhu Tiemin and promised to find him whenever he had difficulties after returning to China.
Zhu Tiemin once revealed his love for children in a chat, and Zhu Tiemin and his wife are not childless. The wife once gave birth to a lovely child, but both were busy with work, the child was neglected, the illness was not treated in time, and finally unfortunately died.
The death of the child brought a great blow to the wife, and since then, the wife's health has been depressed and she is no longer suitable for childbearing. Zhu Tiemin and his wife have been a relationship all the way from the revolution, and he absolutely cannot do anything to divorce and remarry.
But in the traditional Chinese concept, no descendants is a very tragic thing, no descendants means no inheritance, and no one will remember you in the future.
His wife once had the idea of adoption: "Tiemin, or we will apply to the organization to adopt an orphan, and we will personally raise him, that is our child." ”
"Yes, but we work all day and don't have the energy to take care of him, and I don't want my daughter to happen again, it hurts too much." Let's wait for the work to clear up a little and then watch. ”
For Zhu Tiemin's troubles, Wang Jinshan did not have much thought. As a superior who cares about his subordinates, he believes that it is appropriate to help his subordinates solve the troubles in life, so as soon as his brain is hot, he promises that if his wife has another child, he will give the child the surname Zhu.
Zhu Tiemin did not pay attention to it, just a joke from his superior, after all, it was his superior, how could he really give the child to him?
Soon after Wang Jinshan returned to China, Han Xiuyan gave birth to a daughter. After the birth of his daughter, Wang Jinshan proposed to Han Xiuyan to give this child to Zhu Tiemin.
Han Xiuyan objected on the spot: "You are now a general, the conditions at home are so good, there is no problem at all in raising a child, why give the child I gave birth to in October to others?" ”
"What someone else, that's Zhu Tiemin, the benefactor who saved my life, besides, we have a few children, Zhu Tiemin's family doesn't have a single one, what's wrong with sending a child."
"This child was born with my life, if you dare to give it away, I will not finish with you."
"You take the child well, don't think about it, we'll talk about it then."
Wang Jinshan did not take Han Xiuyan's opposition to heart, only that Han Xiuyan had just given birth to a child. After that, Wang Jinshan did not mention the matter of giving the child away, and Han Xiuyan only thought that Wang Jinshan had put down the idea of giving the child away.
Neither of them expected that it was this incident that pushed the marriage to breakdown.
Wang Jinshan was a little reluctant to his daughter, but thinking of his promise, he still gave his daughter out and renamed the child "Zhu Yuan".
The daughter was young at that time, and she only knew that she suddenly changed her parents and did not care too much about the rest. Wang Jinshan took advantage of Han Xiuyan's work to take his daughter out, and after returning home, Han Xiuyan couldn't find his youngest daughter: "What about Yuanyuan?" I'm not home today, I wonder if she peed her pants? ”
This behavior completely annoyed Han Xiuyan, and Wang Jinshan gave his daughter away without consulting him, which Han Xiuyan could not accept at all.
Since then, Han Xiuyan has changed like a person, changing his former gentle and virtuous appearance, and arguing with Wang Jinshan all day. Wang Jinshan has exhausted all his energy from working in the army every day, and after returning home, he just wants to rest quietly, but he also has to face his wife's complaints, he really can't bear it.
He was indeed a little arbitrary about sending his daughter out, but at that time, Wang Jinshan was bent on satisfying Zhu Tiemin's wishes, and did not think about it so much.
In order to make up for the guilt of his wife, Wang Jinshan found Zhu Tiemin and discussed with him, the two raised the child together, and they also paid part of the child's living expenses, and the child was still recorded in Zhu Tiemin's name, just let the child go home to play more and accompany Han Xiuyan.
The child's two pairs of parents also means that there is double love, and Zhu Tiemin did not refuse, and since then the daughter has had two pairs of parents. Wang Jinshan thinks that by letting his daughter come back, he will definitely be able to repair the broken relationship between the husband and wife, but the two have long been separated, and the relationship has come to an end.
Wang Jinshan let his wife make noise, and never moved the idea of divorce, until a move by his wife made him unbearable.
File a divorce application
The couple who are foaming at each other eventually go to divorce, what is the last straw that crushes this marriage?
The trigger for Wang Jinshan and Han Xiuyan's divorce was Han Xiuyan's report letter, which hit Wang Jinshan very hard, and finally made Wang Jinshan determined to divorce and start a new life.
Wang Jinshan originally thought that his regression could save the relationship between husband and wife, but it was difficult to reunite the mirror, even if Wang Jinshan often brought his daughter home, Han Xiuyan still looked for all kinds of faults on Wang Jinshan every day.
Han Xiuyan kept venting his dissatisfaction, and over time, Wang Jinshan didn't want to go back to that so-called home. Han Xiuyan's parents looked anxious, quarreling all day long, so they asked Han Xiurong to often go to the Wang family to comfort Han Xiuyan.
After Han Xiurong arrived at the Wang family, he helped the couple resolve some conflicts with high emotional intelligence. The relationship between the family still seems to be a lot more harmonious, but after a while, Han Xiuyan found that something was wrong, and Han Xiurong and Wang Jinshan seemed to be a little unusual.
In addition to Wang Jinshan's identity as a general, he is different from other generals in many places, he is humorous, flexible, and knows how to please girls, and Wang Jinshan used such a fierce offensive to pursue Han Xiuyan.
These characteristics of Wang Jinshan also attracted Han Xiurong, who was just beginning to open his love, Han Xiurong often appeared between the husband and wife, and Wang Jinshan also noticed her, but because of the restrictions of identity ethics, he did not dare to think too much about Han Xiurong.
Han Xiurong often accompanied Wang Jinshan, and Wang Jinshan asked her to attend some occasions instead of Han Xiuyan. Because Han Xiuyan was no longer willing to go out with Wang Jinshan after he had a conflict with him, Wang Jinshang often took Han Xiurong to attend the activities arranged for the officers' families in the army
Every time the two couples quarreled, Han Xiurong adjusted both sides, and Han Xiuyan found that her husband cared less and less about him, but often focused on his sister Han Xiurong.
Han Xiurong and Wang Jinshan's close relationship naturally made Han Xiuyan notice something strange, Han Xiuyan found her sister for a showdown, Han Xiurong admitted that she had affection for Wang Jinshan, but the two have always been well-behaved and have never had unclean behavior.
Han Xiuyan was instantly carried away by anger, she couldn't listen to any explanation at all, she only thought that she couldn't make Wang Jinshan feel better, so she made the most confused decision in her life to report Wang Jinshan.
After the central government learned the news, it immediately investigated Wang Jinshan and found that the relationship between Wang Jinshan and Han Xiurong was ambiguous, and the two went in and out of some places alone many times, but his wife Han Xiuyan has rarely been with Wang Jinshan in recent years.
Wang Jinshan did have thoughts about his sister-in-law, but he felt guilty about his wife at that time and never broke through the shackles of ethics. Looking at his once loving wife, now he looks at himself with hostility, even at the cost of slandering him.
Wang Jinshan was completely cold, he had no hope for his wife, this marriage had exhausted all his energy, and he no longer had the strength to maintain this broken marriage.
Wang Jinshan finally submitted a divorce application to the central government, and Wang Jinshan's comrades-in-arms advised him to calm down, he had just been reported for a chaotic private life, and then he wanted to divorce, isn't this the content of the letter?
Wang Jinshan can no longer manage so much, the big deal is that he was stripped of his rank and sent to the frontier for labor reform, which is also better than the current two of them.
At Wang Jinshan's insistence, the central government finally approved Wang Jinshan's divorce application, and Wang Jinshan finally ended this marriage full of chicken feathers.
When the divorce documents were placed in front of Han Xiuyan, she really panicked, she made trouble with Wang Jinshan and reported Wang Jinshan, but she never thought that the two would divorce.
Divorce is just the beginning, and the rest of his life is the torture of Han Xiuyan.
Half a life of regret
Han Xiuyan reported her husband for causing a divorce, but she has always regretted it, what is going on?
Wang Jinshan was reported by Han Xiuyan, and Ben made a lot of movement, followed by the news of Wang Jinshan's divorce, which caused a serious negative impact on society.
The central government punished Wang Jinshan for his actions, demoted him from lieutenant general to senior colonel, removed him from his post in the Nanjing army, and sent him to a farm in Henan to serve as deputy field chief, where he underwent labor reform and straightened his thinking.
Although the life on the farm is poor, Wang Jinshan is very satisfied. There was no endless noise, and there was no need to face Han Xiuyan's full of anger. Wang Jinshan got up on time every day in the farm and worked with the farmers, even if he was sweating, he could still feel the joy of everyone's work.
Wang Jinshan also met his second wife Huang Shenrong here, and unlike Han Xiuyan, Huang Shenrong is not pretty. But the personality is gentle and considerate, and Wang Jinshan takes good care of him, so that Wang Jinshan feels the warmth of family again, and in the careful company of Huang Shenrong, Wang Jinshan once again ignites his passion for marriage.
After five years of quiet living on the farm, Wang Jinshan received a transfer notice, and the organization thought that his transformation was very effective and reinstated him.
At this time, Wang Jinshan's face was expressionless, and Huang Shenrong saw his thoughts: "Jinshan, it's good to live on the farm now, or we will continue to stay here, the children also like it very much." ”
"What are you afraid of, it's a big deal that I avoid her, can I still refuse the appointment of the organization because of her?" At Wang Jinshan's insistence, Huang Shenrong packed his luggage and took his children on the train back to Nanjing.
When Han Xiuyan heard the news of Wang Jinshan's return, he also wanted to go to greet him, but was stopped by the children, because Wang Jinshan had specifically told him that he did not want to see Han Xiuyan.
Han Xiuyan's mind was suddenly confused, thinking back to how happy the two of them were.
Wang Jinshan was wounded in a war and admitted to the hospital of the 129th Division, with Han Xiuyan as the nurse in charge of him. Han Xiuyan was only in her 20s at that time, young and beautiful, Wang Jinshan fell in love with her at first sight, lying in bed every day looking forward to Han Xiuyan coming to change the dressing. When changing the dressing, Wang Jinshan did not say a word, which impressed Han Xiuyan, the first time he saw such a patient who could endure, he really deserved to be a famous general on the battlefield.
Chen Xijin, who was next door, saw Wang Jinshan's thoughts and encouraged him to pursue love bravely. At this time, Wang Jinshan had become a division commander and was a famous hero on the battlefield. , the combination of the anti-Japanese hero and the beautiful nurse is a beautiful thing, and the organization recognizes the relationship between the two. But what happened later wiped out the couple's relationship.
The second-married Wang Jinshan has obviously started a new life, but Han Xiuyan can't let go at all, even if her children take turns to come to Beijing to accompany her, she can't completely let go of Wang Jinshan, the most important man in her life.
After Wang Jinshan returned to Nanjing, Han Xiuyan repeatedly asked her children and Wang Jinshan's subordinates that she wanted to see Wang Jinshan. Each time, Wang Jinshan's answer was: "We are divorced, we have nothing to do with each other, and I will never see her again in my life." ”
Han Xiuyan could hardly believe that her once loving husband would be so ruthless, and she even tried to transfer her job to Shanghai, just to get closer to Wang Jinshan in Nanjing.
In 1974, Wang Jinshan suffered from cancer, and Han Xiuyan overheard the news and repeatedly invited Wang Jinshan to Shanghai or Beijing for treatment, both of which she had worked in and could help Wang Jinshan solve treatment problems.
Wang Jinshan refused one by one, he didn't want to have anything to do with Han Xiuyan, including before he died, Wang Jinshan did not forgive Han Xiuyan, and he even asked Han Xiuyan not to attend his funeral.
Han Xiuyan has never been able to let go of her relationship with Wang Jinshan, even if Wang Jinshan divorces and remarries, or even dies, Han Xiuyan has not remarried. When she divorced Wang Jinshan, Han Xiuyan was only in her 40s, but she chose to wait for Wang Jinshan all the time, waiting for Wang Jinshan to regret one day and come back to remarry her.
Until Han Xiuyan's death in 2007, she still missed Wang Jinshan. Han Xiuyan was so affectionate to Wang Jinshan that the children finally decided to bury Han Xiuyan near Wang Jinshan.
Marriage requires the efforts of both parties, and we can't blame anyone for the marriage of Han Xiuyan and Wang Jinshan, we can only say that neither of them put themselves in each other's shoes, and can only end in a breakup.