Women's basketball national player Li Meng has been cheating as a junior for several days, and I have been paying attention, but I didn't speak, I was just watching the reactions of all parties. Compared with Li Meng, compared to Zhang Long, and compared to Zhang Long's ex-wife Ms. Zhao, I value the attitude and reaction of netizens to this incident.
The Zhao Lei mentioned in the screenshot is Zhang Long's ex-wife, and since the media has brought her to the surface, there is no need to hide anything. According to Ms. Zhao Lei's complaint, Zhang Long cheated during marriage, resulting in the divorce of the two. In the middle, Li Meng also gave Zhao Lei sky-high compensation, did Zhao Lei take this sky-high compensation? Since it is a sky-high price, is this money 10 million, or 100 million?
So when Li Meng gave Zhao Lei this money, did he have any additional conditions? Is there an agreement signed in black and white? If there is an agreement, does the content of the agreement include no further pursuit of the matter? According to the revelations on the Internet, it was said that after Zhang Long divorced Zhao Lei, he was with Li Meng, and both of them received certificates last year. If this situation is true, now Zhang Long and Li Meng are a legal couple. Ms. Zhao is doing this now, should she bear the sin of destroying other people's families?
At the same time, we noticed that Zhao Lei now said that she would not let Li Meng go to the point where she could not be a person, while transferring people's private photos to the Internet. I want to ask Ms. Zhao Lei now, does Li Meng still have a face to be a person now? In addition, your appeal is to let Zhang Long fulfill the divorce agreement, then you should communicate with Zhang Long, why do you treat Li Meng like this? What's the intention?
According to Ms. Zhao's complaint, after Zhang Long's divorce, he did not cooperate with her to transfer the property to his own name, nor did he pay the maintenance of his two children. Since Ms. Zhao has achieved this step, dare to send out the content of her divorce agreement with Zhang Long, so that everyone can see together, is this agreement reasonable? Look at how far Zhang Long has fulfilled this agreement, and what has not been fulfilled?
In addition, Ms. Zhao should also reply, did she collect Li Meng's sky-high compensation? How many exactly? Zhang Long did not cooperate in transferring the real estate to your name and did not pay the living expenses for the children, is it because he has no place to live and no money to pay the living expenses of the children? Since they are all divorced, it is good to gather and scatter, and you can't be too greedy!
Ms. Zhao said these words now, it is too late, she should not say them, and then it is to destroy other people's families. Since it was negotiated at the time of the divorce, Zhang Long did not fulfill it, just look for him. It is said that there is a head for wrong, and there is a master for debt, and now it is not interesting to engage in Li Meng like this, and it can only increase hatred.
According to Ms. Zhao's approach, now that Zhang Long and Li Meng have satisfied your demands, can you recover the harm you did to Li Meng? If you can't take it back, what kind of person should you be in the eyes of the majority of netizens at that time? Don't forget that people are afraid of words, don't just look at the immediate benefits, but look at the big picture.
In general, after this incident, what I was most afraid of was that netizens would fall on one side and scold Li Meng to death. It turned out that my worries were superfluous, and not only did everyone not blame Li Meng one-sidedly, but some people also said it for Li Meng, worried about her future. This is a very good scene, which shows that the group of netizens has been improving.
Another very important point is that the public did not see the root cause of Li Meng's incident, so no one raised it. We should all know that after an incident occurs, we must dig out the root cause of the incident, correct and correct it, in order to fundamentally avoid the recurrence of such bad incidents.
1. Just like Li Meng, it seems to be a problem of men and women cheating, but it has its special place. Li Meng, as a women's basketball national player, has received special training from the beginning, which is the closed training that some self-media people say. In addition, her results today show that her closed training is definitely not a day or two, not just a year or two, but accompanied her entire basketball duty career, along with her entire youth.
2. So after we clarify this special living environment of Li Meng, we can generally understand what kind of environment female athletes like Li Meng face in their duty career. A female athlete is first a normal person, but also has seven emotions and six desires, and finally she is an athlete, an athlete who strives for the honor of the country.
3. All girls need a spiritual sustenance from the beginning of understanding. When the ignorant girl is not understanding, she will be like other girls, her love is just beginning, and she has curiosity and desire for love. Then to adulthood, there is a need for love, the right to love and be loved, and of course, the need for physical satisfaction.
4. Are these needs met in the process? Can these girls face an environment that allows them to grow up as healthy as social beings? Have a correct value outlook on life? Specific to the incident of Li Meng, if Zhang Long was a woman, would there still be these things?
Why did Li Meng's little girl in her twenties take a fancy to Zhang Long, a man in her forties? Is it because of the environment faced by these female female athletes that they inadvertently fell into it step by step when they chose spiritual sustenance from the beginning?
1. From the beginning of normal communication with the male team leader and coach, to the later evolution into inseparable spiritual sustenance, and then further developed into a deformed relationship between men and women, this time is already a step away from breaking through the last line of defense between men and women, and it is only a matter of time before it breaks through.
2. From this point of view, these female athletes undoubtedly play the role of a victim. From the beginning of not adapting, overwhelmed, to later learn to accept, learn to face. Later, did it become like Li Meng, bravely facing everything, these things that he was not willing to accept, including this kind of deformed love, including Zhang Long, a scumbag, have become trophies that he must protect?
3. If my assumptions are true, we girls who are female athletes do not have a complete mind of a social person. At this time, to match a team leader like Zhang Long who can't control his crotch is tantamount to pushing these girls to the mouth of the tiger. According to Ms. Zhao's revelations, Zhang Long also cheated on others before cheating on Li Meng. From another perspective, to say that Zhang Long cheated is to downplay Zhang's own sin, and I want to say that Zhang should have harmed other people's girls and should be characterized as a crime.
So who should pay attention to these above problems? Who should reflect and come up with a set of reforms to prevent such a thing from happening? As far as Li Meng is concerned, the main body of responsibility is the management and decision-making level of the team she belongs to. From Zhang Long, when Li Meng's incident happened, Zhang Long was handled in a low-key manner, indicating that the relevant parties did not improve from the root. It's not nice to say, it's perfunctory!
So Li Meng, after Zhang Long's incident, what I am most worried about is not that Ms. Zhao's demands will not be met in the end, nor that Zhang Long will not be punished as he deserves. It is not that we lost Li Meng, an excellent national hand, in the future.
It is that the root cause of such problems is not excavated, and the unreasonable places, even unsightly places, are not exposed to the sun, and the relevant parties cannot fundamentally improve, or even reform, to avoid the occurrence of Li Meng's kind of things. That's what worries me the most!