In ancient China, we in China were very patriarchal, and at that time, if there were boys in the family, it was a glorious thing for the ancestors. Reproduction is also the most important thing for every family, which is the continuation of life. With the progress of society, people have begun to have new views on the matter of giving birth to boys and girls.
The state has also paid attention to family planning from the beginning, giving birth to only one child, and now the policy of two children and three children has been liberalized. Some young people have also changed their minds and think that children should have a companion, so there are more children with second children.
Chaoshan has a mother who became popular on the Internet, and this mother has really become the focus. The reason is that this mother is actually the mother of 8 children, which surprises many people, 8 children absolutely subvert the cognition of fertility.
Mother of 8 children was found by accident
This Chaoshan mother appears in view with eight children, and you will find that none of these children are multiple. The oldest is also of school age, and the last of the seven girls is a boy.
It is somewhat shocking to have eight descendants in a family. Even if the two-child and three-child policy is now liberalized, it is really an exception to be able to give birth to so many children, unlike in ancient times when every household had many children.
The mother of 8 children was able to enter the public's field of vision only because of a photo. A girl took a picture of a neighbor's house, putting the mother of eight in the spotlight.
Why the hell why have so many children
As to why she gave birth to so many children, in fact, through these children, the answer can be clearly understood. Although the mother did not pay lip service to son preference, one son through these seven daughters was enough to explain the problem. In rural areas, there are many families like this, who say that they do not value sons over women, but in fact they still attach more importance to boys in their psychology.
The youngest eighth child is a boy, so there is no need to regenerate. In order to give birth to a boy, this mother is also hard enough, which makes people inevitably feel a little embarrassed.
Mom does not admit to patriarchal preference, but netizens see through everything through observation
This matter has aroused heated discussions among netizens, and most netizens believe that this mother is patriarchal. Almost everyone has already guessed that "these parents are willing to give up just to get a boy, although they don't say it, but they can be seen through actual actions."
Some careful netizens even found clues through observation of the clothes of these eight children.
Some netizens said, "The little boy's shoes are new, and looking at the seven daughters and the little boy's dress, it seems to be like a lot, so can the child go to school?" ”。 This sentence also reminded some netizens that in this set of photos, you can really see that parents treat their children differently.
At that time, the weather was relatively cold, and careful netizens saw that almost all seven girls were wearing slippers without tight bags. The boys, on the other hand, wore not slippers, clean and thick white shoes. "This is clearly differential treatment, the daughters are too pitiful", netizens had to sigh.
There are also some netizens who like to ridicule, and even give these eight children names, thinking that "boys should probably be called "Yaozu", and girls should be called Zhaodi Pandi and so on." "After all, there are many families in rural areas now, and they like to name their children in this way, which is a good sign."
Some netizens raised concerns about the mother's education: "After giving birth to so many children, can you educate well?" "It is enough to see the family conditions of this family through the children's dressing, maybe not very good, can the children live happily?" , this netizen is even more worried about the child's life. Children are called gold-swallowing beasts, and the money to raise eight children is much more expensive than one, which is not a small amount of money.
About the matter of having a baby
Regarding the matter of having children, although the state has liberalized the birth policy, for young people, we should also have planned rational childbirth. Don't be imprisoned by the traditional aging ideology of preferring sons to women, busy in order to have sons and children.
Like the mom behind this photo, that's really sad. At that time, I can only be like this mother, sighing that "finally I don't have to regenerate." What kind of mentality can say such helpless words, it is as good as giving birth to boys and girls, and walking according to their own real strength. Otherwise, no matter if the child suffers with it, even education cannot be done well, and the gain is not worth the loss.
Summary:
Giving birth to boys and girls is actually the same, and it is necessary to change their concept of preferring sons to women. Be a wise parent and do not care about men and women, but do a good job in the education of children. Regarding the issue of having a second child, you should also make reasonable planning according to your own economic strength, and remember that you can't have children for the sake of boys.