He is mature and steady, and deserves more self-control. He obviously has a wife and children, he knows that she has a great future, he knows that he may ruin her and affect China's basketball career, he still does that.
On March 18, Zhao Lei, the ex-wife of Zhang Long, the former leader of the women's basketball team, posted on Weibo, accusing Li Meng, a well-known Chinese women's basketball player, of "knowing three when three", taking the initiative to send a selfie to her ex-husband, and after she had issued a warning, she continued to entangle her ex-husband, eventually ruining her marriage.
Li Meng, known as LeBron among the women's basketball players, is strong and famous, and the public's eyes are quickly attracted.
And a picture of Li Meng's naked chat video in the article undoubtedly exploded public opinion, so that the topic of "Li Meng's involvement in other people's marriages" was pushed to a climax.
On March 19, Zhao Lei added another knife and released some private photos of Li Meng, further supporting that Li Meng was indeed a junior who intervened in his marriage.
Fame still does not converge? If you are rich and powerful, you can do whatever you want and interfere in other people's marriages?
After the incident, the spearhead of public opinion pointed directly at Li Meng, and since the media public accounts have criticized him, major videos, graphic comments, full of accusations and criticism of Li Meng.
In the current public opinion, Li Meng has become a "female satyr", a "junior" who is "extremely irresponsible to herself and others" and "absurd and shameless", and netizens urge her to apologize. But is this already the whole truth of the matter just by the words of others?
Based on the fact that Li Meng and Zhang Long have not yet made any response, I think it is not appropriate for us to make a categorical conclusion about the incident, let alone put a big hat on others. According to the current information, all we can see is: Li Meng and Zhang Long do have an intimate relationship, but how did this relationship form step by step? No one knows.
Whether this relationship is as Zhao Lei said, "Li Meng took the initiative to seduce her ex-husband, stalked, and eventually destroyed her family", makes people wonder
According to the current information released on the Internet, Li Meng is 28 years old this year, still a young and fashionable girl, a leading figure in Chinese basketball, and has just signed with the WNBA Mysterious Man team. Personal endorsement is also soft, whether it is the future, or the money, she has a promising future, there is no doubt that she is the "rich and handsome" among women. And Zhang Long is only a leader of the women's basketball team, he was 45 years old at the time, judging from the photos exposed on the Internet, his appearance is also extremely ordinary, the key is that he has a family and has two children.
Q: Do you think that Li Meng, who has a promising future, will ignore his shame and personal future, and go to "seduce" and "stalk" Zhang Long, an ordinary married husband, without heeding his shame and personal future? More likely: Li Meng is the victim of the "passive mistress".
It is undeniable that people lack reason in the face of the love they have identified. Combined with the comparison of the basic conditions of the two sides, Li Meng will come to this step today, and there is only one reasonable explanation, that is: she is hopelessly in love with him and is willing to pay today's price. And he fed her a poison called "love", which made her passively turn from a well-known basketball player who won glory for the country into a "junior" that everyone spurned.
But this "mistress" should be distinguished from the ordinary sense, the kind of "mistress" that we commonly see, that ordinary "mistress" is more for her own personal self-interest, and her relationship with the man is often a relationship of "intersecting with benefits, dispersing when benefits are exhausted". And Li Meng is different, according to the revelations of relevant people, she is even willing to pay "huge settlement fees" for him.
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If it turns out that she is meddling in someone else's marriage, I am more inclined to believe that she is a "passive mistress". There are three reasons:
First, as a well-known basketball player, behind Li Meng's achievements is hard training day after day. In other words, compared with ordinary people, her social relationship is simple, and she rarely has time to fall in love and contact boys. Which girl is not pregnant with spring, she is also young and has a longing for love.
Zhang Long, as the team leader, Da Li Meng is 17 years old, which is the kind of mature "uncle" in the eyes of the little girl. As the saying goes, a man 40 a flower, as a veteran of the love scene, Zhang Long, who has richer life experience, can undoubtedly easily see through Li Meng's daily thoughts. When Li Meng's mood swings, doing something that makes him feel "warm" and "moving" is hand-to-hand, accumulating over time, and it is easy to make the little girl hopeless.
Second, judging from the content exposed by Zhao Lei's first article, Zhang Long is a proper "scumbag", extremely irresponsible for the family, and cheated on female colleagues before marriage. It is often said that there are only times and countless times of cheating, which is not unreasonable. For Zhang Long, once he feels that his female basketball players have an opportunity, with his character, I believe that his initiative is definitely far better than Li Meng.
After the private photos of Li Meng were discovered, he bluntly told Zhao Lei: "I am a public relations need, in order to keep Li Meng as the national team Xiao Li, he has gone to Li Meng's room alone many times to talk." Although these words came out of Zhao Lei's mouth, they were very credible, and he could do such things by playing with women to achieve his work goals.
Third, the key reason why Zhao Lei chose to expose Li Meng's incident this time is not to hammer her, but to ask Zhang Long to fulfill the agreement she agreed with herself, she has reached the point where she can't bear Zhang Long, and needs to use Li Meng to stir up hot topics.
It can be seen from this that Zhang Long has not only cheated on him, but also completely lost his sense of responsibility, and his character has deteriorated to a considerable extent. Regardless of whether he is with Li Meng or not now, as a man, he should properly solve the problem with his ex-wife, how can he let it evolve into what it is now.
Such an extremely irresponsible man will not be cultivated overnight. Simple Li Meng, when he met an old fox who was very deeply hidden, there was no reason. Combined with the previous analysis, can it be boldly speculated that when he dated Li Meng, he could not rule out the use of tricks such as "my wife and I have long existed in name only" and "I am about to divorce my wife" and even deceived Li Meng.
And such words, for a little girl with a "love brain", it is extremely easy to let her cross the boundary of morality, and it is easy to promote the "fact junior" she said in Zhao Lei's mouth.
Now looking back at the situation of the three people, Zhao Lei saw clearly that the scumbag stopped the loss in time, and Zhang Long, who was nearly half a hundred years old, at least got Li Meng's feelings and body, and Li Meng was undoubtedly the most tragic one - not only the reputation was greatly affected, but also the career would undoubtedly suffer a heavy blow, and some views said that it was not ruled out that she would be expelled from the national team, and her series of endorsements and other things could be predicted to be greatly affected.
Regardless of the outcome, I think public opinion should be condemned the most: it is Zhang Long, who should have more self-control in his maturity and stability. He obviously has a wife and children, he knows that she has a great future, he knows that he may ruin her and affect China's basketball career, he still does that. He should replace Li Meng and accept the verbal criticism of public opinion.
Finally: After receiving the compensation payment, in order to force Zhang Long to fulfill her obligations, her ex-wife Zhao Lei sent nude photos of Li Meng (also said that she didn't want to show more, so as not to make her unable to be a person in the future), and belittled Zhang Long's parents to nothing, do you think this approach is reasonable? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.