Wen | Jingma
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I saw a video on the Internet of a mother who was cooking when a young man and woman kicked in the door aggressively.
It turned out that this was the neighbor downstairs who said why their house was so noisy, and this mother said that I was cooking, and it was not very noisy.
The young woman said: Then why am I so noisy downstairs, and then turned around to find two children playing, and finally found the culprit.
So the girl shouted at the two children: Believe it or not, I killed you!
From this video, this pair of men and women is really very resentful, so that everyone watching the video can feel their full anger across the screen, but is this anger appropriate for a pair of children?
Unexpectedly, many netizens in the comment area expressed their understanding of such a feeling.
Some netizens said that they had been tossed upstairs for three years and were already crazy, saying that it was useless several times, and even bought gifts to communicate, the man came up and scolded, and other neighbors also complained about their home.
Another neighbor said that his upstairs children were also running around barefoot, so shaking that the chandelier shook, and it was useless to say it.
It seems that many netizens were tortured by the neighbors upstairs to have bitter words, and finally found such a video, the downstairs neighbors did this, to teach these bear children a lesson, so that netizens felt that the anger in their hearts was relieved.
Therefore, many netizens are very agreeable, we must fight evil with evil, let them know how much their behavior affects others.
It is also said that this parent deserves it, because parents can control their children, so that their children do not make noise at this time!
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To know that our house was originally used to live, if you sleep at night upstairs has been noisy, it will really affect sleep very much, not that the car outside is noisy I can also install a soundproof glass, but upstairs is noisy This is difficult to deal with.
Especially for people now, many work pressures are very high, and if you don't sleep well at night, it will directly lead to neurasthenia and affect the work of the 2nd day!
Now many people buy houses to buy with the strength of the whole family, and after buying a house, they find that there is such a bad neighbor, which makes them angry, angry, and helpless!
We say that "newborn calves are not afraid of tigers", children are naturally romantic, many things he does not understand, he may do what he wants.
But as a parent, when you see your child doing something wrong, it is very necessary to stop it in time, otherwise the child will become a bear child and become a child who is hated by everyone.
Even as this neighbor who was so noisy by the child that he couldn't rest, said, "Believe it or not, I killed you", which led to such resentment towards the child.
After all, this society is composed of people, not their own society, but also take into account the feelings of others.
When you find that the child has these behaviors, you must stop it immediately, otherwise it is easy for the baby to become a bear child
The first one: rob someone else's stuff
Children who especially like to rob other people's things around the age of two do not mean that the child is a "bad child", but only that the child wants to take it for himself when he sees what he likes, which is a normal psychology.
But as a parent, at this time, you must learn to educate your children, this is not your thing, we can't grab it.
And parents should bring their children a toy they like when they go out, and if the child wants to play with someone else's toy, he can exchange his own toys.
Let your child know that what he wants should be exchanged, or persuade others to play with him instead of grabbing it.
The second: defecating in public
When I got up some time ago, I saw that the owner group was fried, it turned out that there was an owner working the night shift at 12 o'clock in the middle of the night, and when he came back into the elevator, he smelled a foul smell, and it turned out that there was a lump of poop on the elevator that looked like a child
Later, the property inspection and monitoring found that it was done by a 6-year-old child on the 2nd floor, and the child's parents were very busy with business, usually brought by grandparents.
Grandparents dote on children very much, resulting in lawlessness, and parents in the entire community are afraid of this child. It will definitely be a bear child in the future.
Third: influencing the behavior of neighbors
For example, if the child is particularly loud in the middle of the night, or running around the house, it will affect the neighbors, and parents must stop it in time!
If parents have no way to stop it, then the home can be equipped with soundproof glass, close the door and close the window, and the child's voice will not be able to get out.
And if the child likes to run and jump, parents can also buy some soundproof carpets for their children, so that the children can play on it to avoid affecting others.
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