As the saying goes, "poor couples Pepsi lament", many people think that the root cause of marital unhappiness is poverty, no money is the only reason for the conflict between husband and wife, as long as there is money can solve all problems, but is the reality really so?
In 2005, the famous actor Li Lin and her husband discussed buying a villa, thinking that they would live a happy life like a queen and a king in this villa from now on.
Who knew that this villa had become the fuse that buried their love and marriage! Why can couples get along with each other when they are poor, but when they are rich, they go their separate ways? After the divorce, Li Lin, where will she go in the future?
In 1995, Anhui beauty Li Lin had just graduated from the Beijing Film Academy for a year, and she was lucky to star in the TV series "The Woman Who Crossed the Man's River", which became a hit, and Li Lin won the "Golden Eagle Award for Best Actress" in 1996.
Li Lin probably couldn't have dreamed that she would become so popular so quickly, and she couldn't imagine that after playing the tragic role "Mountain Apricot" in this drama, she had become associated with the tragic role for many years after that, and finally became a veritable "Queen of Sorrow"!
In 1998, Li Lin starred in the main theme movie "Distant Look at Charilla", and the director Wang Xiaolie saw each other as they always were, and the two became good friends who talked about everything.
However, Li Lin was a full ten years younger than Wang Xiaolie, and she herself did not expect what would happen between the two people in the future.
Until Valentine's Day 2 years later, Li Lin was filming in Nanjing, Wang Xiaolie suddenly appeared in front of the door with a rose in his hand, and the "damn romance" suddenly captured Li Lin's heart that longed for love!
In 2003, Li Lin and Wang Xiaolie went to get a marriage license, the wedding was held in their own home, and the only guests present were their parents - she did not even have a decent wedding and married herself!
The next two people discussed where to go for the honeymoon, who knew that just happened to receive the script of "FanFu Courtyard" at this time, Wang Xiaolie immediately exclaimed that it was a good play after reading it, so he decided to set the "honeymoon" destination on the set of "Fanfu Courtyard".
Let's be honest, as a woman who doesn't expect a grand wedding? Who wouldn't want to go to a honeymoon destination in the Pacific or Indian Ocean for sun and sand? Had Wang Xiaolie never considered his wife? Perhaps this is the biggest regret in Li Lin's heart, but does she still have a chance to make up for it?
After marriage, Li Lin has starred in the TV series "The Sky of History" and "Hitchhiking" directed by Gao Xixi, And Wang Xiaolie also directed "Kangding Love Song", and the busy work makes the couple have little time to get together, but Li Lin did not complain.
According to Li Lin's good friend, unlike most actresses in the entertainment industry, she does not like shopping and shopping, nor does she like entertainment venues such as nightclubs, which can be said to be a standard "housewife".
So what does Li Lin do at home? Mainly three things: the first is to raise flowers, Li Lin has loved all kinds of flowers and plants since she was a child, so her home is comparable to a garden, and the walls and balconies are full of flowers and plants that she carefully waters;
The second is writing, Li Lin is definitely a talented woman with good looks, she will always sit at the desk when she is free, pick up a pen to write down her feelings about life, and has published 2 prose photo albums "Smelling Fragrant Women" and "Fancy Women";
The third is cooking, on weekends without notice, Li Lin often invites several colleagues or friends to dinner at home, and she personally cooks and cooks for everyone to taste.
In short, Li Lin is the legendary "up to the hall and down to the kitchen" of the best good woman, very traditional wife and mother style!
In 2005, the couple gradually had more money on hand, so they decided to change to a big house, so they bought a large villa in Huilongguan.
As a first-line actor, Li Lin has saved a lot of money over the years, and Wang Xiaolie, who is a director, is a little shabby, so Li Lin didn't even think about it, she took out 80% of the purchase price to her husband to handle it, and then rushed to Shandong to shoot a play.
As a result, when Li Lin returned from Shandong, she found that there was only one name on the real estate certificate: Wang Xiaolie!
Li Lin did not understand her husband's approach, after all, before the two people discussed the real estate deed to write the names of two people, Wang Xiaolie's explanation is that some formalities are too troublesome, only write his name for convenience, Li Lin will stop after listening.
The next year, the two decided to sell their old house, and the buyer put the money on Li Lin's bank card, but what happened next made her dream.
Wang Xiaolie asked his wife to share half of the sale price with herself, because the old house was bought by two people together, and the real estate certificate had the names of two people.
Then he took out a bank card to let Li Lin quickly play money, and what was even more strange was that the bank card turned out to be a female friend of Wang Xiaolie!
The more Li Lin thinks about it, the more uncomfortable it is, if there are 2 people's names on the real estate deed, the husband is determined to settle accounts with himself, then the villa they just bought can only have the husband's name on the book, is that villa has nothing to do with himself?
Not to mention the money from selling the old house, the husband would rather hit a female friend's card than let her wife keep it, is there still a little trust between husband and wife?
So Li Lin resolutely disagreed to give her husband money, the two people quarreled every day for this, and in the end, Wang Xiaolie actually moved his hands in anger and gave Li Lin a slap! This slap woke Li Lin up, and the director's husband, who had sworn to live with him for the rest of his life, would actually beat himself! She knows that domestic violence, as long as there is a first time, there will be countless times.
Li Lin was painfully determined and decided to file for divorce from her husband.
Wang Xiaolie didn't even keep it, but insisted on getting the villa, on the grounds that he was the only one on the property deed! Li Lin finally saw through Wang Xiaolie's true face, since love is dead, what is the meaning of a house? So she moved out of the villa that she had bought for 80% of the money, and she just wanted to leave the husband who had drilled into the "eyes of money" as soon as possible!
On the eve of the Spring Festival in 2007, Li Lin resumed being single, and the 4-year marriage went with the wind.
Now she has no money left, and only one heart is broken! Others are rejoicing and celebrating the Spring Festival, but Li Lin can only shed tears alone, in order not to let her parents know and sad, she can only run to a friend's house during the Lantern Festival!
In the next few years, Li Lin pushed back most of the film contracts and hid at home alone to heal her injuries.
She has played countless tragic roles in TV dramas, and she can't imagine that real life has also arranged a "tragic drama" for her, is it a bit ironic? Why did she work hard outside to earn money, come home to take care of her husband and run the family with care, only to end up with a fate of abandonment? Li Lin hopes to find the answer one day in the future.
In the summer of 2009, Li Lin, who had been divorced for three years, suddenly reappeared: the media photographed Li Lin and the former "gymnastics prince" Li Dashuang visiting a lavender manor together, and the two people were very affectionate with each other. This "stylistic collocation" relationship immediately attracted everyone's attention, and was quickly confirmed, and Li Lin finally found her true love again.
Li Lin was very touched when she recalled the love experience of the two people later, and it turned out that Li Dashuang was different from Wang Xiaolie, and he took care of Li Lin so much and took good care of him.
For example, when Li Lin celebrates her birthday, Li Dashuang will definitely carefully select gifts in advance, and each gift will surprise Li Lin, and then sing the "exclusive love song" of the two people with Li Lin, this long-lost romantic feeling completely captured Li Lin.
In fact, Li Dashuang had a failed marriage, and was 2 years younger than Li Lin, and at that time, not many people were optimistic that the sister-brother love would eventually come to fruition.
In 2012, they held a grand wedding in Beijing, and Li Lin finally put on a happy wedding dress! Younger brother Li Xiaoshuang, as well as gymnastics prince Li Ning, Yang Wei and many other celebrities came to congratulate, Li Lin finally fulfilled her "wedding dream".
Li Dashuang has always remembered Li Lin's regrets, not only made up for Li Lin's grand wedding, but also took her to Las Vegas for her honeymoon - all this is what Wang Xiaolie owes Li Lin, and now all of them are made up by Li Dashuang!
Li Lin has no regrets in her heart, she also wholeheartedly returned to her husband who loves her deeply, deliberately reduced filming after marriage, and cherished the two-person world with Li Dashuang.
Speaking of Li Lin and Li Dashuang's love experience, there are some very interesting things: First of all, Li Dashuang and Li Xiaoshuang are twin brothers, Li Dashuang was only born 5 minutes earlier, the two look exactly like each other, so the media began to engage in a oolong, rumors that Li Lin and Li Xiaoshuang are in love! In fact, Li Xiaoshuang was already married at that time, and his wife was singing, and she was also a pair of stylistic collocations.
Secondly, after the Oolong incident, the media also rumored that Li Lin and Li Dashuang's acquaintance was mediated by his younger brother Li Xiaoshuang! Because at that time, Li Dashuang ended his first marriage, and his younger brother Li Xiaoshuang worried about him, so he introduced Li Lin to his brother through friends - of course, this is not a fact, in fact, the two people met and attracted each other in an event, until they finally developed into happy and sweet two people.
Think about it, Li Lin and Li Dashuang also had a failed marriage, especially Li Lin, who was scarred by her ex-husband Wang Xiaolie, and the two of them longed for true love more than anyone else in the world!
Therefore, they absolutely do not need anyone to be a matchmaker, in the vast sea of people, two lonely hearts will naturally take the initiative to come together.
Happiness is never able to be obtained by others, and each of us must be brave and take the initiative to find our own happiness.
Just like Li Lin, when she saw the true face of Wang Xiaolie's Lushan, she resolutely chose to divorce, even if she had nothing, this courage is really worth learning from each of us!
In fact, Li Lin paid a lot in her first marriage, but the feelings between husband and wife are not equal, Wang Xiaolie neither gave her a decent wedding nor gave her a happy honeymoon, always put work first.
Although Li Lin did not say it on her lips, could she have no regrets in her heart? After marriage, Wang Xiaolie did not care to run the marriage at all, and when he bought a house, he also erased the name of the wife who paid the most money, where there was half a point of trust to speak of!
A lot of people will say that "love is the cornerstone of marriage", which is absolutely wrong
If the couple sleeps in the same bed and dreams, and does not trust each other, marriage will naturally become a graveyard of love. This is the answer that Li Lin finally found.