In 2022, half a year after moving back to Hangzhou from Jinhua, two months after I gave birth to Erbao, I began to work hourly four days a week!
The reason for hiring part-time workers is carefully calculated.
First of all, the childcare sister-in-law starts at 10,000 a month, on the one hand, the price is indeed not friendly enough for us, and the childcare sister-in-law is only responsible for the care of young children, my eldest baby needs to be picked up and dropped off from school, the childcare sister-in-law can not do not say, the baby is handed over to the childcare sister-in-law alone I am not at ease; And I'm not used to suddenly having a stranger living at home, and the above two points made me decide to give up my childcare sister-in-law!
Speaking of the hourly aunt, I originally wanted to settle on a monthly basis! After understanding, I learned that the hourly worker aunt who settled monthly was based on the area of the house to calculate the salary, my family had a house of more than 140 square meters at that time, and the monthly hourly worker aunt cost 6,000 a month! But the reality is that my house has three bedrooms and two bathrooms and a storage room, there are two bedrooms, a bathroom and a storage room are empty, no need to clean every day, just clean the bedroom, living room and kitchen where we live, and other rooms can be cleaned once a week!
The hourly worker aunt who does not pay the month is settled by the hour, 50 yuan an hour, just like that, I let the aunt come according to four hours a day, four days a week, that is, 200 yuan a day, at least 4 weeks a month, at least 3200 yuan! And also to pack the aunt a meal, if there is a statutory holiday in the middle, give the aunt a day off, and the salary will be paid as usual! That's it, I think I can accept this expense!
Besides, the time, when communicating with the intermediary time, if you choose to let the aunt come in the afternoon or evening, on the one hand, there are very few aunts, I need to queue indefinitely, on the other hand, the aunt in the afternoon and evening is 60 yuan an hour! I decisively chose to let my aunt come over in the morning and cook me a meal at noon, and in the evening I either made it myself or warmed up the meal my aunt made at noon. At that time, the baby was more than two months old, could not climb or turn over, mainly ate breast milk to sleep, I still had some time myself! But how did I know that I would be rejected by my aunt!
First aunt
After reading the physical examination report, I think it's okay to interview, in fact, because I look for an aunt for the first time, I don't know what is good and what is bad! I'm so happy to have someone to help! In fact, the first aunt was quite good, and I was lucky. Two problems arise in between:
First, all the items dragged by the aunt on the ground do not return to place, after mopping the table, chairs and stools, it is placed messily like that, as soon as I tell her, she is too late, but in fact she stayed in another bathroom for a long time before coming out, because the bathroom can not be monitored My other rooms are monitored, she said to go to the toilet inside, it takes half an hour each time, and she also stressed that 4 hours can not finish my work!
The second is to eat lunch at my house, because I have to breastfeed, I will eat again, so the meal is mainly braised fish or meat, with a green vegetable and a soup! I gave her the recipes! Who knows that this aunt also likes to eat fish and meat, eat two bowls of rice at a time, and say that this is really delicious, I will do it when I go back, etc., looking at me is also speechless, feeling that she is not an aunt, she is coming to my house as a guest!
Second aunt
Auntie no problem, just start setting rules for me!
Can't eat leftovers in the first place! Because as I said earlier, I asked her to finish cooking at noon and leave some for me to eat in the evening, but my aunt insisted that I couldn't eat leftovers! Even if I stressed that it was okay, she insisted that in her opinion, I either take care of an aunt all day and cook for me at night, or cook for myself at night, in short, she did not agree with me to eat leftovers!
Secondly, my aunt likes to take things from home to me, and forces me to accept them, such as the lard she leans out of, such as the buns she wrapped, every time I am embarrassed to accept it for nothing, I want to give her extra money, but I can't finish eating these, and I can't help it!
Third aunt
People are also very nice and diligent, in fact, my favorite is her! Help me bathe the baby, help me make complementary food for the baby, all the other aunts on the floor of my house wipe with a mop, only she kneels on the ground and wipes with a rag! But no one is perfect, this aunt likes to chat, likes to inquire, will ask where my in-laws are? What kind of business is your family? How is my husband? I often make up the truth and falsehood to deal with her, and I came over, but who knew that she copied this habit on my husband, my husband usually can't see her good, but he hates her broken mouth! Several times told me to let me change aunts, but I didn't listen, for the sake of an aunt, my husband and I often had trouble with each other, and finally had to endure the pain!
Fourth aunt
I came to try it once, but I didn't have time to cook for 4 hours, wiped everywhere, and said with a look of disgust that my family has too much work, if it were not for the experience of the previous aunts, I would have to doubt that my family's work is really much!
The fifth aunt
It's okay to work, and you don't talk much, but you just can't cook! Made a table, our family tasted it and stopped talking! But even so, in line with the idea that no one is perfect, we still used it for more than half a year!
Let's talk about domestic agents
I looked for it in 58.com, and at that time I also signed a contract and paid my aunt the same amount of intermediary fees as she paid her first month's salary! But half a year later, the intermediary who served me could not be contacted, the phone could not be reached, WeChat did not reply to the call, did not answer the voice, I wanted to change the aunt are cornered, and then my husband found the company legal person through the company seal on the contract, called the company legal person, and only then contacted, but the housekeeping boss personally found us an aunt, and there was no follow-up! We are embarrassed to always call the boss, we are embarrassed, the other party did not explain to us, nor did we arrange for us to dock with the service staff, nor did we find an aunt again, the service time is only one year, after one year, the intermediary expires, we just want to change the aunt and have no right to find someone!
Today, I saw that some committee members said: Housekeeping cannot become a profiteering industry, and suggested that domestic service enterprises be banned from going public.
"Moderately well-off families can't afford housekeeping. In large cities, the monthly salary of childcare sisters-in-law and nursery teachers is usually more than 10,000 yuan, and the monthly salary of sisters-in-law is more than 20,000 yuan, and the price of part-time workers often exceeds 50 yuan per hour, and some are as high as 80 yuan, while the average monthly salary of urban private units in the country is 5240 yuan. Compared with other places in the world, the monthly salary of Filipino maid in Singapore is about S$700 (more than 3,600 yuan), and the monthly salary of Filipino maid in Hong Kong is about 5,000 Hong Kong dollars, which is much lower than that of the mainland. Li Guohua, member of the National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference and vice chairman of the Standing Committee of the Pudong New Area People's Congress, suggested that great attention should be paid to the capitalization trend of the housekeeping industry, a new positioning of the housekeeping industry, and further improvement of the supervision model.
Li Guohua said, "Housekeeping is a useful supplement to social public services, providing housework help to the people through social forces, and cannot become a profiteering industry, should not be unaffordable for moderately prosperous families, and should not become a tool for capital to pursue high returns." Li Guohua suggested referring to the "double reduction policy" to identify domestic enterprises as private non-enterprises, clarify their social service attributes, and prohibit domestic enterprises from going public.
I suddenly remembered these experiences of mine! Take it out, only for the reference of housekeeping industry reform!