At the age of 51, she was shaking with the diagnosis of the first stage of uterine cancer. A lifelong pursuit of happiness, but repeatedly abandoned. Now, the month card of life seems to be about to turn to the last one. Looking back on the past, her life has gone through 51 spring, autumn, winter, and summer, and at the age of 21, it has become a watershed between joy and sorrow in life. That year, she entered the temple of marriage and jumped into the purgatory of life. 30 years of struggle, but in exchange for a diagnosis of near death. Whether to grit her teeth and stand firm in the future, or freeze her life at the age of 51, she must make a choice as soon as possible.
Beautiful and moving Li Siqi
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In 1968, in the Miss Hong Kong contest, a little girl named Li Siqi passed the hurdle and won the highest score in the whole game. Miss Hong Kong's laurels are none other than hers. Unfortunately, she did not qualify for the title of "Miss Hong Kong". Because, the Oriental Beauty Pageant, which participated in the Election of Miss Hong Kong at that time, found that this surprisingly beautiful little girl was not yet 18 years old. Age does not meet the candidacy requirements for the pageant. Suddenly, Li Siqi's mood fell to the bottom.
Li Siqi in the Miss Hong Kong contest
She stared at the swimsuit that had accompanied her through the race, her eyes moist. This swimsuit means a lot to her. It was a full-silver swimsuit that her father had spent 450 yuan tailor-made for her. In the competition, she is like a delicate flower, and this all-silver swimsuit is like the leaves of a dressed flower. Now the "heart" of the flower begins to wither, and the leaf seems to have lost its value. In Li Siqi's heart, she failed to live up to her own beauty, and even more to her father's love.
All silver swimsuit
At first, she secretly signed up for the Miss Hong Kong contest without her family. I never thought that in the preliminary round, because of its sweet appearance and unique temperament, it became the favorite of the champion. At this time, the father learned everything in the newspaper. She couldn't hide it any longer. Fathers don't want their daughters to show up in such an atmosphere. Under the majesty of his father, Li Siqi had to withdraw from the Eastern Beauty Pageant.
Li Siqi with a sweet smile
The company was shocked, and the other girls had to prove their beauty by squeezing their heads. Recognized beauty can not only satisfy women's confidence in their own appearance, but also provide a peaceful and calm life path for their future. Of course, all this requires women to have enough wisdom to control their own beauty. Li Siqi did not want to give up on himself, and the company was unwilling to give up Li Siqi. Under the soft and hard bubbles of the two sides, the father finally let go.
Li Siqi slightly exposed his shoulders and crispy back
In order to help his daughter, his father created an all-silver swimsuit for her. Dressed in a swimsuit and with fatherly love, Li Siqi, who was full of self-confidence, won the highest score, but eventually lost the title of "Miss Hong Kong" due to age problems. Just as she blamed herself, the judges made an unprecedented decision. After their deliberations, they specially established a title of "Princess of Hong Kong" for Li Siqi. This makes Li Siqi the only "princess" in Hong Kong. In the eyes of everyone, the fame of "Hong Kong Princess" is no less than the title of "Miss Hong Kong".
The Princess of Hong Kong was interviewed
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His own willfulness, the surge of fame, and the temptation of the outside world made Li Siqi give up his studies without any worries and turn around and run to the show business circle. She turned a deaf ear to her family's objections, believing that her choice was always right. She signed a contract with TVB and worked hard for two years with fame and interest. The title of "Princess of Hong Kong" has made her acting career more effective. Soon, she had a small success in the show business circle and a bright future. At this moment, she made a bold decision and announced that she was going to get married. No one could change her choices, her willfulness.
Li Siqi costume photo (right)
When she got married, she was not yet 21 years old and gave her happiness to a man she met at the prom. The man is an ordinary forensic doctor, in addition to being tall, handsome, and sweet-mouthed, the family situation is far from Li Siqi. After marriage, career and family can still cope until the birth of a daughter. After the birth of his daughter, Li Siqi felt powerless. She wanted to give up her career and devote herself to taking care of her children. When she told her husband about this idea, he was first confused and then firmly opposed.
Li Siqi did not expect that her husband would have such a big reaction. The husband has a simple "little nine-nine" in his heart. Once the wife quits the entertainment industry, the family's expenses are undoubtedly all pressed on herself. She is desperately trying to earn money outside, and her wife eats and drinks at home, which cannot be done psychologically.
What made Li Siqi even more angry was that her husband actually proposed to have an AA system. The AA system between husband and wife makes Li Siqi feel ridiculous to the extreme. To her husband, she was speechless and helpless. The cause and effect of all this stems from one's original choice. She could only choose to endure.
Li Siqi, who works hard for his career
In 1984, Li Siqi was given an opportunity to go to Canada to develop. She thought the opportunity would not come again. He calculated for himself to gain a foothold in Canada, pick up her husband and children, and reunite the family. I didn't think that this would be four years. Although there are two opportunities to return to Hong Kong in a year, when the couple gets together, it seems to become more and more strange.
When Li Siqi arranged everything in order for her husband and children to pass, a call from her husband on the phone broke her heart. The husband said to him calmly: "It is comfortable there, you can stay there, without your days, I and my daughter are still very happy." ”
Li Siqi in Canada
Li Siqi was furious and wanted to question her husband. The husband hung up the phone unceremoniously. The husband's meaning is clear, and there is no need for the marriage between the two to continue. The daughter is also very indifferent to Li Siqi, believing that she is selfish and has not fulfilled her responsibilities as a mother.
The fierce heart of her husband and the indifference of her daughter made Li Siqi have to return to Hong Kong to ask the truth. After returning home in Hong Kong, Li Siqi was completely heartbroken. The mistress of the house has changed to someone else, and she has become an outsider in the eyes of her husband and daughter. She could think of it, but she didn't dare to think about it. She didn't believe her daughter would cheat on her too. The truth is that she has no place in her daughter's heart, and has even become the object of resentment.
Later Li Siqi with his daughter
For the sake of his daughter, Li Siqi forced himself to try to save it, but her husband's heart for her was dead. Li Siqi saw that her husband had made up his mind and decided to fight for the custody of his daughter. However, her contention is not as good as not arguing. Her daughter had completely despaired of her, and only resentment, hatred, and hatred remained. For every point, the daughter hurt her ten, and for every inch, the daughter hurt her ten inches. Although she is reluctant to give up, her daughter has clearly chosen her father.
Once, she was hopeful that if she got Canadian citizenship, she would be able to reunite her family. Now, she has gotten her Canadian citizenship as she wished, and her family is gone. After so many years of tossing and turning, she lost her husband, daughter, and family. Where will she go for the rest of her life?
Li Siqi played Yang Kang's mother Bao Xi weak, but also let her son hurt his heart
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After experiencing the infidelity of her husband, the torture of divorce, and the resentment of her daughter, as a woman, Li Siqi's heart, even if it is strong, has been hit hard than ever. At this point, another man wastes no time in breaking into her world. He also experienced a failed marriage. The same experience as each other has made the two people come together tacitly.
I thought that this marriage would save her from the heart-wrenching purgatory, but I didn't know that I gave her another loud slap. The husband always used the excuse of being busy at work to deliberately avoid being with Li Siqi, and at the beginning he could go home to eat a meal together every few days, and after that, he couldn't even take time to go home for dinner. After three years of marriage, the two have eaten at home together less than ten times.
Li Siqi married He Weiqiang
What makes Li Siqi even more intolerable is that her husband is actually a complete gambler. Due to the short time between the two and the deliberate concealment of the husband, Li Siqi has been kept in the dark. Until after marriage, the husband's gambling addiction became more and more large, and eventually the debt could not be repaid. Only then did Li Siqi discover that her husband had such a bad habit. The marriage lasted only 3 years, and Li Siqi took the initiative to file for divorce.
She no longer believed in men, no longer longed for marriage, and only wanted to live the rest of her life in peace. However, fate did not make her stop. This time, she tasted the taste of dying. At the age of 51, she was diagnosed with stage I uterine cancer. 30 years of struggle in exchange for two failed marriages, the hatred of the daughter, and the pain of their own illness, such a life seems meaningless. At that moment, Li Siqi thought of death, but also thought of escape. In the end, she decided to live.
Beauty ends
She didn't tell anyone, she didn't know who to tell, she could only act while cooperating with the doctor's treatment. To her surprise, a miracle had happened. After a year of fighting cancer, she actually got better. However, just as she was just seeing the hope of life, she was once again faced with despair. A sequelae called "bone dryness" came to her again. Although not life-threatening, the doctor told me that I would be accompanied by a wheelchair for the rest of my life.
She did not bow to fate, and once again sought medical treatment everywhere, facing her condition positively. Unexpectedly, a miracle came to her again. After 5 years of treatment, she actually got back on her feet. Fate had hit her again and again, tormented her, and made her see no hope, and now, fate had given her light and hope again and again.
Reminisce about the past
In 2008, the god of luck fell in love with her again. This year, she won the award for best actress with "The Good Moon of the Storm House". It was also in this year that the daughter who had once resented her appeared in front of her. The appearance of her daughter made her feel happy and guilty. Happily, the appearance of her daughter is enough to prove that she has not forgotten her mother in her heart, and the guilt is that Li Siqi feels that she owes her daughter too much and too much over the years.
Li Siqi in "The House of the Storm of the Heart"
She strives to make up for her relationship with her daughter. Great maternal love makes the resentment in the daughter's heart gradually fade. Eventually, she gained her daughter's forgiveness. In the year of Hua Jia, Li Siqi finally understood life thoroughly. The decision-making power in life is not in anyone's hands, it is in their own hands. Take responsibility for every choice you make on the path of life.