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In 1996, Kou Shixun took his confidant Xu Lidan home to see his wife, but the first time he saw him, he said: "I can't choose between Cui Yaoqi and Xu Lidan." ”
So he chose to let Cui Yaoqi live upstairs, Xu Lidan live downstairs, and the three of them lived together.

At first, the outside world did not understand Kou Shixun's family situation, because Kou Shixun has always paid more attention to the privacy of his family.
It was not until a chance that such a monogamous life was exposed to the media, and even the media said that Kou Shixun married three wives.
Kou Shixun was so angry when he heard this news that when he faced the reporter's interview, he said that if he could start again in this life, he would definitely not marry two wives, because such a life was too hard.
Born into a military family in 1954, Kou Shixun had four children in his family, but he was the only one who worked in the entertainment industry.
When Kou Shixun was young, his parents often did not come home because of work, and he would always run to the neighbor's house with his brothers and sisters to rub rice.
When Kou Shixun was in the third grade of elementary school, he met the first girl in his life, her name was Cui Yaoqi.
At that time, Kou Shixun did not like to talk to people, and was silent all day, which seemed particularly unsociable, and Cui Yaoqi often sought out Kou Shixun and pretended to ask him questions in order to help him integrate into the group as soon as possible.
Gradually, Cui Yaoqi discovered that Kou Shixun was a particularly enthusiastic person, but only because he was shy and did not have much contact with others.
So in the next period of time, the two people became good friends.
There is a rumor that Kou Shixun's mother was a rich family, because she and Kou Shixun's father fell in love, they decided to give up the once pampered life and husband to come to Taiwan.
Kou Shixun's grandmother was afraid that her daughter would be wronged at home, so she always sent some precious gold and silver jewelry to her daughter, and Kou Shixun's mother was very clever, and she saved all these jewelry.
Later, when Kou Shixun's father died, she sold these jewels, exchanged them for cash, and then deposited them in the bank to support a large family of people with interest.
When Kou Shixun was in college, he and Cui Yaoqi established a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, and later got engaged under the blessing of both families.
Since then, Kou Se-hoon has become more and more active, not only studying seriously, but also using his spare time to participate in club activities, and he also fell in love with acting because he joined the drama club.
In fact, in Taiwan at that time, a handsome young student like Qin Han was popular, and Kou Shixun seemed to be unremarkable compared with it.
But Kou Shixun did not give up his dream, and signed a contract with a film and television company when he did not graduate, thinking that even if he could not be an actor, it would be good to be a behind-the-scenes worker.
In 1976, Kou Shixun's company was preparing to shoot "Pure Love", but the male protagonist of this drama was burned in the face because of a fire.
In the next plot, it is necessary to show people with disfigured faces, so many male actors are reluctant to participate.
Kou Shixun felt that he was not good-looking, so he didn't care what kind of appearance he would appear on the big screen after disfigurement, so he signed up.
At that time, Kou Shixun was still in college, and there were not many opportunities for practice on weekdays, and he felt that the script of this TV series was very good, plus the TV station also needed an actor who did not care about appearance, so the two sides hit it off.
At that time, Taiwanese TV dramas were filmed and broadcast at the same time, and from episode 3 onwards, Kou Shixun would appear on the big screen with a scarred face.
And such a setting also made many viewers curious about Kou Shixun's appearance, when the scars on Kou Shixun's face became less and less, his superb acting skills were also deeply remembered by the audience, that time, Kou Shixun was on fire.
After the career was smooth sailing, Kou Shixun's feelings gradually entered the right track.
In 1982, Kou Shixun and Cui Yaoqi got married.
After the two got married, Cui Yaoqi stopped participating in work, single-mindedly being a good housewife at home, and taking care of Kou Shixun in life.
In a way, Cui Yaoqi has obviously become the woman behind Kou Shixun.
The two people are young plum bamboo horses, so Kou Shixun's temper ideas and hobbies, Cui Yaoqi can know them one by one.
Cui Yaoqi never complained because Kou Shixun could not accompany him, but instead did her best to take care of housework at home.
Although Kou Shixun was touched by Cui Yaoqi's efforts, this did not prevent him from being moved again.
In 1984, Kou Shixun was once again sought after by the audience by starring in "Last Night's Stars".
Subsequently, Kou Shixun took advantage of the victory and starred in the TV series "A Cut of Plum", which also won two awards for best TV actor and most popular actor.
Such a fire Kou Shixun did not feel inflated by the super popularity, but on the contrary, he worked harder and continued to improve his acting skills.
And under the background of the interpretation at that time, Kou Shixun also cultivated a strong memory.
It only takes 5 to 10 minutes for each scene to memorize the lines firmly in your mind, and sometimes even bring your emotions into your life.
Kou Shixun, who has trained his skills, is becoming smoother and smoother on the road of acting.
In 1988, Kou Shixun starred in "Priceless Love", which once again created a legend in the Taiwanese television industry, and the theme song of this drama became a household song.
Subsequently, "Priceless Love" entered the mainland market and also gained a large number of fans for Kou Shixun.
In 1990, Kou Shixun starred in a number of TV series that were sought after by audiences, and his fame gradually climbed, becoming a household name, and then won the Golden Eagle Award Special Award for his superb acting skills.
With the passage of time, youth idol dramas have become more and more popular, and the television industry has opened up a world that belongs to young people.
At that time, Kou Shixun reached middle age, and his acting path also went downhill, and sometimes, Kou Shixun had no drama to shoot, but he still attended major events with his super popularity.
At this time, Kou Shixun met Xu Lidan, a confidant of hongyan.
Born in 1954, Xu Lidan entered the entertainment industry as a model after participating in the Miss Bodybuilding Draft.
When Kou Shixun was in the entertainment industry, Xu Lidan was still a small role without a name, but at this time she knew this man who made her adore, and for Kou Shixun, Xu Lidan was willing to give up everything.
The first time the two met was at an event, when Xu Lidan learned that Kou Shixun was going to attend the event, he took the initiative to come forward and greet him.
In the process of the two conversations, Xu Lidan unabashedly expressed his admiration for Kou Shixun, and Kou Shixun was even more pleasant in the face of the young and beautiful woman in front of him.
In the end, the two sides left contact information, in the daily communication process, they often communicate feelings, and gradually, the two sides developed love.
Although Xu Lidan knew that Kou Shixun was a man with a family, she still did not want to lose this mature man who fascinated her.
And Kou Shixun felt even more distressed, on the one hand was his beloved woman, on the other hand, he was accompanied by his wife and children for a long time, and for a while, he was also caught in a dilemma.
But fortunately, Xu Lidan did not put too much pressure on Kou Shixun.
In the relationship, it is really difficult to say who is right and who is wrong, and Xu Lidan, in order to be able to get cui Yaoqi's support, even on an appropriate occasion, found Cui Yaoqi and discussed with her.
After Cui Yaoqi learned that her husband had cheated on her, her heart was also like overturning a five-flavor bottle, and her heart was not good.
But Cui Yaoqi did not make a big fuss, but instead told her husband that she could accept Xu Lidan's existence, but all the belongings in the family needed to be managed by herself.
So the two sides took a step back, Xu Lidan lived downstairs in Kou Shixun's house, which also meant that the relationship between the two sides was formally established.
Kou Shixun is indeed a man who is not simple, and since he can let the two women accept such a bad relationship, and still live up and down the stairs, it is really confusing to outsiders.
And for years, Kou Shixun has kept a low profile, and if it were not for his illness and hospitalization, perhaps this matter would have been kept in the dark by him.
Later, Kou Shixun came to the mainland in 2000 to develop, and cooperated with Li Shaohong in "Orange Red", which successfully opened up the mainland's performing arts market and paved the way for him to play the role of a master in the future.
Kou Shixun in the TV is a happy grandfather who helps him take a concubine, and in real life, he also has a double love.
In fact, for Kou Shixun, such a counterintuitive thing, he did not want to make it public.
However, in 2010, due to his shooting work, his rest time was greatly reduced, because of excessive fatigue, he felt physical discomfort on the shooting scene, and then Kou Shixun came to the hospital for treatment.
After a series of examinations, the doctor determined that Kou Shixun had a stroke, but Kou Shixun did not think so, but returned home alone.
Fortunately, the doctor who treated Kou Shixun was extremely responsible for the choice and chose to tell his family about Kou Shixun's condition, so in this way, Kou Shixun's two wives came to the hospital to take care of his food and clothing.
The love affair between the three people was also announced under the public's vision, refreshing the three views of the outside world.
Today, Kou Shixun is almost 70 years old, but he can only run on the road of acting in order to live.
There are rumors in the outside world that the relationship between Kou Shixun's big wife and little wife is very poor, but Cui Yaoqi took the initiative to stand up and said that the relationship between herself and Xu Lidan is very good, and she hopes that the media will not write indiscriminately.
And for a series of rumors, Kou Shixun's eldest son also stood up for an interview and refuted them one by one.
He told the media that although his mother did not live with Xu Lidan, she would still meet at the New Year.
Perhaps for many people, feelings are the most difficult to figure out in life, and few people will guarantee that they can only love one person in their lives.
Although Kou Shixun could not control his emotions, his actions were obviously unacceptable.
The world can blame him from a moral point of view, but it cannot change the status quo, and perhaps this is where many people are suffering.
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