Wen | Li hooked up
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At the Hung Hom Sports Centre in Hong Kong in 2008, a memorial service for Shen Dianxia was being held.
While everyone was sobbing, Deng Guangrong's angry voice denouncing Zheng Shaoqiu broke the calm.
"Qiu Zai, I want you to tell you what you have paid to Ah Fei over the years?" Does Xinyi not have a father? Why didn't you show up until this time? ”
At the memorial service, there were hundreds of big-name celebrities, and they listened to this questioning, and they couldn't help but feel sad - Fat Sister, you see the wrong person.
Since then, Zheng Shaoqiu has been spurned by some fans and has been insulted by "Chen Shimei", who abandoned his wife and daughter.
He had thought about today's situation, but he did not expect it to end like this- my happiness was based on your pain.
01
In 1945, Shen Dianxia was born in Shanghai to a merchant family, with 5 older sisters and 3 younger brothers.
The family has been expecting Shen Mother to have a son and pass on the generations, but it has not been able to achieve this wish for a long time, until after Shen Dianxia was born, one son after another came.
A great joy made the eyes of the family turn to this fat girl, Shen Dianxia, so she was worshipped as the lucky star of the family and loved by her family.
No one held her back, she developed a cheerful, bold personality, not good at studying, love to sing and perform, and her family also went with her, full of pampering.
Due to the family's work transfer, 12-year-old Shen Dianxia went to Hong Kong with her family, thus starting her artistic career.
One day, she saw a movie job advertisement that clearly stated: Recruit obese child stars.
Shen Dianxia pestered her mother with joy, hoping that she would take herself to the audition, and Shen's mother looked at her daughter's excited expression and could not bear to refuse, so she took her to see and see.
I thought that my daughter was just going through a formality, after all, among the fat girls, who would really let her be in the camera?
Unexpectedly, his daughter bumped into the big luck, really became a child star in the movie "A Tree of Peach Blossoms and a Thousand Reds", and signed a contract with Shaw Company.
Ren was dissuaded by her family, and there was no way to stop Shen Dianxia's footsteps, perhaps at that time, she did not expect that because of her momentary freshness, she would later become a weighty figure in the circle.
After receiving several supporting role plays, Shen Dianxia was keenly aware: this market does not welcome fat girls like me.
Therefore, in 1967, she joined TVB, which was not long established, and took advantage of the east wind of "nobleman" Cai Heping to become the host of the variety show "Happy Tonight".
Shen Dianxia originally just thought that her fat figure could not shoot much drama, and changed places to eat, but she unexpectedly found that she had the talent of a comedian.
As soon as she took the stage, Shen Dianxia, who wore owl hair ornaments and butterfly glasses, became an independent landscape, and her humorous and funny words made the audience laugh.
Since then, Shen Dianxia has raised the ratings of variety shows with her atmospheric and interesting typhoon, gained a foothold in TVB, and she is popular all over Hong Kong, and everyone calls her "Fat Sister".
At the same time, the mercurial Zheng Shaoqiu was already married and had a daughter, Zheng Anyi, while Guan Jinghua, who was far away in Taiwan, was only three or four years old. Unbeknownst to them, the red thread of fate wrapped the three of them tightly, unable to break free and unable to escape.
02
In the 1970s, Shen Dianxia not only carried the banner of presiding over the presidency, but also developed in other directions.
Together with Zhang Chong, Xie Xian, Chen Ziqiang, Chen Hao, Qin Xianglin and Deng Guangrong, she organized a band, the "Silver Rat Team".
She discovered the beauty of music in the band and got to know her two big brothers: "Fourth Brother" Xie Xian and "Dragon Head Boss" Deng Guangrong.
In fact, only one of the seven "big guys" was Shen Dianxia, which was enough to glimpse her likable qualities.
Even the singer Rowan, infected by her cuteness, formed a couple choir and performed in various countries.
In terms of hosting, Shen Dianxia has been counted as the pillar of the program, and in terms of music, she is also addicted, and then, she put her eyes on film and television.
In 1973, Shen Dianxia played the Shanghai po in the movie "Seventy-Two Tenants", which was brutal and cute and won the love of many fans, this time, she "went out of the circle" with her film and television role.
It is hard to imagine that Shen Dianxia, who has stepped on eggs and danced as a little swan in "Happy Tonight", is generous and unwished, and her performance is also good.
At that time, Zheng Shaoqiu was an unappreciated eighteen-line small actor, he divorced his first wife and concentrated on his career, and Guan Jinghua, who was just 10 years old, was still studying Peking Opera at the Drama Academy.
Shen Dianxia almost created a legend of "fat girl", some people say that she is the pistachio of the whole of Hong Kong, funny and funny, she brought joy to many viewers.
But her influence in Hong Kong is not only because of her achievements in comedy, but also because she is a righteous person, and she is a well-known "warm-hearted" and "peacemaker" in the circle.
Whenever someone quarreled, he always pulled Shen Dianxia to deal with the mess and do mediation.
And she didn't know that a sincere, enthusiastic personality would bring her a constant evil relationship.
03
In 1976, Shen Dianxia was about to go to Malaysia to shoot the location scene of "Male And Female Love", and was temporarily requested by her good girlfriend Sensen (stage name).
"Fat Fat, can you help me forward this letter to Zheng Shaoqiu?"
The circle is so big that almost everyone has heard of Zheng Shaoqiu's flower name, and even the writer Lin Yanni said: "In addition to her handsome appearance, Zheng Shaoqiu has always had an unconscious courtesy for women."
And the good friend Sensen raised his hand to surrender to him is not surprising, the relationship between the two men and women is well known, this time the filming Zheng Shaoqiu is also there, Shen Dianxia for this small matter, nodded in response.
So, she found free time and specially acted as a "messenger" and teased him: "Now, Sensen's letter to you, please drink tea when you have time."
Shen Dianxia, who completed the task, immediately breathed a sigh of relief, but did not expect that this trip to deliver the letter "overturned".
Zheng Shaoqiu, 29, saw the breakup letter given to him by his girlfriend Sensen and secretly sobbed like a child behind the kitchen door.
Coincidentally, Shen Dianxia heard it, and only then did she react - I sent not a love letter, but a breakup letter!
The kind Shen Dianxia was full of guilt, so she often dragged the lovelorn Zheng Shaoqiu out to relax.
While taking Zheng Shaoqiu out of the haze, she found out in her chat with him that Zheng Shaoqiu was not what outsiders said, and she was quite affectionate and righteous.
As everyone knows, Shen Dianxia's change of outlook on Zheng Shaoqiu is the signal of her heartbeat, the two people slowly approached, the feelings quickly warmed up, and they naturally walked together and lived a couple life of cohabitation.
In the eyes of the lover, this sentence is really not false, in Shen Dianxia's heart, Zheng Shaoqiu is the most handsome man in the world.
So even if her brothers didn't agree to their love affair, she ignored it.
On the contrary, Shen Dianxia became more and more energetic, and she used her connections for Zheng Shaoqiu to seek resources to help his career.
And Zheng Shaoqiu also became popular with "Book of Swords and Vengeance", "Yitian Slaughtering Dragon Record", and "Chu Liuxiang".
Some people secretly speculate that Zheng Shaoqiu may have taken a fancy to the fat sister's connections and relied on her to ascend to the throne;
Some people also say that the obese Shen Dianxia is not worthy of the handsome Zheng Shaoqiu of the Fengshen God.
But no matter what the outside world was in an uproar, Shen Dianxia's heart was hanging on Zheng Shaoqiu's body, and the first thing he considered in everything was him.
Even for him to fade out of the show business, in 1984 gave up his Career in Hong Kong and followed Zheng Shaoqiu to Taiwan.
They were glued together almost every day, and Shen Dianxia focused on Zheng Shaoqiu's career and arranged work for him like an agent every day.
Shen Dianxia was happy in it, but Zheng Shaoqiu was miserable, and the words of the "soft rice man" were noisy and dusty, and his self-esteem was fiercely stomped on the ground.
In this game of love, unequal love is doomed to the end of this relationship.
04
In 1984, Shen Dianxia was called back by a friend in Hong Kong, but when she returned three days later, she did not know that the most virtuous love in her heart had become unrecognizable.
It turned out that Zheng Shaoqiu met Taiwan's fledgling newcomer Guan Jinghua in the crew of "Chu Liuxiang New Biography".
Guan Jinghua, who has bright eyes and bright teeth, is in the midst of youth Fanghua, but he is a fanatical fan of Zheng Shaoqiu, and Guan Jinghua always runs to Zheng Shaoqiu's side unconsciously, asking for warmth and caring.
Zheng Shaoqiu had never seen such an active girl, although Shen Dianxia was also very lively and cheerful, but she was always missing something.
Over time, Zheng Shaoqiu fell into Guan Jinghua's obsessive and dependent eyes, the ambiguous atmosphere of the two people, the expression of wanting to talk and stopping, and when people with hearts looked at it, their secrets were revealed.
Since then, some people have spread the "gossip" of Zheng Shaoqiu and Guan Jinghua, and there has been a lot of noise, while Shen Dianxia is still stupid and blinded.
Women always have a magical sixth sense, Shen Dianxia has been worried since returning from Hong Kong, as if she is about to lose something, and this conjecture has been inadvertently confirmed by her.
She was looking for something at home, and accidentally found that Zheng Shaoqiu had a lockbox, and she wanted to put it back in situ, but suddenly became curious, and the continuous wrong password did not make her "close", but more eager to try.
But with a lot of effort, the scene that shen Dianxia saw when he opened the box made Shen Dianxia dumbfounded, inside were all photos of Zheng Shaoqiu and another young and beautiful woman, she was making him laugh, and it seemed that Shen Dianxia was particularly redundant.
Shen Dianxia didn't understand, obviously before this man had sworn an alliance with her, how could he change his mind so quickly?
As soon as Zheng Shaoqiu returned home, he saw Shen Dianxia's lonely back, and the first sentence he said was," Oh, it turns out that you have a girlfriend." ”
He panicked, at this time Zheng Shaoqiu's mind was racing, Guan Jinghua and Shen Dianxia, choose one of the two, who to choose?
Weighing it up, he "sophistry": "No, if you don't believe it, then we will get married."
Shen Dianxia was touched by his casual proposal, and she stubbornly thought: As long as I become Mrs. Zheng, no one will send me to the door again.
In 1985, they flew to Canada to get married, and everything before marriage foreshadowed the end of the marriage, but Shen Dianxia was full of joy and fantasized about the future after marriage.
She deliberately avoided those unsatisfactory signs, such as no wedding dress, no new clothes, not even a festive qipao, only an old blue cheongsam.
After all, it is their own bitterness to swallow.
05
Life after marriage is not as beautiful as Shen Dianxia thought, Zheng Shaoqiu is busy filming and earning money, but he is alone in an empty house.
As Zheng Shaoqiu's fame grows, the distance between the two people is getting farther and farther, and the sense of alienation lies between the two people.
Zheng Shaoqiu, known as "Qiu Guan", felt bored when he saw Shen Dianxia.
Perhaps because of his hard-won success, he was misinterpreted and denigrated behind him without being happy;
Perhaps because he did not have such a deep love for Shen Dianxia in his heart, he felt guilty and uneasy;
Perhaps because he is enduring the torture of being a man, the proposition of choosing gentle and considerate true love or the wife of a strong woman is too difficult to understand.
You read that right, after marriage, Zheng Shaoqiu did not break off the contact with Guan Jinghua, and they occasionally chatted together and met for a meal.
In Zheng Shaoqiu's heart, Guan Jinghua was the one who understood him, and the two people never lacked words in one piece, and Shen Dianxia was just a seemingly distant person.
Zheng Shaoqiu, who wanted to know who was more important, won a chance for himself to be relieved: "Give you three years to have a child, and if you don't have it again, don't blame me."
Zheng Shaoqiu borrowed Shen Dianxia's forty-year-old body to force her to divorce and said these words.
It seems to give Shen Dianxia the opportunity to save their marriage, but in fact, he uses her to achieve his own goals.
How could the clever Shen Dianxia not know that this marriage had come to an end? It's just that she's still extravagantly hoping that he likes kids, and having a kid might make his heart turn.
Therefore, Shen Dianxia dragged her body with heart disease, and artificial insemination gave birth to her daughter Zheng Xinyi.
Zheng Shaoqiu underestimated Shen Dianxia's love for him, but such a humble compromise still could not shake Zheng Shaoqiu's heart.
The arrival of Zheng Xinyi brought joy and laughter to the silent and soon-to-be-broken family, and also brought hope to Shen Dianxia.
In 1988, Shen Dianxia and Zheng Shaoqiu divorced when Zheng Xinyi was 8 months old, and he went out of the house, and his daughter and house belonged to Shen Dianxia.
And Zheng Shaoqiu, who lived with Shen Dianxia for 11 years and was married for three years, entered the marriage hall a year later with his 17-year-old Guan Jinghua, and the two were like the branches and birds, and they foamed at each other, forgetting Shen Dianxia behind them.
06
In the first three years of her divorce, Shen Dianxia was almost in pain: "I am very afraid that people will mention Zheng Shaoqiu's name in front of me."
The memories related to him were like poisonous wine for Shen Dianxia.
People have heart disease, physical problems also followed, she suffered from depression, diabetes, when the daughter Zheng Xinyi was still young, when sick and hospitalized, there was not even a person to pour water to take care of her.
On those days, it was pitch black.
Until she went to Singapore, she met Chinese by chance and said a sentence that made her "full of blood resurrection".
"Fat sister, I haven't seen your comedy for a long time, shoot it quickly, you're a pistachio in Hong Kong!"
It is said that the core of comedy is tragedy, and a comedian who makes you laugh is likely to suffer great pain.
And Shen Dianxia drew energy from this sentence - although my marriage is not happy, many people are still waiting for me to bring happiness.
She found her own belonging, and in 1987, Shen Dianxia returned to the show business circle, and she transformed from a humble and courteous marriage into an eternal comedy goddess in the hearts of the audience.
However, the good times did not last long, and Shen Dianxia's body became weaker and weaker after suffering a major blow to her marriage.
She gradually retired from the show business circle and relied on her daughter Zheng Xinyi in life.
"Without my daughter, I probably wouldn't have any point in surviving," she said.
Shen Dianxia, who lost her lover and had a leash, used her mental strength on Zheng Xinyi's body to cultivate her artistic talent and accompany her growth.
07
Little Zheng Xinyi once asked her: "Mother, will you get married in the future?"
Shen Dianxia was stunned and dumbfounded, only to see her daughter secretly glance at her again: "If my stepfather doesn't like me, it will be miserable."
I don't know where this little devil wants to go, crying loudly as he speaks, Shen Dianxia helplessly supports his forehead: "Mother promised you not to get married in the future, just let's both be together, okay?"
Zheng Xinyi's words touched the heart of Shen Dianxia, the mother, and promised that the two people would always be together for their lives.
Shen Dianxia also knew that there was no eternity in the world. Unexpectedly, the time to "punch the face" was exceptionally early.
In 2006, Shen Dianxia had complications from bile duct surgery, and she was admitted to the hospital because of her serious condition.
Heart failure, the condition was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer, and Shen Dianxia, who learned that she had not lived long, seemed to be very calm.
She planned everything, paved the way for her daughter, let her friends in the circle help her, and made a will: 6000w inheritance, which could not be used until the age of 35.
She is afraid that her daughter will not do anything more, and she will be deceived by others, which is really a good intention.
In the hospital bed, she often looked out the door, a trace of anticipation bubbled up in her heart, but until she died, she could not see the person she wanted to see most.
Many people regretted her love story and hugged her unevenly, so there was a scene where Tang Guangrong angrily rebuked Zheng Shaoqiu at the memorial service of Hung Hom Stadium in Hong Kong in 2008.
Looking back on Shen Dianxia's life, she is a well-deserved career superstar, but her feelings are full of sadness.
She has no hesitation in guarding her unwavering love, but in turn she is broken, and she keeps a regret and difficult day until death.
It is a pity that when Zheng Shaoqiu and Guan Jinghua were in love with each other, she was "forgotten" when she was seriously ill.
Shen Dianxia used her personal experience to tell us a truth: women, should polish their eyes, choose a person who loves you and spoils you, rather than humble courtship, and ultimately suffer for a lifetime.