Cong Fei, a very wealthy singer, is rich enough to give 3 million belongings to support 183 poor children, 150 disabled people and 37 orphans.
Cong Fei, also a very poor singer, was diagnosed with advanced stomach cancer at the age of 36, accepted donations because he did not have money to treat the disease, but still died young.
So, those who were taken care of by Cong Fei before he died, did they give him back?
No.
Among them, some of them relied on Cong Fei to continue their studies, but when they turned back, they publicly questioned Cong Fei's impure purpose;
Some people grow up thinking that the past of being donated by others is very humiliating, and ask them to delete their own names in Cong Fei's funding list;
There are also people who call when Cong Fei is dying of illness and ask him why he has not paid for it, saying that good funding is not a lie...
The great good and great evil in human nature are intertwined into a lifetime of sorrow.
The first time Cong Fei "went up" for public welfare, he caused himself big trouble.
At that time, Cong Fei was working in an acting company in Guangzhou, and his basic salary was 1800 yuan per month. Once, he took his staff to a performance to raise money for out-of-school children.
Looking at the expectant and helpless eyes of the children in the audience, Cong Fei remembered his equally poor childhood, and he donated all the 2400 yuan he received from that activity at once.
The problem is that the 2400 yuan is not only Cong Fei's performance costs, but also includes the travel expenses of all colleagues.
The colleague sued Cong Fei in front of his superiors, and Cong Fei was expelled.
Because he once won an award in a singing competition, Cong Fei quickly found a new job, but at this time he felt that there were more important things to do.
In 1995, Cong Fei set up a foundation in Hunan to support poor children, which was just the beginning.
After 12 years of public welfare, Cong Fei has devoted more than 6,000 hours to volunteering and participated in more than 400 charity performances.
Cong Fei's first wife, seeing that her husband gave all the money to others, but the conditions of her own family were not as good as a day, she really couldn't support it, and she divorced him fiercely, and even her 2-year-old daughter Rui Rui did not take her away.
As a result, Cong Fei became a single father, he had to perform around, but also to take care of Rui Rui, there was no time for a minute of rest, of course, he was still as enthusiastic about public welfare as ever.
Although the foundation had long been established, Cong Fei found that the money would always be withheld when he got there, so he simply took the money directly to the door to give to the poor families in need of financial support.
Those sponsored children were once very affectionate to Cong Fei.
They would surround Cong Fei and sweetly call him "Cong Fei Daddy". As soon as he heard the voices of these children, Cong Fei softened his heart again, a hundred, two hundred... The money in his pocket was wiped out.
At the same time, Cong Fei's parents are eating sweet potatoes at home, and they feel that it doesn't matter if they are difficult, mainly because they can't see their little granddaughter suffering with them.
Cong Fei's father couldn't bear it and decided to take his little granddaughter back to his hometown.
Cong Fei was confused, he felt that he was doing the right thing, helping others, why no one seemed to understand him.
At this time, a child who was sponsored by Cong Fei called, and this phone call made Cong Fei even more entangled.
It is not an exaggeration to say that Cong Fei "separated from his wife and daughter" for the sake of public welfare, his wife divorced him, and his daughter Rui Rui was brought back to his hometown by his grandfather, but he would rather eat instant noodles to live by himself, and did not dare to forget to run around to raise funds.
One day, Cong Fei received a phone call, and the female student who had been sponsored by him said that she wanted to enter the Shenzhen Song and Dance Troupe and ask Cong Fei to help find an acquaintance to talk about.
Cong Fei went to ask, and the acquaintance said that this was simply impossible. Through his connections, he found the female student a job as a middle school music teacher.
Who admits that the female student heard about it and thundered, roaring: "I want to be a singer!" Not a middle school teacher, you yourself became a singer and let me be a middle school teacher, I will not rob you of your job! ”
After hanging up the phone, Cong Fei felt uncomfortable and helpless, and for the first time he understood why others did not support him to do public welfare. Cong Fei, who couldn't think of it for a while, even felt uncomfortable thinking about ending himself, anyway, all this was meaningless.
Of course, he didn't.
Returning to God, Cong Fei still performed conscientiously, collecting money and donating money.
At this time, he had a woman by his side who could enter his heart, and Rui Rui was also picked up by him from his grandfather.
Cong Fei's second wife was named Xing Dan, originally a flight attendant, and after marrying Cong Fei, she resigned her job to focus on making home and home for Cong Fei, and Rui Rui was also properly taken care of by Xing Dan.
Cong Fei's life seems to have ushered in peace, but the footsteps of the god of death are also quietly approaching.
For Cong Fei's habit of charity, Xing Dan also had uneasiness, she advised Cong Fei that doing public welfare is a good thing, but also can not condone those who are opportunistic and lazy.
Xing Dan's worries are not unreasonable, in those years, in the small house where Cong Fei's family lived, from time to time it was crowded with people who came to the door for help, some people obviously built a new house but came to Find Cong Fei to borrow money to buy furniture, some people and Cong Fei knew each other for a long time but also borrowed money from the door, and some people directly ate and lived in vain.
Once, Cong Fei took Xing Dan to Guizhou, and when he came back, he not only donated money, but even his clothes were left there.
Later, Xing Dan wanted to open, she said: "Anyway, it is good to be happy, as for the money thing, anyway, the family situation is not to the point of not being able to eat, and if you can fund it, you can fund it, and you can spend it yourself." ”
If Xing Dan knew that after more than a year, Cong Fei's body would be eaten away by the disease, and there would be no one in their end who had received their own favor, maybe they wouldn't have said so.
But Cong Fei, even though he knew that his stomach cancer was already advanced, he was more worried about his life than his own life.
In fact, because some people are in a hurry for money, Cong Fei can't make that much money even if he rotates, and in order to make the funding continue, he has already been in debt.
After the treatment began, these grants really had to be interrupted.
Sadly, cong Fei in the ward did not receive a heart-warming condolence call, but the "white-eyed wolves" questioned over and over again:
"You said you would sponsor my child to go to college, and now you are only in junior high school, do you want to regret it?"
When he struggled to explain that he was sick and did not continue to send money, the other party just said coldly:
"Then when will you be cured of your illness and come out to make money?"
What kind of ruthless words can a ruthless person say?
Not only that, but there was also a female student who asked Cong Fei for a new MD in order to compare herself with her classmates, and after learning that Cong Fei was ill, she said lightly: "Oh, then I wish him peace of mind and early recovery." There was no longer any expression, and even disappeared into the vast sea of people.
Even so, Cong Fei still blamed himself for his sins, he blamed himself, obviously saying that he would fund their schooling, why couldn't he do it?
In the end, Cong Fei sent the money donated by the well-wishers to his own medical treatment.
His life finally burned out the last wick and disappeared at the age of 37.
When Cong Fei was diagnosed, Xing Dan happened to be pregnant with Liujia.
The cold person may have left his sick husband a long time ago, and maybe he will get the untimely child, but Xing Dan did not, she has been with Cong Fei around, accompanying him through the last part of his life.
This extraordinary woman, after Cong Fei's death, took her two daughters alone, and what happened later?
Some people say that Cong Fei's story is a modern version of the "farmer and the snake", he donated more than 3 million yuan in his life, but tasted the taste of the "white-eyed wolf" when his life suffered a major blow.
But the last wish left by this sad man is still related to public welfare — joining the party, donating corneas and refusing a property donated by the relevant departments in Shenzhen.
His last wishes have been fulfilled, but what about Xing Dan and his two daughters who are waiting to be fed? What happened to them?
After Xing Dan gave birth to his daughter Jingjing, he took over Cong Fei's volunteer number before his death, and used his weak shoulders to bear the debts owed by her husband in order to support others and treat diseases, and also continued to move forward on the road of public welfare instead of Cong Fei.
She has always been very low-key, never absent from public welfare activities, and has devoted herself to raising her two young daughters.
Fate was so uncaring for this good family.
The stones thrown by the three bear children caused a car accident and killed Xing Dan.
The news that "Cong Fei's wife Xing Dan suffered a car accident" shocked the public, Xing Dan's ashes and Cong Fei were buried together, but the elderly parents have not been able to get out of the grief of the bereaved daughter.
The daughter jingjing lost her mother when she was just 5 years old, and only learned the news of her mother's departure from her grandmother the day before the farewell ceremony of the body, although she was young and could not understand what the adults meant by "death", but the vague premonition made her cry out loudly: "I don't want my mother to go to heaven, I want my mother, I want my mother..."
Years later, Jing Jing grew up and became a volunteer with his friends who did public welfare with his father before he died.
And Cong Fei's other daughter, Rui Rui, now does not have any information related to her on the Internet, and may also be living peacefully.
Compared with Cong Fei, Xing Dan's great love has been rewarded more, and those children who have been sponsored by her can hardly hide their sorrow when they learn the news of Xing Dan's death. Guizhou girl Zhu Yuan is one of them, she traveled thousands of miles to the scene of the farewell ceremony to send the benefactor on the last journey.
The reason why Cong Fei jumped so resolutely into the "bottomless pit" of "public welfare" was because he had also bathed in the benevolent light of public welfare.
Although Cong Fei's parents once complained that their son had great love but no family, in Cong Fei's memory, they were also the kind of good people who did not forget to lend a helping hand to more difficult people no matter how difficult they were.
He will not forget that without the help of well-meaning people, he would not have had a day to shine because of singing.
It was 1993, Cong Fei, who had left his hometown to realize his musical dream, moved cement, slept on the grass, ate only 5 yuan a day of box lunch, and stood at the registration office of the singing competition, mourning for the 80 yuan registration fee.
A staff member named Si Zhenrong, seeing Cong Fei's embarrassment, after talking to him, gave him 600 yuan and instructed him to clean up after himself and concentrate on the competition.
It is precisely because of this 600 yuan that Cong Fei came to the end of the game. It was also the first time he truly realized that kindness can help people and even change their destiny.
In fact, the people who were originally funded by Cong Fei were not all ungrateful.
Hu Shishi, a disabled person, originally only read until the third grade of primary school, but his literary dream was continued because of Cong Fei, and he did not fall into the tragic scene of his soul being bound by a wheelchair, he successfully completed college and became the editor-in-chief of a magazine.
After Cong Fei's death, Hu Shishi came from Hunan and said, "I came today to tell him that now I have sponsored 6 children, and with his help, I also have the ability to fund others like him..."
Perhaps this is the ultimate meaning of public welfare, but kindness must also have a sharp edge.
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