The most influential news in October was the return of Meng Wanzhou to China. Meng Wanzhou, as huawei's CFO and the eldest daughter of ren zhengfei, has attracted much attention. Many people lament Ms. Meng Wanzhou's national integrity and sense of social responsibility at the same time, but also lament her elegance and beauty, this year, the appearance of the second generation is not lost to the second generation.
At the same time, the youngest daughter Yao Anna , who aspires to be in the entertainment industry , participated in the recording of this season's "Chinese Restaurant", and the discussion about her appearance level has also been on the hot search. Many people commented that Yao Anna's appearance was too ordinary, and even many rich second generations were also compared. The picky remarks of ordinary audiences incarnated as evaluators also reflect a real problem, and the public has high psychological expectations for the appearance of the rich second generation.
Compared with the two popular comment areas on Zhihu, it can also be explained: one is "which star second generation has punched the face of their parents' faces", and the other is "how beautiful ordinary people can look". In the general public psychology, the children of the rich people are generally high-looking, and if the appearance is average, they must be singled out and discussed, and the words are filled with logic that should look better.
And ordinary people's children look good, is a thing worth showing off, especially the family with downturned parents can produce a beautiful embryo, which will reveal the feeling of "bad bamboo out of good bamboo shoots".
In real life, it is true that the children of rich families are generally better-looking, and the gap between rich and poor determines not only the standard of living, but also the appearance of children is linked to family income. The reason for this is indeed both heart-wrenching and realistic.
1. The difference in the right to choose a spouse brought about by the gap between the rich and the poor - the children of rich people inherit the good looks of their parents
Genetics believes that the primary factor that determines the appearance of the face is the gene, the appearance is determined by the gene, and the gene is determined by the heredity. Although children are not clones of their parents, many of their facial features, body shape, and skin are inherited. According to the principles of evolutionary psychology, the better the parents look, the greater the probability that the children will look good, and the importance of appearance is first reflected in the mate selection.
In primitive society, people choose their spouses to value looks not because of face control, but because in the context of backward productivity, in order to ensure the reproduction of the group and the quality of offspring, it is necessary to judge whether the other party is healthy and strong through appearance, so both men and women will tend to choose the object of appearance.
With the progress of society, the class that has satisfied the subsistence has put forward new requirements for mate selection - the aesthetic concept with the characteristics of the times. Whether it is "The King of Chu has a thin waist" or "Taizhen has abundant qualifications", Huan FeiYan is thin and red, and the aesthetic scoring table is in the hands of the ruling class. When the people at the bottom still take "good offspring" and "easy to feed" as the standard, the upper class begins to choose good-looking objects.
For example, the various "draft" systems shown by court dramas, the harem beauties of ancient emperors of three thousand people, in addition to political needs, most of them are also beautiful women with outstanding appearance. Another example is the "Tanhua" in the imperial examination system, which not only emphasizes talent and learning, but also emphasizes appearance, because of the cultivation of character and appearance, many of the tanhualangs in the past have become the sons-in-law of the senior members of the DPRK.
In modern times, the quality of life has been further improved, the instinct and nature of chasing "beauty" on the spiritual level are even worse, and the appearance value is becoming more and more important in the mate selection process. High appearance has become a kind of capital, holding beautiful and proud, and there are also many people who rely on beauty to achieve class leapfrogging. What kind of people can harvest the hearts of beautiful people, often people who have the right to have money and resources.
For example, Liu Yifei, who is known as the "ugliest in the whole family", is regarded as a "fairy sister" in the eyes of the public, and her mother and aunt's family are all big beauties, even if they are no longer young, they are no less in the same frame as Liu Yifei. Liu Yifei relies not so much on the excellent genes of the mother's side, but rather on the mother's genes plus the father's resources.
It can be seen that good-looking people have greater room for choice in the marriage market, and they will choose people with stronger comprehensive strength and higher appearance under the same conditions as marriage and love objects. In this way, we can maximize the protection of beautiful genes to future generations, so that future generations can grow up in a more superior situation.
2. The cultivation of beauty is a consciousness that can be cultivated - rich people are more targeted at raising their children
"Where Daddy Goes" has allowed many second-generation stars to enter the public eye, among which "Duoduo" Huang Yici has always been praised as "beautiful and has aura", and Huang Lei and Sun Li have also created many opportunities for her. Duoduo has been on the hot search because of dyed hair, and because he wants to pierce his ears and participate in the famous drama director Lai Shengchuan's "Book of Water", he has been on the hot search, and he has won 5 first prizes in piano and violin competitions and has been on the hot search.
There are detailed explanations in pedagogy. Ordinary people will also cultivate children, want to make the child's body more stretched, the limbs more coordinated, learn to dance; want to let the child improve temperament, have an artistic atmosphere, learn musical instruments; want to make the child confident and generous, can talk, learn to host. Before the "double reduction" policy was introduced, no matter whether the family was rich or poor, most parents would "chicken babies". However, the rich people are more targeted at the cultivation of children, and the children of ordinary people have to develop comprehensively, learn to do the main business, and interest is a side business, while the children of rich families play their strengths more targetedly.
Especially under the double reduction policy, ordinary cram schools have been closed, but rich people can still afford to live in private tutors, and there are still people with connections and platforms. Their children do not have to revolve around the baton of the college entrance examination, and if they do not study well, they can go to private school, they can learn art, and they can go abroad. Therefore, the child's pressure is also less, more time and energy to make himself more beautiful, and the experience itself is also a kind of wealth, and the more experience, the aesthetic taste will indeed be better.
Many rich second generations use big-name skin care products at a young age, wear clothes that are particularly matched, and practice yoga to pay attention to posture. Whether it is necessary or not, at least they have a clear sense of the pursuit of beauty. The children of rich families that the public sees are often the way rich people want others to see them, and the children of ordinary people are more like innocent wild children than they consciously create a "beautiful" image.
3. The blessing effect of good economic conditions on appearance - rich people protect their children well
Lincoln said: "A person's face before the age of 40 is determined by the parents, but the face after the age of 40 is determined by themselves. "Everyone has two forms, one is physical appearance and the other is mental appearance. Some people believe that struggle changes everything, but the family background and social class of rich people cannot be broken overnight. The gap between the children of rich families and ordinary people often widens with the passage of time.
Physiologically, the young boys and girls before and after puberty are mainly physical appearances, whether it is fresh skin, dense hair or the vitality of baby fat and youthful breath, giving people the feeling of being as bright as the sun at eight or nine o'clock. This is also why the love of the student era is green and beautiful, and youth itself is the most beautiful filter. At this stage, the overall difference between the children of rich families and the children of ordinary people is not too big.
When you enter society, become a family, and reach middle age, the gap is obvious. If you compare a woman to a flower, the blooming period of the flowers may be beautiful, but some flowers are long and some are short, and people only see the present. Rich families in first-tier cities in the north, Shanghai and Guangzhou, there is more than one nanny, taking care of children, doing housework, full-time driving drivers, do not need to face the wind and rain, naturally it is "rich and noble flowers in the world", often blooming.
The daughters of ordinary people grow up to be women who work for the family, women who run for their livelihoods, and even women who are gender-discriminated and are confined to various family conflicts. Just like Li Baoli of "Ten Thousand Arrows Through the Heart", she was also a beauty when she was young, but later after going through twists and turns, when she went to Hanzheng Street to pick up a flat burden, the whole person was like being destroyed by the cold wind, it should be green, fat, red and thin.
Therefore, good economic conditions also have a blessing effect on appearance. Even if "the beauty is not in the bone", but people can often see the well-maintained, well-dressed, comfortable skin beauty, few people will judge from the weathered face has passed away from the bone. Rich families can provide greenhouse space for their children, while ordinary people have to experience more wind and rain, and naturally look more vicissitudes.
So for ordinary people, do we have to accept the fact that their children are most likely not as good-looking as the children of rich families, and have a good environment and resources? In fact, in the simple pursuit of "beauty", Zhuangzi once said in the story of "The Song of Yangzi" that "beauty is not self-aware, I am more beautiful", referring to those who think they are beautiful, I don't know where their beauty is, and those who don't know their beauty, I think they are more beautiful.
Many people are beautiful, but too pretentious, too deliberate, but it seems very ingenious. If you can understand that "the sound of the big sound is the sound of the elephant is invisible", and the beauty is more about the cultivation of the mind and pattern. Therefore, the upbringing of children is more important than making people realize that children are not beautiful.