In the TV series "Wind and Rain Sends Spring Home", Zhao Dasheng, played by Wang Zhiwen, and Yu Zhongjun had a showdown, he directly said about Chengxian, hoping that Yu Zhongjun could turn himself in and take the initiative to explain the problem, which is the only thing Zhao Dasheng can do to help this old friend.
This was also the last time the two talked as friends, and after this parting, the two completely belonged to different camps, both of which wanted each other's "lives".
Zhao Dasheng, played by Wang Zhiwen, hopes that his friend can restrain himself from the precipice, but Yu Zhongjun is too lazy to pay attention to Zhao Dasheng.
Yu Zhongjun, played by Yu Zhen in "Wind and Rain Sends Spring Return", also went all the way to the dark, and he is about to live a leisurely life, why do you Zhao Dasheng let me turn myself in, I will turn myself in, you Zhao Dasheng is old.
And Zhao Dasheng only came up with the empirical evidence that Yu Zhongjun had an extramarital affair, which was not the key point for Yu Zhongjun, who was ready to run.
Because this matter is at most a matter of Yu Zhongjun's life style, he and Lin Miaoxue have not registered their marriage, and they are not even bigamy crimes.
Even if Zhao Dasheng makes a fuss about this matter, Yu Zhongjun is affected by his career, but the problem people are ready to run away, suspended, demoted, even if he is swept to the end, he Yu Zhongjun will not have any reaction.
In "Wind and Rain Sends Spring Back", Yu Zhongjun confided in Zhao Dasheng at that time, saying that he had endured and held back for many years, all because of Zhao Dasheng.
If Zhao Dasheng does not return, then he Yu Zhongjun still has a complete family, Yulan will not still have Zhao Dasheng in her heart, and Zhao Xiaojun will also become her own son.
But when Zhao Dasheng returned, Yu Zhongjun had a thorn in his heart, and the relationship between the two was quite good on the surface, but Yu Zhongjun became more and more dissatisfied in his heart, feeling that his family was ruined by Zhao Dasheng.
Zhao Dasheng, played by Wang Zhiwen in "Sending Spring Home" in "Wind and Rain Sends Spring Home", chose to be in the same city with Yu Zhongjun, which was indeed not suitable, which made both families embarrassed.
But Yu Zhongjun is not qualified to accuse Zhao Dasheng so much, he hates Zhao Dasheng so much, in essence, to find an excuse for his crime, it seems that he is forced, in fact, his pain is mainly based on the principle of his choice.
The problem is, since when, Yu Zhongjun had a knot in his heart, and began to be dissatisfied with Zhao Dasheng's return, it is undeniable that Yu Zhongjun took care of Zhao Dasheng's wife and children back then, enough men, and he sacrificed a lot at the beginning.
In this regard, Zhao Dasheng's family owes Yu Zhongjun.
But a debt is a debt, and Zhao Dasheng can't become Yu Zhongjun's accomplice because of this matter.
Kindness is kindness, principle is principle.
And let's ask, should Yu Zhongjun divorce Yulan after he has a heart tie, Zhao Dasheng comes back, he divorces Yulan, no one will pick anything wrong with him.
It's just that I don't know if at that time, Yu Zhongjun already liked Yulan and couldn't give it up, or he didn't want his divorce with Yulan to affect his career.
Otherwise, since you Yu Zhongjun feel that life can't go on, every day is torment, and you can't let go of this special marriage, then what he should do is divorce Yulan.
But Yu Zhongjun did not choose to divorce in "Wind and Rain Sends Spring Home", and the interests behind this are more considered.
This is Yu Zhongjun's personal choice, his pain, the root cause is that he has always wanted too much, Yulan's wife wants, Zhao Xiaojun's son wants, Shitu wants, Lin Miaoxue's lover also wants, wants too much, and he has to bear the pain caused by this greed.
If he had done things decisively, there would have been no so-called, Zhao Dasheng caused his painful marriage, these are the result of his personal choices.
He is grateful to Zhao Dasheng, but he is not qualified to blame Zhao Dasheng for his suffering.
The more ruthless he accused Zhao Dasheng, the more it showed that he was weak in heart when facing Zhao Dasheng.
When a person cannot justify himself, knowing that he has done something wrong, but still has to speak strongly, incompetent anger, angry accusations and insults against others is a manifestation of his escapism.