What should I do if my child eats and watches TV?
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If you have children in your family who are struggling to eat, rule out physical diseases. If a physically normal child has such a habit of behavior, it is really not good, that's for sure.
First, from the perspective of the hospital, when watching TV, the child's attention is on the TV, (this seems to be in my textbooks in elementary school) resulting in the stomach not being mobilized to participate in the action of eating, which will lead to poor gastrointestinal absorption, food accumulation and so on. Watching TV or other electronic products for a long time can lead to decreased vision and premature myopia.
Second: From an educational point of view, children are too exposed to video too early, this kind of acousto-optic stimulation. It will lead to laziness in the brain, and when you grow up, you don't like to learn, and you only like to watch videos that don't like to use your brain. Just like today's adults are tired of watching brainless TV series or funny variety shows and laugh at it, but they are unwilling to read.
Third: From the level of parent-child relationship, due to the lazy behavior of parents, children only see the characters in the TV and will learn their words and deeds. As a result, he does not know how to respect his parents, because of the lack of interaction, he will also lack emotional communication from his relatives. Even growing up, I don't deal with relationships.
When a child eats and watches TV, parents need to think about the scene where he watched TV at the beginning, what is it because of watching TV?
Suppose scenario 1: Because a person brings a child, no one watches the child when cooking at home. So you turn on the TV for the kids to watch. This way you feel that you can cook with peace of mind. Then the meal is cooked, the child's attention is still on TV, you call him, he does not listen. After letting you stop correcting, let him watch TV and eat. Later, he watched TV every time he ate, and he felt that this was how he was born to be. You feel that this is not good, every time you call for dinner, your eyes can't do without the TV, and the meal is cold. So you decide to correct the habit of your child. It's difficult, he cries and refuses to eat, and you rekindle again. I was afraid that the child would not grow tall if he did not eat, and like serving the little emperor, let him watch TV and feed him. Alas it's too hard, you sigh, you tangled.
Suppose scenario two: There are elderly people in the family who do not know how to educate their children, so they buy their children toys they have not played with, buy snacks that they can't eat, and turn on the TV that they didn't have when they were children. As long as the grandchildren are happy, they are happy themselves. Hungry to feed, thirsty to feed. Then I felt that I was serving well and hard. Others said that this child felt that his heart hurt every word. When it is time to eat, the child is not hungry, does not eat, or the grandmother continues to feed. When the mother has no way to start, she dare not say old, and it is not good to say small.
Scene 3: The family is used to eating on the TV. Children follow along from an early age, but adults know hunger and fullness, children do not. Children are like this every day, and when parents realize that this is not good for their children, it is no longer easy to correct. Moreover, the family does not want to delay the habit of educating children for so long.
Having said so much about the pros and cons, how to deal with it? In fact, everyone has the answer in their hearts. It's just that you can't be ruthless when dealing with it, and you are soft for the mother, which hurts the child.
First, some parents simply dispose of the TV, and the TV is not allowed at home, which is not a necessity. If you like to look at your phone, you must also resolutely confiscate it. The mobile phone itself should not be in the hands of the child, it is because of the laziness of parents will let the mobile phone replace their own time with the child. Electronic products can be replaced with items such as handicrafts and drawings that children like, so that children can have a healthy hobby.
Second, create good dining habits and follow the rules as a family. Half an hour before meals, you have to turn off the TV or other electronics. Let your child see your cooking, let him help you with vegetables, etc., let him do what he can, so that he can feel involved. Wash your hands, check that your small hands are not clean, etc. These require adults to always remember that children are to grow up, and let him participate in all things in life as soon as possible before taking away the responsibility of the little master. #每天都值得记录 #
Raising a baby is a very hard and warm and happy thing, remember not to be lazy and throw an electronic product to your child. Picture save trouble! From the time the child is still a baby, you have to be strict with yourself, the child must stop it in time if he is not doing right, do not be afraid of him crying, afraid that he will not eat, hungry and will not grow tall. No rules do not form a square circle, may every mother's child become a dragon and a phoenix!
Posted 8 hours ago・IP Territory Henan
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