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"What did the doctor say?" A woman sitting in front of a hospital bed asked her husband who had just walked in.
It was 2022, a year after the couple became parents.
Her husband, on the other hand, looked at the sleeping child on the hospital bed and sighed wearily.
The child lying on the hospital bed is only more than one year old, and the couple not only suffered a lot but also spent 220,000 yuan in order to conceive this child, but now, they "regret" having this child.
The woman in front of the hospital bed even lost her mind, and later found the doctor and said some overly extreme words.
But before, the husband and wife were the envy of many families, what is going on?
At the beginning of 2021, Ju Feng was found to be pregnant with twins.
This news made Ju Feng and his wife happy for a long time, knowing that the moment they were pregnant, Ju Feng felt that all the hardships they had suffered before were worth it.
In October 2021, Ju Feng successfully gave birth to a pair of twins, and the couple named their brother Cheng Taoxu, and their younger brother Cheng Taoan.
These two names contain the best wishes of Jufeng and his wife to their children, as well as their expectations for hardship, and their greatest wish for the children's safety, health and well-being.
After the birth of the child, the couple will always be blessed and envied by strangers when they go out with the child.
Many people say that they are blessed and that the children are well-behaved and cute, and only Jufeng and his wife know how difficult it is for these two children to be born.
After experiencing the first ectopic pregnancy, Ju Feng was very cautious about her pregnancy this time.
The family was as worried as her, knowing that she was pregnant and eager to offer her up, not only did she not let her do anything, but even what Ju Feng usually eats and drinks, Cheng Gang has to ask the doctor.
Although Ju Feng was very careful, there was still a problem at fourteen weeks of pregnancy.
That day, Ju Feng was lying on the bed eating fruit, but while eating, he suddenly felt a sharp pain in his stomach, Ju Feng put down the fruit that had not yet been delivered to his mouth, and covered his abdomen in pain.
Hearing Ju Feng shouting in the house, Cheng Gang quickly ran into the house.
After he went in, he saw Ju Feng curled up on the bed in pain, and there was still some blood on the sheets, and Cheng Gang quickly called an ambulance in fright.
In order to reach the hospital faster, Cheng Gang carried Ju Feng downstairs.
Cheng Gang's family lived on the fourth floor, and they had carried Ju Feng down from the stairs wrapped in a quilt every time to go to the maternity examination. After arriving at the hospital, the doctor said that Ju Feng was bleeding profusely, but fortunately the child was saved in the end.
This accident made Ju Feng and his wife more careful, and the whole family almost counted the days day by day.
Ju Feng also lost a lot of hair because she was too anxious, and lived every day in anticipation of the arrival of her child and fear of accidents.
However, the joy of the child's birth overshadowed all the pain before, and Ju Feng gave birth to healthy twins strongly.
After the birth of the child, Ju Feng and his wife did not dare to slack, they wrapped all kinds of table corners in the house with soft sponges, and the kitchen door was locked at any time, for fear that the child would touch and contact dangerous things.
Although sometimes there is a little cold, fever, etc., Cheng Taoxu and Cheng Taoan still grew up safely and healthily to more than one year old.
The two brothers are cute and obedient, and Ju Feng thinks that their lives are finally on track.
Although the family is a little poor, when the children grow up and go to school, Ju Feng can find a job and help her husband share a little.
There is a saying that "hemp rope is specially picked and broken, and bad luck is specifically looking for bitter people." "Ju Feng and his wife are bitter people who have been found by bad luck three and five times.
In 2022, after Ju Feng came to a hospital in Harbin, she broke down and cried in the corridor, and she said while crying:
"I shouldn't have given birth to him. I shouldn't have had him, I'd rather not have children so much so that he wouldn't suffer so much. ”
The people in the hospital witnessed too many partings of life and death every day, and they walked past Ju Feng, casting sympathetic eyes at her, but did not know how to comfort her.
Cheng Gang stood silently next to Ju Feng, because he stayed up late and rushed, he had two big black circles under his eyes.
They had just arrived in Harbin from home with their youngest son Cheng Taoan two days ago, and just now, the doctor told them that Cheng Taoan, who was more than one year old, had leukemia.
They didn't understand some of the things the doctor said, but they understood the words "leukemia."
Although they had some psychological preparations before coming to Harbin, it was still difficult for the couple to accept it after knowing that the child was diagnosed.
Although Ju Feng and Cheng Gang both had a marriage before they became husband and wife, after getting married, they both cherished each other and lived a harmonious life.
Children were the main reason why Ju Feng's first marriage ended early, she was more difficult to conceive a child's physique, and her mother-in-law gave her a look because she couldn't conceive a child.
One day the whole family was eating, Ju Feng suddenly felt a pang of nausea, so he ran outside and vomited.
In the past few days, Ju Feng often has dizziness and wants to vomit, which is an obvious reaction of pregnancy, but Ju Feng does not dare to think about pregnancy, after all, he has been disappointed too many times before.
Later, Ju Feng's reaction became stronger and stronger, and she went to the hospital for an examination.
On the way to the inspection, Ju Feng was particularly nervous, she was both expectant and afraid of disappointment. The test results came out, which was more uncomfortable for her than not pregnant, Ju Feng was indeed pregnant, but it was an ectopic pregnancy.
An ectopic pregnancy not only means that the child cannot be born, but also poses a great danger to the pregnant mother.
For treatment, Ju Feng had a section of fallopian tube removed, making pregnancy less likely.
This incident completely deteriorated the relationship between Ju Feng and her in-laws, and she finally had to choose to divorce.
Later, Ju Feng met Cheng Gang, who was also divorced, and the two people who had been injured once felt sorry for each other after getting married, and Ju Feng and his father-in-law also got along well.
Ju Feng and Cheng Gang have no children, and after getting married, the family has been urging them to have a child, although the two also have this idea, but Ju Feng's physical condition is too special, and it is not easy to conceive a child.
After more than a year of trying to get pregnant, Ju Feng still failed to conceive a child.
After understanding Ju Feng's situation, the doctor gave Ju Feng and his wife a suggestion to try IVF.
In recent years, domestic IVF technology has been very mature, but it still takes a lot of money to do IVF.
Ju Feng and Cheng Gang were both born in ordinary families, and it was not a small difficulty for them to take out hundreds of thousands at once.
But Ju Feng is almost 40 years old at this time, and if he doesn't conceive a child again, he may not have a chance in the future.
After thinking about it for a long time, the couple contacted a hospital in Beijing.
Because Ju Feng lives in Heilongjiang, they have to run from Heilongjiang to Beijing every time they do an inspection.
IVF requires the two of them to go to the hospital frequently, so for a while Ju Feng and his wife rented a small house in Beijing.
Due to physical reasons, Ju Feng's ovulation injection took longer than the average person, and later had some side effects.
In short, in order to have a child, Ju Feng not only endured a lot of physical torture, but also suffered mental pressure.
Every trip to Beijing is a big expense, and the money is made up by both parents and borrowed from relatives and friends.
After the birth of the Cheng Taoxu brothers, the hospital gave them a comprehensive examination, and the doctor said that although the two babies were born prematurely, they were very healthy.
Later, Ju Feng would also take the child to physical examinations and vaccinations regularly, and there was no problem.
Until one time Cheng Taoan accidentally hit the wall, but he didn't hit it seriously at that time.
But strangely, Cheng Taoan has been bleeding from the nose since then.
At first, Ju Feng also used a tissue to help the child wipe the nosebleed, but she kept wiping it, and the child's nosebleed kept flowing. Ju Feng immediately panicked, and she quickly called Cheng Gang.
Cheng Gang rushed back from outside not long after, and then the two took Cheng Taoan to the nearest local children's hospital for examination.
After doing some simple tests on the child, the doctor asked, "Has the child ever had this kind of nosebleed before?" ”
Ju Feng said that it was only recently, but when the doctor did a detailed examination, he quickly called other colleagues.
"What's the little red dot on him?" Something doesn't look right! ”
Cheng Gang hurriedly said - that little red dot appeared a week ago.
Ju Feng also told in detail about the discovery, when she changed the child's clothes, she found that the child's arms and chest had some small red dots, and at that time she thought it was a skin allergy, so she applied some ointment to the child.
The doctor told Ju Feng and his wife not to worry too much, but also to be prepared to accept various results, and after listening, the couple asked the doctor if their child was suffering from any serious illness.
The doctor just asked them to take the child for further examination, saying that they could not judge until the results of the test were available.
Because the medical level and facilities of the local hospital are limited, the doctor is not 100% sure that the child has leukemia.
Ju Feng and Cheng had already collapsed once in the local hospital, and before coming to Harbin, they had been praying in their hearts that it was a misdiagnosis.
In this examination in Harbin Hospital, the doctor performed a bone puncture on the child, and the results of this examination also extinguished the last flame of hope in the couple's hearts.
When the child underwent the bone puncture examination, Ju Feng was distressed and did not dare to look at the child, but then the child had to undergo chemotherapy that was more painful than the bone puncture.
When the child was diagnosed with leukemia, she helplessly shouted to the doctor: "If I had known this, I wouldn't have given birth, I am sorry for him..."
Unfortunately, you still have to face reality. During Cheng Taoan's treatment, Ju Feng was in the hospital every day, unable to take care of the other child at home.
Ju Feng's mother-in-law has diabetes, her father-in-law has blood clots in her hands and feet, and it is very difficult for the elderly in the family to help them take care of one of the children, but now there is no other way, Ju Feng can only leave Cheng Taoxu at home.
Ju Feng not only has to worry about the children at home, but also watches the children in the hospital suffer, exhausted every day.
Ju Feng is especially afraid of seeing her child do chemotherapy and watching her child infusion.
It is difficult for children's fleshy hands to pierce needles, and sometimes it takes several times to prick them, so the back of Cheng Taoan's hands is often covered with various bruises.
Because of his poor appetite, Cheng Taoan lost weight quickly. Ju Feng tried to coax him to eat every time, but despite this, Cheng Taoan often vomited uncomfortably just after eating it.
When he is in a better state, Cheng Taoan will also happily play with the toys his father brought him on the hospital bed.
The child's smile gave Ju Feng a lot of motivation, and every time she couldn't hold on, she would think about Cheng Taoan when she was carefree and playing.
The family is busy in one place, and sometimes Cheng Taoxu, who stays at home, will cry to find his mother. In order to take care of Cheng Daoan, Ju Feng could only occasionally take time to go back to see Cheng Taoxu.
Every time she left home, she sneaked like a thief, taking advantage of Cheng Taoxu's sleep or going out with her grandparents.
Ju Feng did not dare to let Cheng Taoxu see her leave, as long as she put her bag on her back, Cheng Taoxu knew that she was leaving.
The young Cheng Taoxu didn't know what leukemia was, nor did he know why his mother and brother were always not at home, he just didn't want his mother to leave.
Every time Ju Feng wanted to leave, Cheng Taoxu would hold her and cry all the time, not letting her go.
Sometimes Ju Feng came out of the house just enough to see Cheng Taoxu, who was playing with her grandparents not far away, but she could only watch quietly for a while, and then ruthlessly left, she knew that there was still a child waiting for her in the hospital.
Cheng Gang and Ju Feng spent 220,000 yuan on IVF before, and they haven't paid back the money yet.
However, no matter how much pressure it was, the couple decided to take Cheng Taoan to Beijing for treatment and try to give him a bone marrow transplant.
Ju Feng, they have launched crowdfunding on the Internet before, but the money raised is just a drop in the bucket, even if there are no accidents during the treatment, Cheng Taoan successfully received a bone marrow transplant, and the treatment cost also needs 5.6 million yuan.
Cheng Gang cheekily borrowed money from relatives and friends again, although he had not paid off the last time he borrowed, but everyone knew the situation in his family, did not think too much, and extended a helping hand.
At the end of 2022, Ju Feng and Cheng Gang took their child to the car to Beijing, and the child's condition could no longer be delayed, and they had to take him to a better hospital for treatment and bone marrow matching.
The weather was fine on the day they went to Beijing, and soon after getting on the bus, Cheng Taoan fell asleep in his father's arms.
The fragments of sunlight scattered by the woods kept flashing from Cheng Taoan, and Cheng Gang intimately helped the child cover the light that hit his face.
Their trip to Beijing was full of many unknowns and predictable busyness.
After getting off the bus, they have to face high costs, difficult bone marrow matching, endless examinations, endless procedures, and endless signs...
So they cherished this short, quiet time in the car.
Ju Feng and Cheng Gang's hard journey has just begun, they don't know what the final result will be, but they don't want to give up a glimmer of hope.
How do you know that it is impossible without trying, Cheng Taoan's life is still in its infancy, he has not enjoyed life and loved the world well.
Ju Feng and Cheng Gang had worked hard to give Cheng Taoan life, and now they want to give him a chance to grow up.
May his future life be as peaceful as his name!
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