Girls' Day is just around the corner, what kind of surprise will your significant other receive? Perhaps your busy life has exhausted you and neglected communication; Or the pressure of survival overshadows love and affection, and you who are overwhelmed no longer know how to "talk well"? The lack of communication brings about "incompatibility" in ideas, and contradictions and conflicts naturally follow! As a result, this emotional dilemma has become a real pressure faced by countless couples.
Have you ever thought that with the help of this "Girls' Day", find a suitable communication scene for each other, so that both parties can relax, chat and talk naturally, and untie the knot that has been plaguing for many days? In fact, it is very simple, everyone has such a corner of their home that is most easily overlooked - the kitchen!
There, the two prepare delicious food together, decompress together in the aroma of ingredients, share interesting stories around each other, or dissolve troubles at work, and the relationship between the two will naturally become intimate again. The only fly in the ointment is that this sweetness is often broken by an "uninvited guest" - a rumbling and roaring range hood!
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How is "the most familiar stranger" refined?
Ye Zi and Dashan are new parents, Ye Zi returned to work after maternity leave, and had to take care of the children after work every day, and was often exhausted at the end of the day.
Dashan does sales work, in order to win orders, often have to socialize at night, when he returns home, Yezi and the child have already slept, and they don't have a chance to chat with their wives again. Yezi often complains that Oyama treats his home as a hotel, just a place to sleep.
Leaving early and returning late is the norm for Dashan, and Ye Zi feels that Dashan's mind seems to be no longer at home, and even suspects that Dashan is deliberately avoiding going home to take the child. Although he always reminded himself not to think so, as the days went by, Ye Zi became more and more anxious, and often complained.
Dashan also knew that Ye Zi was dissatisfied and wanted to accompany her well, but every time he heard her blame herself for a little thing, he never wanted to speak again.
It is clear that both of them are doing their best for this family, and the lack of communication has made them "the most familiar strangers".
In fact, they have also tried to create more alone time for each other.
One weekend when she wasn't traveling, Grandma asked Oyama to drop off the baby. In the rare time alone between the two, Ye Zi thought about making a good table of dishes to comfort his hard work.
After sending the children home, Oyama saw that Leaf was busy in the kitchen.
"Do you need help with anything?" Dashan tied his apron and wanted to help his wife with the handle;
Leaf dodged the splashing oil stars while concentrating on frying the steak, but in the rumble of the hood, she didn't seem to hear her husband's concern;
"I said, do you need me to take the handle?" The mountain approached and repeated it loudly, finally louder than the roar of the hood;
"Ah! Startled me... Walk around, go out and stay, I'll call you again if necessary! "The rumbling noise of the hood made the leaves a little irritated;
Oyama awkwardly exited the kitchen, closed the door, untied his apron, and flipped through his phone.
After a while, Yezi in the kitchen called him: "Husband, you take out the red wine in the cabinet, sober up first!" "The plate is also laid out, and I will be fine soon."
However, the sound of the leaves was drowned out in the rumble of the hood, and Dashan did not hear a word.
When Ye served the fried steak to the table, he found that her husband had not woken up from wine and tableware, and he couldn't help but feel a little angry.
Such a rare two-person world does not need snacks, or only cares about their own work.
Dashan also didn't understand why her face suddenly turned bad, and felt very inexplicable. This dinner that should have been wonderful ended regrettably in the silence of the two.
The kitchen, filled with the noise of the hood, made their relationship even more distant.
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The "most important thing" will bring about a new turnaround
The bestseller, The One Thing, which once ranked first on Amazon's overall list, illustrates a core point: there is only one thing that matters.
It inspires people to find the most crucial first domino and tear it down! The remaining dominoes fall one after another, and the desired goal will eventually be achieved.
Recalling the situation of Ye Zi and his wife, they could have cooked and chatted together, tasted wine together, and got out of the communication dilemma between the two, but unfortunately ended because of the noise of the range hood in the kitchen.
Perhaps if you want to have a happy family, the first domino to get out of the couple's communication dilemma is: a quiet kitchen.
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Communication "Harmony" Achieves "Great Wisdom in Marriage"
Amy and Lao Lin are the same, Lao Lin is busy with work, the messages Amy sends him are often lost in the sea, she feels that Lao Lin is not attentive enough to herself, occasionally complaining twice, Lao Lin seems to be the wind in his ears, and he is afraid to say too much He feels pretentious, so Amy is always sulking.
Communication is getting less and less, and there seems to be an invisible "wall" between the two.
Later, the old range hood at home failed, Amy replaced a new one, the kitchen was much quieter, listening to podcasts or music while cooking, cooking did not feel tired, and the mood was much happier. Then one day while cooking, she suddenly had an inspiration.
It's almost the wedding anniversary, Amy wants to go out with Lao Lin to relax, and also wants to improve the relationship between the two, and is afraid that he is too busy to refuse him, ready to create an opportunity to discuss this matter with him.
On this day, she sent a message to Lao Lin in advance, asking him to come home on time after work, saying that she would make him his favorite pot wrapped meat, which would not taste good when it was cold.
When Lao Lin arrived home, he just stepped into the entrance with one foot when he heard Amy greeting in the kitchen:
"Came back on time today! Come on, the pot wrapped meat is almost ready! ”
Lao Lin heard the sound of cooking teaching videos coming from the kitchen, he pursed his lips and smiled, changed his shoes and rolled up his sleeves and walked into the kitchen.
"How did you come up with the idea of making pot wrapped meat."
"When I saw you chatting with friends in the group and saying that I missed my hometown food, I learned it, and I didn't know if it was to your taste."
"The food you cook is always the best."
Amy looked down and smiled, took out a piece dipped in sauce from the "nourishing" oil pot, gently "whistled" to cool the meat, and sent it to Lao Lin's mouth: "You taste it first, be careful to scald." ”
With a crispy sound, Lao Lin gave a thumbs up and said indistinctly: "This taste is right, daughter-in-law, you are amazing, you can learn it as soon as you learn!" ”
The whole kitchen is full of laughter between the two, and the gentle "moisture" sound in the oil pot is accompaniing them, and the newly replaced A.O. Smith "Ryo" range hood quietly absorbs the smoke rising from the oil pan, and the sweetness of the pot meat stays in the mouth, as if to regain the sweetness of their first love.
Without waiting for Amy to speak, Lao Lin told her that on his wedding anniversary next month, he had already taken annual leave, and told him where he wanted to go to play, and he would arrange all the schedules, and he didn't need Amy to worry about it.
"You work so hard, or I will arrange the trip, it will be very satisfying to ask for leave to accompany me" Amy was surprised and moved.
In fact, Lao Lin's heart is all her, but she is used to hiding her thoughts in her heart.
At this moment, in this quiet kitchen, Lao Lin finally had the opportunity to say the love in his heart, they cooked leisurely, chatted, revealed their hearts, and felt each other's hearts that had never faded.
This is the story of two couples recorded by the "quiet kitchen pioneer" A.O. Smith "Ryo" range hood.
Also in the kitchen, the relationship between Leaf and Dashan is more distant here, while Amy and Lao Lin are increasingly in love.
The quiet kitchen built by the "Toro" range hood became their first domino to achieve a happy family relationship.
The very quiet and clean A.O. Smith range hood not only creates a quiet and clean kitchen environment, but also focuses on creating a high-quality and comfortable home life to realize your expectations for a happy family life.
Set out with a vision of a better life, and a happy future will embrace you.