The state is actively promoting parents to have more children, so how many children are your family at present, what does everyone think?
My family is now a child, a boy, and I have always been a little hesitant to have a second child.
First of all, let's talk about the current consideration, the first child is a boy, and I feel that it is better if the second child is a girl. If it is a boy, the burden will be heavier. First, as soon as you get pregnant and give birth, you feel that you have no financial resources, and you can only make money by the child's father. Second, the old man is older every year, and he feels that he has to save some money. Third, if you want a second child, you may not be able to go to work for the time being, and you have to take care of the child. I feel that if I have two children, there is not enough money to spend. Fourth, if a child is concerned, he can sign up for some interest classes, and if two children, I don't know if they have this ability. Fifth, the cost of children is getting higher and higher, the parenting process is getting more and more money, the cost is getting higher and higher, food, clothing, housing and transportation, if the health is not good, they will be old and sick. Hospitalization for sick is actually very difficult. Sixth, the child is not personally taken care of outdoors, not at ease, easy to form some bad habits The next generation often gives me to feel more doted.
However, a child's words feel a little lonely. Especially if the elderly are sick, they have a child, and the burden on the child is too heavy. A child's personality is more withdrawn. A child's words feel less of a heart to share with others, more to enjoy something and less responsibility.
I feel that it is better to have more children if you are rich, and if you are sensible, you will enjoy it when you are old.
The state is also actively promoting the three-child policy, because the aging population is increasing, and the Dinker family or one-child family is also increasing.
What do you think, are you all one-child, two-child or three-child families?