Satsuki is a pregnant woman with a nine-month-old child, and her mother-in-law's family is very concerned about Satsuki's pregnancy, and has been praying everywhere for Buddha, hoping that Satsuki's child will be a boy. And has been looking for a way to let Satsuki give birth to a boy, and keeps asking Satsuki to drink it with the common name that you can give birth to a boy D
Satsuki used to be an employee of the company, and by an unexpected chance, Satsuki met Kogui through the introduction of an acquaintance. And Satsuki and Kogui are already 26 and 27. Xiao Yue's family also often said: "You are also not small, do men marry and women should marry." "You are not too young, and you are also of marriage."
During that time, Xiaogui's mother-in-law was not bad for Xiao Yue, and every New Year and festival, she would let Xiao Gui bring Xiao Yue to eat at home, and also sent things to Xiao Yue's house from time to time. Xiaogui also often said to Xiao Yue that I will definitely be good to you, and now we are not young. Satsuki finally compromised and married Xiaogui under pressure from her family and in-laws.
Since Xiao Yue now needs to raise the fetus with peace of mind, she has quit her job and Xiaogui needs to earn money outside. Satsuki can only become a housewife, who has to do housework at home every day, and is often reprimanded by her mother-in-law that you can't mop the floor clean. From time to time, he also asked Satsuki to cut fruits for himself to eat, and his attitude towards Satsuki was very bad.
The mother-in-law also kept saying in front of Xiao Yue: "You must give birth to a boy, otherwise you will feel better." The mother-in-law also said to Xiao Yue's husband: "Xiaogui! If she dares to give birth to a girl, you must always give birth to me, and you must give me a boy. I don't care! ”
But the world is unpredictable, Satsuki gave birth to a girl! The mother-in-law's attitude towards Satsuki is even more acceptable.
During Xiao Yue's confinement, her mother-in-law often scolded Xiao Yue and said: "You are a useless guy, why don't you give me a male baby, do you know that this will be sorry for the ancestors." How can you explain this old face to my ancestors! ”
The mother-in-law usually does not take care of Satsuki, and usually cooks a few eggs for Satsuki, or puts white rice and pickles on the table. And he often said: "Love to eat or not, when you will eat into a pig." "During the confinement period, my mother-in-law also often went out to play with other elderly people, and waited until late in the evening to come back.
After returning in the evening, he also asked Satsuki to cook for her and Xiaogui. He also said: "We don't spend tens of thousands to get you married, but we don't let you eat for nothing." ”
"You didn't let me hold my grandson and let you do some housework, what's wrong?"
"Why can't you do what others can do?"
"Something that doesn't exist."
The mother-in-law also often said to Xiaogui: "Xiaogui, can she do it?" Why don't you give me a grandson, our family also spent tens of thousands of bride price to let her marry into our family, she so we can't let her have a good life, otherwise it's a pity that tens of thousands of bride price, how to say that you have to hold me a grandson, give our old and noble parents a long face! ”
"Are you right? Small expensive. ”
Xiaogui gradually changed her attitude towards Xiao Yue at the instigation of her mother-in-law. In the past, he would help Satsuki do some work. Now come with my mother-in-law to squeeze out Satsuki. From time to time, he said to Satsuki: "Why can't you let my mother hold a grandson!" Yes? And also accused Satsuki: "You can also do what others can do, just wash rice to do housework, and you won't break your hands and feet." ”
Because Satsuki was born a girl, Satsuki's mother-in-law also has a very bad attitude towards her granddaughter. Mothers-in-law do not buy clothes and toys for her granddaughter, nor do she go to hold her granddaughter.
Satsuki also told her mother's family because of this attitude of her mother-in-law's family, but her mother's family always said: "Such patience will pass." ”
Because Satsuki is still in confinement, she can't go out at will, and it's hard to have an income. I have always dared to be angry and dare not speak, at most I just complained to my friends. During this period, many people said to Satsuki: "Otherwise, you better divorce him, such a family is difficult to live in, mother-in-law and your husband are not good for you." ”
Satsuki also mentioned divorce with her in-laws, but her mother-in-law always said: "You think you can divorce casually if you get married."
"You yourself were going to marry, but the bride price was given to your family. What if you divorce my son, how do you let me hold my grandson! ”
In fact, Xiao Yue had already begun to think about how to make her consumption more independent when she was in confinement. And I have been looking for a company to work, hoping that the company can accept me.
Finally, half a year after giving birth, I finally borrowed a little money from a good friend with the support of my friend, and left my in-laws' house with the child. I was introduced by a friend to work in a good company. And his own economy has gradually become independent, and Xiao Yue's children have also been handed over to his mother's family to raise, and he promises to give his mother-in-law a certain amount of living expenses and maintenance every month, and will also visit the children regularly.
After Satsuki went to work, Satsuki's economy gradually became independent, and the connection with her in-laws became less and less, and by a year later, Satsuki's economy was completely independent. During this period, the in-laws also continued to let Satsuki live in the in-laws' house, and kept harassing Satsuki, saying that if you don't come back, I will take my granddaughter away.
During this period, Satsuki also spoke to her daughter frequently, and visited her daughter every once in a while. Her own in-laws will not take their daughter away, because it is a burden for her in-laws to take their daughter away.
A year later, Satsuki repeatedly sued the court for divorce, and demanded that her in-laws compensate herself, saying that her in-laws had excluded herself. Compensation is required. However, the in-laws asked Satsuki to return the bride price to herself before she was willing to divorce. After half a year, Satsuki agreed to return half of the bride price to her in-laws, who also agreed to divorce.
After the divorce, Xiaogui's mother has been thinking about how she can hold her grandson, and has always condemned Xiaogui for being useless and unable to hold a big fat boy for herself. After half a year, Xiaogui's mother had severe high blood pressure because she often quarreled with Xiaogui. One day, Xiaogui's mother and Xiaogui had a fight and went out, but they did not fall down the stairs and caused their blood vessels to rupture. He was found by a neighbor downstairs and called the police, but died due to ineffective rescue. Xiaogui can only live alone.
Satsuki was constantly wondering "Does he love me?" Marriage that comes on a blind date is not without feelings. Are women just fertility tools? But Satsuki did not succumb to fate and changed herself to make her life better.
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