Many musicians in the circle said that she was "the first female voice in Asia".
Han Hong said: I always dream of singing as well as her.
Gao Xiaosong said: She has long been recognized as the first singer in the circle.
Li Jian said bluntly at the scene of the competition: She does not win the championship, it is unreasonable...
Such a talented singer, for the sake of a man, actually did such a stupid thing as "swallowing the whole bottle of sleeping pills"!
She is today's protagonist, Huang Qishan, who turned Huang's mother into Huang Sister and attracted widespread attention due to "subversive" reverse growth.
55-year-old Huang Qishan
45-year-old Huang Qishan
At first, her talent attracted him
Many people know Huang Qishan from 2013's "I am a Singer".
Because of her vocal skills and talent that are different from others, she has left a deep impression on everyone.
In fact, Huang Qishan became famous very early.
As early as 1991, she joined the "Butong 100 Band" in Guangzhou and became a colleague of Na Ying.
Na Ying, Huang Qishan, Yang Kun
Because it has an "iron lung", it is attractive as soon as it opens its mouth.
She also does not dislike the appearance fee of 47 yuan per game, that is, "want to become red at all costs".
Slowly, she gained a certain fame and gradually transformed from a cave-walking artist to a professional singer.
Just when everyone thinks that her future is brilliant, love comes.
Also that year, Taiwanese music producer Tu Huiyuan came to Guangzhou and was attracted by Huang Qishan's penetrating singing.
She was 23 years old at the time, and he was only 25.
Two young people who loved music at the same time quickly sparked.
At that time, Tu Huiyuan had become famous, and Huang Qishan "admired him".
In this way, Huang Qishan, who shouted "be red at all costs", rushed into marriage.
When the Guangzhou music scene was the most popular, he left his career and moved to Taiwan with Tu Huiyuan.
Ironically, after marriage, Tu Huiyuan only released a music album for her: "The Man Who Hides Behind the Music".
This song is like Wong Qishan .
She originally liked to sing, but she became the one hiding behind the stage.
This album reflects well, but the Taiwanese music scene only calls her "Tu Huiyuan" wife.
Because Huang Qishan gave up her music career after marriage, for a long time, in addition to buying vegetables, her life was to stay at home to do housework and take care of her husband, and she was completely reduced to a housewife.
Later, he frequently hurt her
Tu Huiyuan gradually became popular in the Chinese music scene. And Huang Qishan, lying on the merit book, is a housewife.
She was very aggrieved, and he didn't understand.
The two began to have contradictions, quarrels, and their feelings gradually consumed in the quarrels.
In the fifth year after marriage, Tu Huiyuan filed for divorce, and Huang Qishan cried and refused to let go.
In order to attract Tu Huiyuan's attention, she swallowed an entire bottle of sleeping pills.
If her friend hadn't sent her to the hospital in time, there might not have been a later "Yellow Mother".
Unfortunately, a friend informed Tu Huiyuan about her suicide, hoping that he would come to the hospital to see her.
Tu Huiyuan did not care at all, but said calmly: "She loves life so much, she won't do that kind of stupid thing, it's okay." ”
At that moment, Huang Qishan was both regretful and desperate.
But Tu Huiyuan's damage to her did not end.
Two months after their divorce, Tu Huiyuan wrote the songs "Cut Love" and "Listen to the Sea", faithfully recording their process from love to separation.
Then, he gave these two songs to Zhang Huimei.
The fledgling Zhang Huimei became popular with these two songs.
At this time, Huang Qishan, who had returned to the mainland, heard Zhang Huimei's singer on the sofa at home, and burst into tears.
"Man has changed his heart and does not believe in his words; People break their love, needlessly sad ... So I never mentioned it, so I reflected secretly, and finally I broke free from love. ”
She finally understood that he was determined to leave her.
What the hell am I doing wrong?
How much she cared about the marriage, how sad she was, she suffered from depression and couldn't sleep for a long time.
She no longer dared to listen to the song "Cut Love", and she could no longer hear Tu Huiyuan's name.
Her golfer and CCTV tennis commentator once recorded her life in a blog:
"Huang Qishan always came alone on the court, and two hours later walked away silently with a big bag. She didn't have much brilliance except for the laughter she had when she won, and we sometimes played together, sometimes we talked about tennis, but we just didn't talk about music, which was her favorite and her injury..."
It took many years for Huang Qishan to come out of this failed relationship experience.
A woman who loves her career will never be abandoned
After her divorce, Wong returned to the mainland and picked up music again.
At this time, there were many rising stars in the music industry.
For example, the newly rising Han Hong envies her perfect singing skills.
There is also Na Ying, who debuted at the same time as her, who has held hands with Faye Wong on the Spring Festival Gala and sang "Meet Nine Eight".
They are no longer a grade singer.
Although Gao Xiaosong has also been her music producer, it is a pleasure to listen to her recording.
Although she sang for the 2004 Athens Olympics.
Unfortunately, she abandoned music, which seemed to punish her, and she failed to catch fire.
She slowly faded out of the music scene.
In 2012, when Hong Tao, the director of "I Am a Singer", found her, he saw her "wearing a cotton jacket and black-framed glasses, just like an ordinary middle-aged woman." ”
"I Am a Singer" gang singing session
Huang Qishan, who has not sung for a long time, sang Whitney Houston's "I will always love you" in a KTV in Chongqing, which surprised the audience.
Hong Tao, who was full of tears, immediately settled her.
It was in "I Am a Singer" that Huang Qishan plucked up the courage to sing the song "Cut Love" that Tu Huiyuan originally wrote to her.
It's been 17 years and she feels like she's coming out, but her struggles, chokes, and loss of control show that she still cares.
The scar has scabbed over, and it still hurts to open it again.
She conquered the national audience with this song, but the story behind the song was still unwilling to mention more.
The difference is that at this time she is no longer a disliked housewife, but a highly respected "yellow mother".
Later, she married Zhang Ying, an old acquaintance and music producer. But the marriage lasted only 3 years, and Huang Qishan sued Zhang Ying for domestic violence, and the latter threw out two photos and accused her of cheating.
She finally understood that men are not a necessity of life, but music is.
She cut her long hair, said goodbye to her troubled life and began to focus on her career.
She released her solo music album "Xiaoxia", singing her true face with a gentle singing voice.
(Note: Huang Qishan's original name is Huang Xiaoxia, and her mother calls her Xiaoxia)
Cover of "Xiaoxia"
Later, "Xiaoxia 2.0" was released.
Last year, he also started his own "Hope 30" tour, singing softly all over the country.
In 2023, he debuted at the Spring Festival Gala, and the song "Is a Mother is a Daughter" fulfilled a 40-year dream.
When she doesn't sing, she plays tennis, rides, travels, works out, and lives ordinary middle age hot.
Without men, I can live well alone.
She tells us with her own actions: as long as women actively embrace life, they are not afraid of being abandoned by life.
The so-called getting better is only the result of self-management and has nothing to do with men.
May she get better and better.