Three Girls Parenting Record
Original Part 1
Sanniu's family of five, the eldest is 15 years old, a rebellious adolescent girl, junior high school, facing the middle school entrance examination.
The twin future sisters are 6 years old, kindergarten class, entering the kindergarten stage.
Here's the regular process for our whole family every morning
At 6:15 the alarm went off, my dad and I got up at the same time, he washed first, I went to the kitchen to put a small pot on the stove to boil two eggs, timed for 7 minutes, and then simmered for 2 minutes. The pumpkin millet porridge cooked last night, take 3 minutes to boil over high heat, and put a small part into a small bowl and let cool as soon as possible. Put a large portion of it in a stewed beaker and put it in her dad's shoulder bag.
At 6:30, the girl ate an egg, drank a small bowl of porridge, packed up and went out to ride to school, and arrived at school half an hour later. Mom called the future to get up, if you can save the procedure of lying on the bed, mom can start tying their heads after 5 minutes, and the simple pigtails of the two girls will take 5 minutes at the earliest.
At 6:40, the future began to brush teeth, wash face, drink water, pull the stench, rub incense, etc. A series of cleaning processes, two babies, some actions are double, the time is also double, if everything goes well, you can wear shoes, coats, hats and scarves at 7 o'clock and go out to kindergarten with your father...
However, under normal circumstances, everything is not always so smooth
You're not facing two little robot babies
Everything can be carried forward according to the specified actions and time requirements preset by the program, and the task can be completed.
When lucky, only one of the two babies has the gas to get up
"Mom, why are you helping Weiwei wear socks? Do I want to wear it by myself? It's not fair. ”
"I don't want to get up, I haven't slept enough."
"Why do you always have to go to kindergarten, you are not free to go there, and you have to follow the teacher's orders to do anything."
Or - simply say every word with a crying voice for no reason,
Let you listen to a sentence, and block a point in your heart.
These two human cubs with blood, flesh and personality
Accidents can be created at any time to disrupt your ideal deployment.
So --
Every time you glance at the clock on the wall, your patience with the two girls decreases.
Every time you look at the clock on the wall, the fire in your heart adds a handful of firewood.
Every time you look at the clock on the wall, you imagine that in order to arrive on time, Dad drove a variety of "big moves" and rushed on the road.
Perhaps, you slept well last night, and the quality sleep you just had a night has been fully charged and refreshed, and you are ready to start a brand new day with a good mood.
But more often, you, as a stressed middle-aged mother with mild neurasthenia, only slept for 5 hours, got up with two dark circles, with a tired face, yawning, looking at two various uncooperative children, at this moment, no matter how many books you read to control emotions, how many self-taught principles of not yelling and not raising children, you feel that it is useless.
It's past 7 o'clock
This point is the red line of the time to go out, one side of the line is calm, the other side is madness
You can't bear it.
The lion in his heart who wanted to roar could no longer be trapped and tear and wanted to rush out...
Ah@#¥%...&*~~~~~
Wait, don't worry, this yelling is not me, it's my dad
I was stunned
The two girls were startled and stunned
As a Leo extrovert and quick-tempered mother,
In this family, if there is anyone who tells them, it must be me
Usually, I am the one who expresses my love for them the most
I am the one who sets strict rules for them and supervises their implementation on a daily basis
They love me the most and fear me the most
So, I told them, and under normal circumstances, they didn't react so much
But this time it's Dad-
The dad who told a few stories as he told them
The dad who let a few homemade books be bound to a few
The dad who is not good at words, but responds to his needs
The dad they are least afraid of and the best bully
Dad's roar was effective
The two babies stopped their busy "business" and stood still for 5 seconds
At the same time, a cry broke out that could wake up the whole building
Tears are like strings of handmade bead chains they made in kindergarten, large beads, small beads, falling jade plates...
They were crying and putting on their shoes and they started complaining to their father
"Where is there a dad like you?"
"Do you have no love for your baby at all?"
"Why are you shouting at us?"
"I'm not happy at all now!"
"We never have our own time!"
I was still a little confused, my hand moved first, and I pulled out two tissues to wipe their tears separately.
Kiss in your arms, pat, suppress shock.
For this Aries introverted dad, the role of usually serving as a baby-raising partner
My evaluation is still quite high
100 points out of 100, 90 points are still there, and the other 10 points are deducted objective points (the reaction is always half a beat slower)
It has been two weeks since the start of school, and she is chased by time every day, spinning around like a spinning top
The negative energy that stress becomes keeps converging, coupled with the influence of my bad mood in the morning,
So, the balloon in Dad's stomach exploded
Fortunately, it's not very powerful
In the face of Niu's accusation, his tone has softened,
Bring a hat, scarf and huddle your child out.
Children are like this, the emotions of parents have not yet calmed down,
They have already started discussing who will play the letter repeater first in the car.
The decibel value of the ambient sound at home suddenly dropped, I sat on the sofa to calm down, "enjoy the quiet" for me, now it is like consuming luxury goods, I carefully calculated, I can spend 5 minutes for myself, close my eyes, breathe deeply...
In the soul cloud tour, I thought that I should choose the most useful emotional control book I have read from the e-book as soon as possible and buy it for my father, so that he can stabilize it, after all, he is notoriously good-tempered, in this family calm, the positioning of the sea god needle cannot change, at least to ensure that it will not waver for 30 years.
There is still a long way to go, and we need to support each other, walk and cherish it. I believe that as long as he shows the determination and patience that he did to pursue his PhD ten years ago, we will be able to overcome the difficulties together and have the courage to deal with the next wave of challenges.
After 5 minutes of iQue returning, I rewound my slack state.
This is followed by 33 minutes of aerobics
Take the dopamine that exercise has given me - full of blood resurrection
A busy day at work, here I am...