Alone is a man's party? Heart-wrenching words to these four zodiac signs

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To forget oneself is to be happy.

—Robert Louis Stevenson

Friends, yesterday's Lantern Festival, how did everyone live?

The full moon and the return of the moon always remind us of our hometown, our families, and our reunions. However, this ancient full moon extends to this day, but it is a little different.

"Is the taste of the year fading or is it getting lonely the older you get?"

A week ago, we asked. For the topic of "crushing loneliness", we would like to talk to the 12 signs: What exactly made us land on a lonely desert island?

In that tweet, we chatted with the founding signs —

Aries: Don't stop me from speed Cancer: I envision, if not, just close libra: I want the most just! That's... Not choosing Capricorn: I'm too familiar with the taste of commitment

They say this, they do this, even... I didn't realize that I was doing this, but it was precisely this way that I stepped step by step to the lonely island.

Why do we unconsciously tend to be lonely? Even labeling loneliness as "feelings" is self-proclaimed and even offered to the altar, and he does not tire of talking about the beauty of loneliness.

"Loneliness is different from loneliness, loneliness is beautiful", "Loneliness is an experience that only aristocrats have", "To learn to enjoy loneliness", "The loneliness of two people is not as good as the joy of one person"...

Such arguments are not unfamiliar to us. But friends, beware of the traps here—

Lonely, no problems. But the denial of loneliness, or its opposite—deliberate flaunting—may be problematic.

Unfortunately, behind most of the statements today, they all fall to the second layer. The picture in the city may look like this:

They eat fritters alone in the morning, and the crunch of chewing echoes in the room; they go out of the house and struggle for life in the crowd; they come home alone at night, tired on the phone, and hang up in resentment and dissatisfaction; or, holding french fries and drinking Coke and chasing the drama...

When such "loneliness" is advertised as a trend of the times, is it really what we intend to experience?

Before confirming the position of loneliness, it is perhaps more important to perceive one's own feelings—there is nothing wrong with acknowledging the desire for connection.

Humans themselves are social animals, and even Aquarius and Sagittarius who demand freedom, their higher-order energies for the benefit of others and the guidance of others, also need to be reflected in human relations and group life.

Intimacy and connection are our fundamental needs. According to Maslow's hierarchy of needs, social needs are placed after physiological needs and security needs. That's our need for friendship, love, and affiliation.

To put it more extremely, even for practitioners who pursue renunciation, all kinds of practice are based on the benefit of all sentient beings. The temporary isolation of the people is also for the purpose of establishing the Fa building more extensively in the future, and to purify all sentient beings.

Unfortunately, often, we erect walls for ourselves, keeping abundant resources and flows out of the city.

It was we who chose to push away when we could have opened our arms; it was we who replaced "I need you" with "you are really annoying"; it was we who compressed the area of our soul's room smaller and smaller...

You see, it is the persistence that makes each of our experiences full and complete; but it is also that persistence that blocks the possibility of us to conclude more beautiful experiences, forgetting that "we have never been alone."

As we say today, we want to say to fixed constellations.

For partners who fix the constellation, the path to the island of Lonely Island may lie in a "no" word: do not want to move, do not want to change, do not want to change - for Taurus, Lion, Scorpio, Aquarius, the most common point is the fixed constellation of the way.

They longed for "preservation", longed for "continuation", longed for the consciousness of "existence", and at this point, loneliness was accumulated little by little, and finally turned into the oar, and swung to the island of the isolated island.

Taurus

My "comfort" cannot be disturbed

When you encounter any problem, you always have to find the easiest way to solve it – this is the fatal wound when Taurus deals with relationship problems.

But ah, the human heart is complex, the relationship is complex... Also under the supervision of Venus, Taurus is far less free to switch channels than the other zodiac sign, Libra, who can perceive the hearts of others so lightly and fluently. Can you imagine a bull jumping back and forth on rocks on both sides of the river? Of course not.

Taurus emphasizes "standing firm". But it is precisely this one that "stands firm", which consolidates the "I", and it is difficult to switch again. The taurus's attachment will always see the stone under its feet as real, it is so real, so it must not be lost.

You'll hear a lot of Taurus who have successfully landed on the isolated island saying indifferently: That's it, this is me. I'll leave it at that. And then what? Go to the vegetable market to buy a little leek, go home and silently wrap some leek dumplings yourself, and eat well.

Once taurus has a pattern of life, it is easy to perceive it as a "wealth I have" and not want to lose it. For the fixed Taurus, the remaining option is to passively wait for someone to cut in just right. If the angle of entry is slightly wrong, it will greatly affect the Taurus's interference with the "life comfort" that it has already adjusted.

At this point, as if their diamonds had been devalued, they would drive away the person who caused the "depreciation."

Leo

No...... fail

Many lions end up on an island often related to two things, one is a career setback, and the other is an emotional setback.

The difference is that fewer people go to islands because they hate someone or get tired of something. The deadliest part for them is dignity — setbacks can cause severe trauma.

Lions are clearly not the kind of zodiac signs that will complain or actively seek solutions. After all, if the solution fails, it means putting their heads down, but it is precisely that they are reluctant to do such "low formality" behavior.

If you love me, I can give you everything and guard you like a hero; if you appreciate me and respect me, I am willing to lead you to fulfill all your wishes. But if the lions fail... They would choose to lick their wounds alone and never recover.

Yes, in the face of failure, Leo has a hard time cheering up immediately. If, the lions understand the inevitability and commonality of change, know how to let themselves cross this hurdle, and pursue the ultimate glory... Then the increase in mental strength will inevitably turn the tide of the situation.

Have you ever seen a lion? Even in the forest, they often jump between different rocks and occasionally hover in the lowlands. It's not just about being on top of the curve that you're going to be successful.

It should be added that the love of longing for the focus of others often becomes a fatal wound in the lion relationship.

People are always tired of clapping and praising others, and if we think of such acts as love, it can easily cause harm to the relationship. When lions always hold the desire to be loved and noticed, once the expectations are not met, they feel that there is too little love in the world, and they will inevitably become more and more lonely.

But did you know that loving others without asking for anything in return, you can do better than anyone else?

Scorpio

Face it! Get to the point!

We often hear that Scorpio is the most affectionate, and we often hear that Scorpio is ascetic and lonely. Is this contradictory?

Scorpio is affectionate and often full of deep feelings for his partner, but the most powerful place for Scorpio is not here, but he himself is like a special chemical that will naturally contribute to the profound transformation of those who come close to him.

Yes, there is a discovery in Scorpio nature that is the most hidden from the other person and the least willing to touch the problem. That problem is difficult to solve for a long time, like a lump buried in the heart of the other party, and even by various beautifications and packaging is not willing to face.

And Scorpio? They always want each other to face and complete the transformation. Many people can't stand this kind of molting pain and choose to leave.

Scorpio is also very painful, but ah, in his experience, this is the best way to love each other.

Like a mirror, the people around Scorpio are often easily aware of their problems from Scorpio's speech. This feeling makes people want to leave. If the other person's mind is mature enough, it will naturally be very good; but if it is easy to be impulsive and intellectually insufficient, it is naturally more difficult to get along.

Therefore, what Scorpios need to learn may be the Huairou policy.

Change doesn't have to be so crackling, and it doesn't have to be to the point. Allow anything to happen at its own rhythm, rather than the tip of the needle against the mai mang. "I am a Scorpio" "I have a pin to the point", so it is easy for Scorpios to forget the feelings of others and need to be taken care of.

Not only that, but the scorpion's belly blackness and sensitivity also make it easy for them to see too many dark sides of human nature, and even despair of the human community, so that it is easier to doubt the goodwill and light of others, and thus unwilling to approach. This will also make others feel that it is difficult to get along with the scorpions.

You know, light and darkness are two sides of the same coin. Don't think too complicated, life can be simple. Remember, when you choose to trust the light of others completely, you truly embrace the darkness.

Aquarius

The world should be like this!

"Aquarius likes to be lonely" "Don't be lonely? Isn't that anti-nature?! "I think there must be a lot of people who think of Aquarius in this way.

But yes, Aquarius is by no means a closed constellation. This wind sign is understood by everyone to be lonely, which is simply killing them.

Most of the reasons why Aquarius chose to be isolated are somewhat similar to Scorpio, that is, they think that human nature is ugly.

However, Scorpio's cognition is more of a sense of crisis, vigilance and fear, while the cognition of Aquarius is mostly negative feelings, such as hatred.

It is better to say that Aquarius has alien blood, or that they do not go with the flow... But at the end of the day, Aquarius' destiny is like prometheus stealing fire, and they need to benefit sentient beings. But what about the benefits of closing the door?

You know, a lot of cold-blooded killers have Uranus and a strong Aquarius element, why?

Because they cling to the correctness of their own views – those decency and rules are correct, those principles and "should be" are correct, it is difficult for them to feel each other's mood, and naturally they cannot find an entry point to agree. And under the cold concept of inconsistency, it is true that emotions have nowhere to channel... Therefore, driven by hatred, they may choose negative behavior and feel in their hearts that such behavior is good for each other.

Look at those high-level, full-grown Aquarius, they must be lively social animals, and they remain awake in the group and in relationships, gathering strength and completing their mission.