When we are born, we learn to speak, eager to master more languages and have strong expressive skills. As we grew up, we slowly learned that the more words we said, the better, the more we said, the more nonsense.
When I was a child, I didn't have any scheming, and I could say whatever I wanted. Say wrong, everyone will not blame you, still a child, do not understand. You grew up, you said the wrong thing, you are too unintelligent.
The more people grow up, we gradually understand that speaking is also an art, not what you want to say. It should depend on the occasion, different from person to person, see people talk about people, hell and talk about ghosts.
The more people grow up, there is a kind of cleverness called shut up. Talk less, listen more, listen more to what others say, in order to know what others really think, do not rush to express your opinion. Listening, you can go deeper into the hearts of others, know what others think, and express opinions in a timely manner.
Oniyako "The one who speaks the man, moves; Those who are silent, Shizuya. Because of his words, listen to his words", which means that others are talking, it is moving; Silence and obedience to oneself is silence. Listen to the meaning of what others are saying. Sometimes you have to learn to shut up so that you can hear what others really want to say, not just talk alone. Shut up is a science that knows how to let go of oneself and not rush to show oneself, but to give others the opportunity to show oneself.
There is also an old saying: more words are better than less, if it is not reasonable, one sentence is also too much. It means that no matter how much you speak, if you don't express it correctly, it's nonsense to say more. Sometimes it is not better to speak, but to talk to the point, so that it can play the role of the finishing touch, otherwise it is to add to the snake, it is better not to say.
There is a kind of cleverness called shut up, but we have to learn to shut up at the right time, and then talk at the right time, so that they can communicate with each other, not only make others comfortable, but also get what they want, kill two birds with one stone, why not!
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