#头条创作挑战赛 #
Parents are roots, children are leaves, roots are regular leaves, and rotten roots are withered.
First, the influence of parental adultery on children. I once took a girl to study and it has always been good! Just because his father had a woman outside, let her mother find out, and divorced. The results have plummeted! I talked to her and told her about adults, don't worry about children, just learn your own habits! I still remember her speaking with tears in her eyes. "I just can't figure it out, my dad has always been nice to my mom! It turns out that everything is fake. I used to think that our family was the happiest, I was the happiest, and I worked hard to learn to make them happier. Suddenly, everything is gone! "Later, the child's spirit was not good in class, and sometimes he even cried for no reason. I didn't do well in the college entrance examination, took a high job, and later married into a foreign country. Adultery not only damages one's own well-being, but also has a great impact on one's children. There are too many such tragic cases in society, and I advise the king not to commit adultery for the sake of his children.
Second, the impact of parental killing on children is also huge. I once took a boy who was very smart, tall and handsome. In the class, there is no chaos, but also study, but the grades do not come up, in his words, as soon as I study, I have a headache. I told my father, who was a middle-class state-owned enterprise with a good income, and his mother was also a regular employee of a state-owned enterprise. His father said that the teacher has nothing on my mind at home now, what I want, and I have a good relationship with relatives, friends and neighbors. It is a bad relationship with this child, this child is disobedient, and he does not listen to everything I say. I said I was quite obedient at school! Then I learned that his dad loved fishing and was a fan of it. I called his dad and I said do you like fishing? He said yes, I said that the child will be in the college entrance examination in two years, can we not get off, at least don't drop before the college entrance examination. I told him about the dangers of fishing. His father painfully accepted. The child's situation improved greatly in his second year of high school, and his relationship with his father also improved, and his grades improved by leaps and bounds in high school, and he was later admitted to a key university in the south. His dad called me and said, thank you, teacher, I'm not fishing anymore! Killing, fishing and losing blessings, Wangjun remember!
Three parents gambling, the ancients said, "gambling near thieves, fornication near killing"
Gambling is also fatal to children, and I have a student who is smart and good at learning. His father loved to gamble, the big kind. Later, all the family property was lost and ran away. The child was threatened with accounts all day and had to drop out of school to work in the south. In the south, with his own intelligence and diligence, he also made a career, married a wife and had children, but later he also contracted drug addiction, his wife was separated, and his career was abandoned. I can only live by doing odd jobs. It's really sighing!
A child's success or failure has a lot to do with the behavior of the parents. Parents who are honest, kind, and self-motivated are more likely to succeed in their children. And parents who misbehave, are selfish, and full of vices, most of their children are blessed!