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The man helped his brother repay the mortgage of 3,500 yuan a month, but his wife objected, man: I earned my own money

author:Sister Bao'er who loves life

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There is a girl named Yunmeng, 31 years old, a sales clerk in a clothing store, with a monthly salary of about 4,000 yuan, and her husband has been married for more than 1 year, however, she suddenly discovered a big secret of her husband, this secret made her sleep hard, quarreled many times, but there was no way at all.

It turned out that her husband's name was He Fei, a manager of a company, with an income of about 12,000 yuan, because the income was more than Yunmeng, so he was also arrogant and domineering on weekdays, thinking that he was very remarkable, and felt that his status in the family should be higher than his wife.

After the two got married, Yunmeng asked He Fei to hand over the salary card, but He Fei refused, so the two basically spent their respective salaries, but the oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea at home were all paid by Yunmeng, and He Fei didn't care at all, and went home to eat.

But He Fei is different, he has a younger brother named He Kui, He Kui bought a house, has a mortgage of 3500 yuan a month, and He Kui is in the freshman year, so the 3500 yuan mortgage has always been repaid by He Fei.

Moreover, He Fei will also give his younger brother 1,000 yuan a month for living expenses.

In this regard, Yunmeng can understand the living expenses of her brother, but to help repay the mortgage, Yunmeng does not understand, so she asked He Fei, "Why do you want to pay the mortgage for your brother?" ”

He Fei said, "My parents are not in good health and have no source of income, of course, I came to pay it back, I am such a younger brother, I have a house now, and it is convenient to get married in the future." ”

Yunmeng, "But you spent our husband and wife joint property, have you discussed with me, have I said yes?" ”

He Fei, "The money I earn, why do I want your consent, I can spend it for whoever I want, can you manage it, just take good children at home, there are really many things." ”

For this matter, Yunmeng and He Fei quarreled many times, but to no avail, so Yunmeng angrily went back to her mother's house and talked to her brother about it.

The younger brother said, "Sister, since your brother-in-law disrespects you like this, then you should fight back." ”

The man helped his brother repay the mortgage of 3,500 yuan a month, but his wife objected, man: I earned my own money

Later, the younger brother told Yunmeng about his friend's experience and told his sister that he could follow this method, so that He Fei would no longer dare to give his brother money.

Yun dreamed and said, "There is no way, you can only do this, after all, she is pregnant, and it is not good to mention divorce at this time." ”

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In the following days, Yunmeng never quarreled with He Fei again, no matter who He Fei gave the money to, she didn't ask.

And He Fei also felt strange, in the past, it was basically a small quarrel for 2 days, a big noise for 3 days, but now it's good, the home is clean, he thought that Yunmeng was through, but he didn't know that Yunmeng had his own ideas.

One day, He Fei returned home and wanted to fetch water for bathing, but found that the water pipe was empty, and when he called and asked, he learned that the water bill owed more than 200 yuan and the waterworks were stopped.

Another time, He Fei found that the power at home was out, called to ask, and was told that the electricity bill owed more than 400, and he had not paid it, and he had urged it 3 times, but he still did not pay it, so he stopped.

Another time, the property came over and asked for more than 1,700 yuan in property fees, and the gas bill owed more than 400 yuan for 6 months, and it also stopped.

It was He Fei who returned home, didn't even have food, and asked Yunmeng what was going on, and Yunmeng said, "I don't have any money, I can't afford to buy vegetables." ”

He Fei said, "Are you sick, your salary of more than 4,000 yuan a month, is it not enough to even buy a vegetable or pay a utility bill, where do you spend the money?" ”

In the face of He Fei's questioning, Yunmeng did not care, but said, "My brother just bought a house, there is no money to repay the mortgage, just right, I have a salary of 4,000 yuan a month, so I will pay my brother the mortgage, as for eating, you can figure it out yourself." ”

The man helped his brother repay the mortgage of 3,500 yuan a month, but his wife objected, man: I earned my own money

After listening to Yunmeng's words, He Fei suddenly became angry, he flicked his big hand, he skimmed the cup on the table on the ground, fell the powder, and loudly reprimanded Yunmeng, "I see that your brain is sick, I hear my colleagues say every day, whose daughter-in-law is a brother-in-law who is a brother-in-law who has been making trouble for a long time, I also have a brother-supporting demon at home, do you want to divorce." ”

In the face of He Fei's anger, Yunmeng was still a little afraid, but since the matter had come to this point, she also broke the jar and broke, she said, "Why, you are allowed to pay your brother a mortgage, I can't pay my brother a mortgage, you are too double-standard." ”

He Fei, "How can it be the same, that's my own brother, you are already a married daughter, splashed water, you have no relationship with your family for half a dime, you give your brother more money, it is also a waste, there will be no return." ”

Yunmeng, "Yes, my brother is not a younger brother, your brother is a younger brother, then you pay your brother the mortgage, what can you return, you tell me." ”

He Fei, "When my brother graduates and earns money, he will be able to honor my parents, won't this share the pressure for me?" ”

Yunmeng, "First of all, you have to make it clear that your brother honors your parents and has nothing to do with me. Secondly, my brother married his daughter-in-law, life is better, he can also honor my parents, relieve me of pressure, finally, if you want to divorce, I will accompany you to the end, tomorrow, no, today you can go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to apply. ”

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After that, Yunmeng went back to her mother's house, Ren's father-in-law and mother-in-law called many times, came to the door with gifts to apologize, Yunmeng just didn't go back.

And she also has her confidence, the 180,000 bride price money is still in her hands, and she is still 6 months pregnant, her father-in-law and mother-in-law are still very distressed.

In the end, after many negotiations, the father-in-law and mother-in-law promised to sell their youngest son's house and return the mortgage they had paid, and He Fei also promised to hand over 5,000 yuan to Yunmeng every month, and the dispute was over.

Yunmeng just went home, in fact, her money was not given to her brother, she just said so, but it seems that she fought for her own interests and won, didn't she?

The man helped his brother repay the mortgage of 3,500 yuan a month, but his wife objected, man: I earned my own money

Conclusion:

Thank you for watching, the story created by Bao'er sister.

So, if you are Yunmeng, do you think she is right to do this? Or is it better to divorce?

Everyone is welcome to comment.