There are such people around, after the 90s, she gave birth to a daughter in one marriage, and also gave birth to a daughter in her second marriage, and now she wants to have a son, and she is pregnant again, so that she likes it, the economic conditions at home are not good, she said that as long as she is fed and clothed, she will do it. I only care about giving birth, I only want it, and I don't care about anything else, what if a child comes out in the future? This kind of gambling and lottery life, do children want it?
In such a society with serious involvement, the cost of raising a child is too large, from the prenatal examination of pregnancy, milk powder after birth, diapers, the child's older need to go to tutoring classes and various expenses, are visible pressure, if you give birth to a baby in a hurry without considering everything, you can't give him better educational conditions, put your hopes on the child, let the child change their fate, so it is quite cruel to think about the child.
Mr. Lu Xun once said, "A Chinese child only needs to be born, whether he is good or not; As long as there are many, it doesn't matter if he is talented or not. He who gave birth to him is not responsible for teaching him. Many of these people are only wandering around the world. When I was young, I didn't treat him as a person, and when I was older, I couldn't be a person. "When I was a child, I especially didn't like Lu Xun, and the words were awkward and had to be memorized, but now I especially admire Brother Xun, see the problem to the point, and read his articles and want to knock him two.
To have a child is how much courage it takes to bring him into this world, to teach him to survive, to learn to be happy, to learn to be human. It's a pity that I didn't prepare myself and lived in a muddle. I have always believed that there are no bad boys, and bad children teach bad. Lucky people, since childhood someone has been taught how to do right, unfortunate people, all the time, trial and error, hit the head to break the blood to know what is right and wrong.
Zhang Ailing said: If a child is born to inherit his own labor and panic poverty, then not giving birth is also a kind of kindness. Indeed, when he is ready to meet a new life, he can provide him with a happy life, guide him to be positive, and support him for a piece of the sky, reproducing children is a manifestation of responsibility for himself, but also responsible for children.
May every child be born in a happy environment.