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Miao Miao was exposed to a deformed view of marriage! Let his parents live in the marriage room, and his sister take him with him, Zheng Kai's patience is to the limit

Some time ago, Tomato Jun used the divorce variety show "Goodbye Lover 2" to share with everyone a suffocating star wife - Zhang Wanting.

After many netizens saw her "strange" behavior in the show, they expressed their incomprehension for her contradictory marital behavior.

I thought that a wife like Zhang Wanting who loved her husband deeply in her heart and completely hurt her husband in action was not common in life.

But the hit of "Wife's Romantic Trip" made Tomato Jun see a wife again, saying love to her husband in her mouth, but suffocating in action.

This wife is the previously highly acclaimed "Feng girl" and the heroine of "Fang Hua" - Miao Miao.

Miao Miao was exposed to a deformed view of marriage! Let his parents live in the marriage room, and his sister take him with him, Zheng Kai's patience is to the limit

The reason why Tomato Jun compares the docile Miao Miao with Zhang Wanting, who is a little explosive, has to start with the latest issue of "Wife's Romantic Trip".

In order to test the intimacy between husband and wife, the program team chose a game of "untangling yarn" and let 4 pairs of guests compete.

As a result, Miao Miao broke down emotionally because Zheng Kai did not do what she asked in the process of the game.

Not only did she change her face several times during the game, but she also forcibly rolled together two balls of yarn that should have been separated near the end of the game.

Even if Zheng Kai impatiently said that husband and wife should keep an appropriate distance in marriage, she still cried and complained that the two people who were married were bound together at all times.

At this point, a small test directly exposed the deep contradiction between the two - the man longs for freedom, and the woman forcibly attaches to it.

This kind of suffocating marriage relationship has inevitably transformed the image of a "good" wife that Miao Miao had previously established in front of the public into a "woman" who did not give her husband space because she was overly dependent.

In fact, this is not the first time that Miao Miao has shown her sticky and insecure side in the show, and before that, many viewers discovered her character weaknesses.

For example, if there is a conflict and divorce with Zheng Kai, she will directly throw the pot to her parents, saying that they often quarrel, which gives her a psychological shadow.

For example, if she can't get along with the other three pairs of guests, she will directly throw the pot to the past experience.

It's not that I was isolated when I went to school, or that I was betrayed when I was filming.

In short, no matter what shortcomings she exposed in the show, she seems to be able to use past pain to find a reasonable explanation for her behavior.

In this way, once or twice will make people sympathetic, but three or four times will make people repudiated, after all, people should find more ways to solve current problems, rather than frequently using the past as an excuse.

This is also why, "Wife's Romantic Trip" not only did not make Miao Miao win a better reputation, but also made her lose a lot of popularity.

Moreover, even her marriage with Zheng Kai is not optimistic about many audiences.

The audience will have these views, which are related to Miao Miao's personality shortcomings exposed in the show, and also related to the exposure of their relationship mode in marriage to the public.

Long before they participated in this romance show, because of the independent image in "Fang Hua" and the indisputable character in real life, many viewers had a layer of filter on Miao Miao.

Even, some netizens also love the house and Wudi like Zheng Kai.

You know, before the relationship with Miao Miao was exposed, Zheng Kai was a well-known "little cheetah in the love field".

His classmate Du Jiang once broke the news on the show that when he was in college, he made several girlfriends, and often asked various girls to go to nightclubs to drink and bungee in the name of "buddies".

After work, Zheng Kai has a continuous love history, but the most well-known is his sweet love with the wealthy Cheng Xiaoyue.

The two sprinkled countless dog food in another romance show "Let's Love Each Other".

Whether it is, the two do aerial yoga "intimately",

Miao Miao was exposed to a deformed view of marriage! Let his parents live in the marriage room, and his sister take him with him, Zheng Kai's patience is to the limit

Or Zheng Kai carefully sprinkled the room with roses,

Or swear to promise in front of the woman's parents, Zheng Kai's behavior will make people have the illusion that Cheng Xiaoyue will not marry.

But these illusions did not last long, and the relationship between the two came to an end with the end of the show.

All this made Zheng Kai bear the stigma of "prodigal son of love".

Just when everyone thought that Zheng Kai, who could play and be greedy, would be riddled with scandals sooner or later, he actually entered into marriage with Miao Miao, who had a very good relationship with passers-by.

To be honest, compared with Cheng Xiaoyue's identity as Bai Fumei, Miao Miao, who was born in a cold family, is an "ugly duckling" who is like a fake bag.

But it was such an inconspicuous civilian girl who quickly won the "Little Prince of Nightclubs" within a year.

On May 21, 2020, when the two officially announced their marriage, Miao Miao was already 5 months pregnant.

What is even more surprising is that Miao Miao gave birth to a second child non-stop in the third year of marriage, and then put all her energy into the family.

Her spirit of sacrificing her career for the sake of her family, as well as her behavior of often defending her husband in public, made netizens make up a lot of touching stories of Zheng Kai "turning back for the prodigal son" for love.

Especially netizens who have seen their family's daily life on social platforms will sigh at Miao Miao's virtuous Shude and Zheng Kai's post-marriage changes.

But this exclamation only exists in their incomplete display on social platforms.

Once their daily lives are magnified on the lens for the public to see, everyone will have a new understanding of their relationship.

Moreover, unlike in the early days of their marriage, many people liked Zheng Kai because of their good impression of Miao Miao.

After the marriage of the two was exposed to "Wife's Romantic Trip", many people felt suffocated for Zheng Kai because of the change in their views on Miao Miao.

Even, many people feel that Zheng Kai, who is free by nature, was forcibly dragged into an "unhealthy" marriage by Miao Miao.

The reason why the audience has such a view has to start with the "deformed view of marriage" shown by Miao Miao in the program.

Before participating in the show, many viewers knew that Miao Miao was a traditional woman who took care of the family, but at that time, everyone thought that she was caring for the small family formed by her and Zheng Kai.

But after participating in the show, the audience knew that Miao Miao cared far more than marriage and family, but also the original family.

Despite her crying on the show, her parents brought her a lot of pain in her childhood.

But after getting married, she actually brought her parents, her adult sister, and her own dog to live in the marriage room under Zheng Kai's name.

Miao Miao did not feel anything wrong with this behavior, but naturally said that my mother was here to help me with the child.

And Zheng Kai also accepted the married life of living with his mother-in-law and traveling with his sister-in-law under the "coercion" of Miao Miao, even if he complained about it.

No wonder some netizens ridiculed, if dogs are also family, Miao Miao's family of 5 has long become a "parasite" attached to Zheng Kai and lived.

And Zheng Kai, who is free by nature, has been nicknamed by everyone more than once since he was in this family relationship, and he carried a house to be a "son-in-law who plugged the door upside down".

In this regard, although Zheng Kai said that he would be grateful for the arrival of his parents-in-law, anyone with discerning eyes could see that his increasingly unbalanced marriage with Miao Miao had long been in danger.

He would be extremely proud to say that his mother would prefer to enjoy an independent old age and would not live with him.

will also say helplessly that almost all of his sister-in-law's schooling is handled by him.

And when he and Miao Miao get along, no matter how sweet and coquettish the other party is, his state of often not waking up seems to show his hidden careful thoughts.

What's more, after the two got married, he was indeed exposed to pictures of intimate contact with beautiful women in nightclubs.

In the interview, Miao Miao, who claimed to have seen all of Zheng Kai's interviews and works, is comparable to Sherlock Holmes, and she will definitely not know these things, but she chooses to believe it unilaterally.

But in her belief, there is only unlimited attachment, and some of the independence that women should have in married life are missing.

I hope that after participating in "Wife's Romantic Trip", she can reflect on this and make changes in time, otherwise, their marriage is bound to encounter more severe tests.

Conclusion: A good marriage needs to keep a certain distance from the original family

The marriage of Miao Miao and Zheng Kai exposed many problems in "Wife's Romantic Trip", such as Miao Miao's deformed view of marriage, inferiority personality, dependence on love, and Zheng Kai's impatience.

These problems will indeed have a certain impact on their marriage, but in Tomato Jun's view, this is not a problem of principle.

As long as they are willing to work together and are willing to draw good nutrients from the relationship, these problems do not touch the root of marriage.

The only thing that makes Tomato Jun worry about their marriage is Miao Miao's deformed view of marriage - bringing the original family into the marriage family.

In particular, in her narration, there are still many contradictions in her native family.

And the facts also show that netizens have also found a series of slightly deformed phenomena in many of her life photos.

For example, in the photo of Miao Miao and Zheng Kai, the younger sister will appear frequently.

Even when traveling and meeting friends, my sister will follow inseparably.

In the group photo of the whole family, many people mistook Miao Miao's mother and Zheng Kai's father for a couple.

More sharp-eyed netizens found that Zheng Kai always looked very restrained in front of Miao Miao's family, and he went home like visiting relatives and friends.

All this makes the marriage and family, which should have been relaxed, get along a lot more awkward and unnatural, and it is no wonder that some people say that if they are Zheng Kai, they will definitely not want to go home.

Taking advantage of Miao Miao and Zheng Kai's mode of getting along in marriage, Tomato Jun wants to give a piece of advice to all married people: if you want to maintain a good marriage relationship, please learn to keep a certain distance from your original family.

The distance mentioned here is by no means a knife cut, but it means to maintain a certain degree of independence in one's marriage and family as much as possible.

Because cutting the unreasonable and chaotic interpersonal relationship will inevitably affect the relationship between husband and wife, and a long-term and stable husband and wife relationship is bound to require the continuous running-in of the two.

If you don't run in now, you will have to run in in the future, and the later the day of running-in, the longer you will remain polite and forbearing, and the greater the chance that the relationship will collapse.

Therefore, we must learn to take responsibility in an independent marriage and family as soon as possible while there is still passion and love for each other.

Don't wait until the day when you look at each other, only to realize that the two have never found an equal position in a relatively independent marriage and family.

(Movie Rotten Tomatoes Editorial Office: Zihan)

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