The plastic surgery and beauty industry has begun to be favored by more and more young people, because it can make up for its innate deficiencies through surgery and make itself more beautiful, but I don't know when it began, some people began to pursue plastic surgery, and even dozens of surgeries are not satisfied, they have become a bit morbid; just imagine, if the children in the fancy age are affected by this atmosphere and become distorted, how serious it is.
Xiao Wang once had several surgeries because of her lack of appearance, the effect was ideal, but she always felt that she could still look better, after opening the corner of her eyes, she felt that the bridge of the nose was too low, began to pad the nose, the nose pad was high and felt that the proportion of the face was not coordinated, began to cut the face, after the face was good, and wanted to make her lips more plump, so again and again in her face moved a knife and a knife, and finally many people around her, including her parents, felt that she was more and more like a "snake essence", it was not good- But she felt that she was becoming more and more beautiful, and it was other people's aesthetic problems. This is a typical example of the one-sided pursuit of outward beauty due to the lack of correct ideals and three views of education, denying the original beautiful self, and unilaterally pursuing the beauty of plastic surgery, parents must take this as a warning and correctly educate their children to find their own life positioning.
1. Cultivate children's temperament
"There is a book in the belly." It is said that what kind of cultivation a person has what kind of aura, knowledge is the magic weapon to modify a person, rather than blindly pursuing external perfection, it is better to read more books to fill the internal deficiencies, which is more long-term than relying on external victory; in addition to allowing children to continue to learn new knowledge, parents can cultivate different interests and hobbies, these talents can make children become more dazzling.
2. Body culture
Parents should pay more attention to the shape of their children, such as sitting, standing, walking, etc. In addition to cultivating children's shapes to make them more decent in the eyes of others, it is also conducive to the development of their bones, to know that the wrong posture is likely to affect the child's bones, and it is more difficult to correct it after adult stereotyping. Therefore, parents should pay attention when their children are young, and if they find any problems, correct them in time.
3. Conceptual education
The shaping of the three views will affect a person's life, and only by having the correct three views can we take a good road in life. The shaping of the three views is continuously carried out with the growth of children, and parents must correctly guide their children in this process to help children cultivate a sound three views. We must not let some evil tendencies and evil tendencies take advantage of the void and have a negative impact on the growth of children.
4. Rich spiritual life
Children who have their own pursuits will not be confused by these things, and they will use their limited time to do what they really want to do. Therefore, parents should learn to tap their children's potential, encourage and support their children to do what they like, and can also participate in it, which is of great benefit to their children's growth.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to become beautiful, and everyone has the heart to love beauty. Compared with the beauty of the appearance, the inner fullness is more important, cheerful personality, sound personality, outstanding ability, these are the things that should be pursued, blindly pursuing external perfection, not only will cause damage to their own body, but also make parents worry, it is not advisable.