Each couple should be very concerned about the length of the love period, after all, this relationship is related to the progress of the development of the relationship between the two. Many people say that the progress of the hot love period is very fast, that kind of small throbbing, small sweetness is very mysterious and rare. It is these rare psychological reactions that promote the further development of the relationship between the two, so the length of the hot love period has become a topic that couples are concerned about.
The "three-month hypothesis"? A friend asked me the other day, "Isn't the period of hot love three months?" "Do you all have the same concept?" Is the love period really 3 months? Three months is not short, but it is not very long, after all, if two people want to go to the palace of marriage and there is still a long way to go, then 3 months is very insignificant.
In fact, the hot love period is not limited to 3 months, and the length of the hot love period is absolutely controllable. So let's not limit it to numbers like 3 months or 5 months. Because such numbers tend to make us set limits on the period of love. Among the couples in the hot love period, the boys are happy to take care of the girls tirelessly, and the girls also enjoy such care, such a sweet and comfortable time, anyone wants to extend it indefinitely! So how to extend the warm period has become a topic of common discussion.
Small surprises – not necessarily a gift to be a surprise. In the process of getting along with couples, we are often full of enthusiasm for a period of time in the front, and then we begin to get used to it, and everything that happens in love is taken for granted, or it is already accustomed to it, which is also a major reason for the acceleration of the disappearance of the love period. In this way, it takes some small "means" to retain the feeling of hot love. Preparing small surprises from time to time is a very common method. The little surprises here are not limited to the gifts we buy, but often the things we make our own hands are more meaningful. In addition to preparing small surprises, we must also learn to create surprises for our own love. For example, the bento brought by TA today is a very ordinary tomato scrambled egg, although it is a very simple dish, but if we give it meaning, then its taste will become extremely special. We can use this to praise each other's cooking skills and thank each other for their efforts. These are all great ways to stay in love!
Praise – Don't skimp on your compliments. I believe that everyone has heard of the term psychological cues, in fact, there is a certain truth. If you want the other person to be what they want to be, then praise them in this direction. Over time, you will find that the TA has really become what you want to see. And daily praise will also enhance each other's self-confidence, the United States once had a variety show, did an experiment on this. After 50 days of praising a woman, her temperament has really changed.
So don't skimp on praise, always maintain an appreciative attitude towards him, you will find that the length of the love period is controlled by yourself!
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